Kusho ukuthini "ukubekezelelana"? Ingabe wonke umuntu owanelisayo uzokwazi ukuphendula umbuzo onjalo? Ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ukuthi izwe lanamuhla lisho kakhulu abantu ababekezelayo.
Ukwakhiwa kokubekezelelana
Ukubekezela ukubekezela ngokuphathelene nombono ohlukile, indlela yokuphila , ukuziphatha, amasiko. Ama-synonyms alo mqondo afaka ukuhlonipha.
Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi kuwo wonke umuntu uzalwa ngesikhathi sokuqala, ngesikhathi izimiso zokuziphatha, imibono yokuhle nokubi ishiwo. Yiqiniso, ekuphileni komdala ungahlakulela le mfanelo. Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yalezi zinguquko kuzodingeka ukuthi wenze imizamo emikhulu.
Izinhlobo zokubekezelelana
- Indalo . Hlola ngokucophelela izingane. Zibonakala ngokuthembela nokuvuleka ezweni elibazungezile. Bamukela abazali babo njengoba kunjalo. Lokhu kubangelwa ukuthi abazange bathuthukise imodeli yokuziphatha eyodwa, inqubo yokwakheka komuntu ayidlulile.
- Ukubekezelelana kwezenkolo . Kuhilela ukubonisa inhlonipho ngabantu abangewona inkolo yakho. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi inkinga yalolu hlobo lokubekezelelana yavela esikhathini esendulo.
- Ukuziphatha . Uvame kangakanani ukuvimbela imizwelo yakho, ukusebenzisa ukuvikelwa kwengqondo ngokuphathelene nomxhumanisi ongathandeki kuwe? Lokhu kubhekisela kulolu hlobo lokubekezela. Ngezinye izikhathi indoda ibonisa ukubekezela, kodwa ngaphakathi kwayo intukuthelo engokomzwelo iqhuma ngenxa yokuthi ukukhuliswa kwakhe akumvumeli ukuba enze njengoba umphefumulo ufisa.
- Ukubekezela kobulili . Kuthatha isimo sengqondo sokungakhethi ngokuqondene nabameleli bobulili obuhlukile. Ezweni lanamuhla, inkinga yokubekezelelana ngokobulili ngokuphathelene
ukukhethwa komuntu indima yakhe emphakathini, njll. Lokhu kuvame ukuvela njengomphumela wokungazi kunokungazi izimo ezibangelwa ukwakheka kobulili . Isibonelo, okwamanje kunenani elikhulu labantu abazondayo abantu abangqingili ngenzondo. - Ukubekezelelana okungenasisindo . Kuyinto yokubonakaliswa kokubekezela kwezinye izizwe, izizwe. Ngokuvamile, izinkinga zokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu bezizwe ezahlukene zibonakala emphakathini wezingane. Ngenxa yalokho, nezingane ezincane, ukuhlazeka njalo kuvusa ukuphazanyiswa kwengqondo.