Abantu basezikhathini zasendulo babehlanganyela ekwakheni amaphupho, becabanga ukuthi zonke izithombe zibukwa ulwazi oluyimfihlo. Konke lokhu kubangela ukuba khona kwezincwadi eziningi zokuphupha. Ukuze uwasebenzise ngendlela efanele, kubalulekile ukuhlaziya ngokucophelela leli phupho kusengaphambili, ucabange yonke imininingwane.
Yini ihovini iphupha ngayo?
Iphupho, lapho isithando somlilo sasibomvu, sibonisa ukuvumelana nothando. Ihhavini elivuthayo ngokwezincwadi eziningi zephupho libonisa umuntu ukufudumala ekhaya nokududuza. Sizokwazi ukuthi yini isitofu esinamafutha aseRashiya amaphupho, ngakho-ke luphawu lwempilo enhle nokuthuthukiswa kwesimo sezinto ezibonakalayo. Umbono ebusuku, lapho into esemqoka kwakuyisitofu esanda kwakhiwa, uprofetha impilo ejabulisayo. Uma isithando somlilo sabuyiselwa, kusho ukuthi maduzane kuzokwenzeka ukubuyisela ukuxhumana okulahlekile. Ukubona isithando esithintekayo ephusheni kuwuphawu oluhle, olufanekisela izinguquko ezinhle ekuphileni. Uma le ntombazane ibona ukuthi isithando somlilo sehlile kanjani, kusho ukuthi kubalulekile ukulindela ukukhulelwa okusheshayo. Isitofu saseRashiya lasendulo kubhekwa njengengqungquthela yomhlangano nomngane omdala. Iphupho, lapho kubonakala khona isithando esiphelile, sibonisa ukuthi lowo mphupho uziphatha ngokungalungile nabantu abaseduze futhi lokhu kubangela izingxabano eziningi.
Kungani ukuphuza ukubeka isitofu?
Iphupho elinjalo liyisibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa ukuba khona kwenhlanhla ezimweni eziningi. Iphupho lingalindela ukugcwaliseka kwephupho elibalulekile. Uma kwadingeka ubukele ukuthi omunye umuntu ugcoba kanjani isitofu, ubeka ubuhlobo obuhle nabangani. Sizobona ukuthi kunjani ukushisa isitofu ngezikhuni, ngakho-ke isakhiwo esifanayo sisho ukuthi kungekudala kuzokwenzeka ukuthuthukisa isikhundla sezimali futhi kufinyelele impumelelo ebhizinisini. Ngowesifazane iphupho elinjalo lithembise ukuhlangana nendoda enothando. Uma lowo ophuphayo engase ancibilikise isitofu, kodwa, naphezu kwalokhu, uyaqhubeka ebeka izinkuni - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuba khona kwezinkinga emndenini.