Ngingazi kanjani ukuthi zingaki izingane ezizoba khona?

Noma yimuphi intombazane, njengomama ozayo, uyazi ukuthi zingaki izingane ezizobe nazo. Yiqiniso, lokhu kuxhomeke kwizizathu eziningi, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzokwazi ukubikezela inombolo yezingane zakho ngokuqondile ngokuphelele. Noma kunjalo, umuntu angazama ukuqagela inombolo yakhe ngesisekelo seyodwa yezindlela eziphakanyisiwe ngezansi.

Ungatshela kanjani ukuthi intombazane iyoba nengane kangakanani?

Njengoba uqonda, zonke lezi zindlela zinomlingiswa we-pseudoscience, ngoba amathuba okuthola ikusasa, esikhathini sethu, angakanikeza izimpendulo ezithembekile. Kodwa akudingekile ukuthi uxhumane nabahlomulayo abathatha imali eningi kumasevisi abo - zama ukukwenza ngokwakho, ukhethe noma iyiphi indlela oyithandayo:

1. Uyazi kanjani ukuthi zingaki izingane ezizobe zisesandleni sakho, isibalo sakho noma isibindi?

Esandleni somuntu ngamunye kunomugqa obizwa ngokuthi umshado. Lezi yiminyango enezingqimba ezingalweni, esezansi nje komunwe omncane. Banama-dashes amancane aqondile, okusho izingane. Bheka eduze isandla sakho (ukuqagela ngokuvamile kulungile), futhi ungakwazi kalula ukubala inani lezindlalifa zakho zesikhathi esizayo.

Khumbula ukuthi kungaba nemigqa eminingana yomshado, bese inani lezingane ezizalwa ngamadoda ahlukene lizohluka: emgqeni ngamunye ogcwele kunezindlela eziqondile.

Ngamahlumela esikhwameni sakho, ungabona futhi ukuthi uzoba umama kaningi kangakanani. Cindezela isandla sakho sokunene esiqini, bese uchofoza iphuzu elisendaweni ephakathi komugqa oseduze nesandla (esibizwa ngokuthi ibhande likaVenus). Njengomphumela walesi senzo, entendeni yesandla ngenhla nje kule ndawo kuzovela izigaxa ezihambelana nosayizi lwenzalo yakho yesikhathi esizayo.

Ngokufanayo, bheka imigqa "yezingane" ngemuva kwesandla esiboshwe izandla - zingaphansi komunwe omncane.

Kodwa-ke, yonke le migqa nemigqa ayiphenduli ngaso sonke isikhathi umbuzo onikeziwe, ngoba ibuye ikhombise inani lokuhlukumeza nokukhipha isisu;

2. Njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, ungakwazi ukwazi ngokunembile ukuthi zingaki izingane ezizobe zikhona ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwezinkanyezi - nakuba le nketho ngeke ibe yinto yokugcina. Ukuze uthole isibalo esinjalo sezinombolo, udinga ukwazi "inombolo" yakho kusuka ku-1 kuya ku-9: fingqa zonke izibalo zosuku lwakho lokuzalwa kanye nenani eliphelele lezingane emndenini lapho ukhule khona. Bese uhlanganisa izinombolo ezimbili ezihlangene ukuze uthole inombolo efunayo, bese ufunda incazelo yalo:

• 1 - kunethuba lokuba umama wezingane eziningi noma ukuba nezinsizwa eziningana nokukhipha izisu - konke kuxhomeke ekukhethweni kowesifazane;
• 2 - kuyoba khona eyodwa encane kuphela;
• 3 - owesifazane cishe ngeke athole umbhangqwana wakhe, ngakho-ke ngeke abe nomntwana noma uzobeletha eyodwa;
• 4 - izingane ezimbili zezobulili ezahlukene;
• 5 - ithuba lokuba mkhulu futhi / noma ukubeletha amawele;
• 6 - izingane eziningi ezivela kumadoda ahlukene;
• 7 - izingane ngeke zibe ngenxa ye-egomania enkulukazi yowesifazane, noma kuyoba khona eyodwa kuphela;
• 8 - Ukwamukelwa kungase kufike;
• 9 - kuzoba nezingane ezimbili, uma izimo zokuphila (umsebenzi, isimo sezezimali) zingaphazamisi.

Ngakho, zibophe ngentambo kanye nenaliti evamile yokuthunga. Intambo kumele ibe yinde, imhlophe. Yigxile esweni lensaliti, thatha isihloko bese uyiphakamisa phezu kwesandla sakho sokunene. Ngokuphindwe kathathu, wehlisa inaliti emgqeni esikhaleni phakathi kwesithupha nomunwe wenkomba, bese uyiphakamisa futhi ugcine "ukuziphatha" kwenaliti. Ingakwazi ukugijima ngezindlela ezihlukene, futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi unomfana, noma wenze ukunyakaza okuyisigungu - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokubonakala kwentombazane. Emva kwendlela ngayinye, phinda inqubo, uphinde wehlisa inaliti phakathi kweminwe, bese uqala ukubhula. Lapho inaliti ibonisa ukuthi zingaki izingane ezizobe sezikuphelile, kuzothathwa iqhwa endaweni;

Ukuphatha inhlanhla enjalo, khumbula ukuthi imiphumela yabo ingahluka. Futhi ungathola kuphela ukuthi zingaki izingane onayo empilweni yangempela.