Wonke umuntu uthanda ukwethula izipho, kanti abanye bathanda ukuzithola. Kusukela isikhathi eside, abantu abaningi bakhathazekile ngombuzo: kungenzeka yini ukunikeza ithawula? Kubonakala sengathi ithawula elihle lokugeza noma isethi yamathayi amancane ekhishini yisipho esihle kakhulu, futhi into ebalulekile kakhulu ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Kungani unikeza ithawula, futhi kungani abaningi bebheka lesi sibonakaliso esibi, sizozama ukuyihlola.
Kungani unganiki ithawula?
Kukholelwa ukuthi noma iyiphi into edluliselwa ngandlela-thile kumuntu ithatha ngaphakathi kwayo amandla ayo. Ngokwesibonakaliso, ukunikeza ithawula kuyisibonakaliso esibi esingabangela impikiswano, ukugula, umbango emndenini kanye naphakathi kwabantu abaseduze. Futhi lokhu kungenxa yamasiko asendulo emidlalweni yomngcwabo lapho le nto ayidlala indima yokugcina.
Isibonelo, ocingweni oluseduze nomuzi womuntu oshonile ithawula, ngakho wonke umuntu odlula angakwazi ukuveza induduzo yakhe. Emathayilini, ibhokisi lihlehliselwa ethuneni, futhi iminyango yayiboshelwe kubo, lapho bethatha oshonile endlini.
Ngenxa yamasiko anjalo, abantu baqala ukwesaba ukunikeza ithawula, kanti empeleni, phakathi kwezinye izinto, kubonisa umgwaqo futhi uhlale emgwaqweni.
Ingabe banikeza amathawula esikhathini sethu?
Esikhathini sethu, siyazi ukuthi into enjalo iqhaza ezenzakalweni ezinhle kakhulu, njengokuthi: umshado (lapho abantu abasha bekhonjiswa isinkwa nosawoti ngethawula), ukuzalwa nokubhapathizwa kwengane (uma ingane iboshwe emgodini). Unikelwa abaningi ngenxa yokuzalwa kwakhe , umshado, njll.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngezikhathi ezithile, ezinsukwini zakudala, amaphethini akhethekile ayenziwe ngamathawula, amaphethini afanekisela ukulahlekelwa, ukudabuka, noma okunye, injabulo nokuthokoza. Ngakho-ke, bathatha amandla athile. Ithebula lokugeza lokujwayelekile, esingalithenga esitolo, alithwali noma iyiphi into efihliwe futhi ayikwazi ukulimaza.
Njengoba ubona, uma siqhathanisa amathawula angokwesiko anezithayo zanamuhla, khona-ke umbuzo wokuthi kungenzeka yini ukunikeza amathawula ngokujwayelekile awusizo kakhulu ezweni lanamuhla.