Uma uthanda ukuthunga, ukusika noma ukubopha, empeleni, ufuna ukuhlinzeka ngemikhiqizo eyenziwe ngezandla nengane yakho yesikhathi esizayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, esimweni "esithakazelisayo" omama abaningi banesikhathi esengeziwe, ngakho ukuhlobisa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kungaba yinto eyodwa yokuzilibazisa okuthandayo. Kodwa hhayi lapha bekukhona. Uma nje uthatha intambo nenaliti, uzokuzwa ekhelini lakho eziningi zokuhlambalaza kusuka kunogogo, umama kanye nezintombi ngesihloko sokugqoka, ukuthunga nokubopha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kuyinto embi.
Umlando wezinkolelo-ze
Umbuzo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthunga nokugqoka abesifazane besifazane abakhulelwe, omama abaningi abazayo bayamangala. Ngenhlanhla, imithi yendabuko kulokhu inikeza impendulo engalungile. Umlando wezinkolelo-ze, kungani kungenakwenzeka ukukhipha abesifazane abakhulelwe, kuvela esikhathini esedlule, lapho ulwazi lwezokwelapha lungafaneleki, iziqu zoodokotela zingaphansi, futhi konke okubi okwenzekile ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nengane kuhlotshaniswa nalokho okwenziwa owesifazane.
Ugogo bethu babeqiniseka ukuthi ukubopha, ukugqoka nokuthunga "ukuthungatha" indlela yengane kuleli zwe, futhi kusiza ukufaka ingane emthonjeni . Azikho izizathu zalesi sitatimende ngokwalo, ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi uhlanganyele emaseleni omama okhulelwe njengoba kunesidingo.
Izici zomsebenzi wamasosha omama abalindele
Ngakho-ke, uma uthola impendulo enhle embuzweni ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuhlanganisa abesifazane abakhulelwe , ukubopha ngesiphambano, ubuhlalu, ukuthunga, ungathatha ibhizinisi lakho ozithandayo ngokuphepha. Ungakhohlwa ukuvuka uphinde uhambe njalo emaminithini angu-30-40, njengoba kunoma yisiphi ukuthunga umsebenzi ohlala phansi ongakwazi ukufaka isandla ekuphuleni kwegazi, ngakho-ke thatha umthetho - ngezinye izikhathi wenze ukuqeqeshwa okuncane. Uma usebenzela umshini wokuthunga, bukela ukuziphatha kwengane, angase angathandi ukudlidliza. Ngentokozo encane, qeda ukusebenza noma ushintshe isikhundla.