Ngesikhathi ulinde umntwana, umndeni ngamunye uhlose ukuzalwa kwengane enempilo, ukugcina yonke imiyalelo kadokotela nokunakekela umntwana esibelethweni sikamama. Ngeshwa, zonke izifo ezingase zenzeke zengane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kwabesifazane odokotela bengakazimisele ukunquma, kuhlanganise nokuba khona kokuzwa. Kodwa ukuthola ukuthi ingane yakho iyayizwa yini, ochwepheshe bangakwazi ngempela ngosuku lwesibili lokuvuthwa kwempilo. Futhi uma ukholelwa ukubuyekezwa kwamama, lokhu kuyisikhathi esithandekayo kakhulu kubo. Isibonelo, okwamanje eRussia ngo-1000 evame ukuzwa izinsana ezisanda kuzalwa kunomntwana oyedwa onokukhubazeka kokuzwa. Uma umntwana onjalo okhethekile ebonakala emndenini, ngakho-ke, ngaphezu kwakho konke, impilo nekusasa eligcwele lomntwana ezandleni zabazali bakhe.
Ngifuna nje ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuqeqeshwa kwezingane ezinokukhubazeka kokuzwa kuyaphumelela kakhulu, uma indlela ekhethiwe ikhethiwe, izazi ze-psychologists, othisha, kanye nabahlengikazi bezinkulumo bazosiza kulo mama nobaba.
Izici zezingane ezinokukhubazeka kokuzwa
Njengomthetho, izingane ezinjalo zihlukaniswe ngokungazizwa kahle futhi ziyizithulu jikelele. Womabili amaqembu anenkinga yokuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo, okuthinta ngokuqondile ukucabanga, inkumbulo nokucabanga kwengane. Ngakho-ke, ukukhushulwa kwezingane ezinokulahlekelwa kokuzwa kwenzeka ngokukhululeka ngokusebenzisa imizwa ebonakalayo, yezimoto, ezobuciko nezokucabangela.
Amandla okufunda
Ngokuvamile, izingane ezingenakuzwa kahle nazo zigcwele amalungu omphakathi, zidinga nje isikhathi esengeziwe, kanye nokusiza okusebenzayo kubazali nakothisha ekuqeqesheni. Ngakho-ke, imfundo yabantwana abanokukhubazeka kokuzwa, njengomthetho, bathola ngabanye. Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, badinga inkulumo, eqaliswa ngempumelelo ngendlela "yokufunda ubuso".
I-Psychology yezingane ezinokukhubazeka kokuzwa
Izingane eziphilile zifunda umhlaba ngokuxhumana nabangane babo, abazali kanye nabanye abantu abakuzungezile, izingane ezinokukhubazeka kokuzwa zilinganiselwe kulokhu, ngakho-ke zivame ukuhoxiswa futhi zihlukunyezwe. Abazali kufanele futhi banakekele lesi sici sokuthuthukiswa kwengane yabo ekhethekile: ukugcwalisa ukungabi nalutho kwengane yokukhulumisana, ukuthuthukisa okunye kokuzwa nokukhuluma, ukuze kamuva ingane ikhulume neontanga ngaphandle kokwesaba ukungacatshangwa.
Ngokungangabazeki, izingane ezinokukhubazeka kokuzwa zinezici ezimbalwa: ukubunjwa okuncane kokukhuluma, nokuhluleka ukusebenzisa ulwazi lwezobuchwepheshe ngokuzikhandla, nokuntuleka kokucabanga okungabonakali. Kodwa abazali abanothando nabahlakaniphile bayosiza ingane ukuba inqobe konke ubunzima: amakilasi avamile, ukunakekelwa nokunakekelwa kwabathandekayo bayakwazi ukwenza izimangaliso. Kuphela ngaphansi kwale mibandela, ukuhlalisana kwabantu, okudingekayo kubantwana abanokulahlekelwa ukuzwa, kuyophumelela.