Yini eyenza ukuthi kuthinte umklamo?
Okokuqala, kuyadingeka ukuthi usho ukuthi kunini isikhathi okudingekayo ukuba ucansi ukuze ukhulelwe. Ngakho-ke, odokotela batusa ukwenza uthando zonke izinsuku, cishe izinsuku ezingu-5 ngaphambi kokuvota kanye nosuku olulandelayo emva kwalo. Ngalesi sikhathi ukukhulelwa kungenzeka . Ngakho-ke, kungcono uma owesifazane eyazi kahle ukuthi yisiphi isikhathi sokuvuthwa komzimba wakhe. Kulula kakhulu ukuyifaka ngosizo lwezivivinyo ezikhethekile ezifana nalabo asetshenziselwa ukunquma ukukhulelwa.
Kuyafaneleka futhi ukucabangela iqiniso elilandelayo. Ososayensi bathole ukuthi isidoda emzimbeni wesilisa akusiyo njalo esebenza ngokulinganayo usuku lonke. Ukuphakama kokuhamba kwabo kubonakala cishe cishe ngo-17.00, i.s. ntambama. Lesi sikhathi sihle kakhulu ekukhulelwe.
Manje ake sikhulume ngokuqondile ukuthi iyiphi indawo elula ukukhulelwa. Abacansi bezocansi, lapho bephendula lo mbuzo, okokuqala baqaphele ukuthi abalingani bocansi kumele basebenzise kuphela lezo zikhundla ezibajabulisa nokuzijabulisa. Kulesi simo, kubalulekile ukuqeda ngokuphelele ukucindezeleka okuhlangenwe nakho. Phela, ngokuzibonakalisa kubonakala ukuthi imibhangqwana eminingi ifunda ukuthi maduzane bayoba nomntwana, ngokushesha ngemuva kokuphumula e-resort.
Okubaluleke kunazo zonke kwezocansi, ukuze ukhulelwe, kubhekwa njengalokhu okulandelayo:
- "Owesifazane ovela ngaphansi";
- "I-knee-elbow";
- "Indoda yangasemuva, owesifazane ohlangothini lwakhe."
Njengoba kungabonakala ohlwini olubalulwe ngenhla, kubalulekile ukunikeza okuthandayo kulezo zikhundla lapho ukuqhuma okuvela emgodini wesisu kungenzeki. Ngamanye amazwi, kubalulekile ukukhipha lezo zinto, uma usebenzisa lowo wesifazane "phezulu". Umsebenzi wendoda ukuqinisekisa ukungena kwesidumbu esiswini, okwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa kweqanda.
Yini okufanele icatshangelwe lapho uhlela ukukhulelwa phambi kwezici zesimo sezitho zokuzala?
Ngakho-ke, ukuze ukhulelwe ukugaya kwesibeletho, kungcono ukusebenzisa "i-knee-elbow" kusukela ekuphumeni. Ukusetshenziswa kwalokhu ukubekezela ngesikhathi socansi kukwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa, kodwa akuqinisekisi ukuthi u-100% wokukhulelwa.
Kulezo zimo lapho umlomo wesibeletho utholakala khona ophakeme kunalokho obekiwe, kungcono ukusebenzisa insizwa lapho owesifazane elele khona, nomuntu ovela phezulu ("isithunywa sevangeli").
Ngakho-ke, kufanele kushiwo ukuthi ukuze ukhulelwe masinyane, kubalulekile ukuthi ukhethe ukukhulelwa lezo zimo lapho owesifazane evela khona ngezansi, njengokuthi "isithunywa sevangeli", isibonelo. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akusho ukuthi ukwenza uthando kulokhu kufanele kube uhlobo oluthile lokusebenzisa "imiyalelo." Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi kungcono ukusebenzisa lezo zikhundla ezinikeza abashadile injabulo enkulu, futhi ngokushesha ngaphambi kokuba i-ejaculation ishintshe i-pose ibe yinto enhle kakhulu ekukhulelwe. Ngamanye amazwi, abalingani ngokwabo kumele bakhethe kusiphi isikhundla abakhetha ukulala nabo ukuze bakhulelwe ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Kodwa nokho ngeke kube okungadingekile ukucabangela izincomo ezingenhla. Phela, azisekelwe kuphela ekuziphatheni komzimba wesifazane, kodwa nangesipiliyoni semibhangqwana, emva kokusetshenziswa okusebenzayo, ikhulelwe ingane.