Abantu abaningi abashicilela okunye okuthunyelwe kwinethiwekhi yokuxhumana nabantu abacabangi ukuthi abanye abantu bangazibona ngendlela yabo, futhi lokhu kuzoholela emiphumeleni engathandeki. Lokhu kungabonakala ngokufunda izindaba zangempela zabantu abaye bahlangabezana nesimo esinjalo.
Amanethiwekhi omphakathi angabhekwa njengedayari evulekile, lapho empeleni, umuntu angabhala noma yini, kodwa kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi abanye bayayifunda, futhi umbhalo obhaliwe ungacasula futhi uphukise. Isibonelo, kunezimo eziningana lapho ukuzila ukudlala ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi kunomthelela omubi kudumela lomuntu futhi kwaphazamisa umsebenzi wakhe. Yebo, futhi lokhu kwenzeka.
1. Ukuphulwa komthetho wokusebenza
Udokotela uCharlie Sheen uyaziwa ngokuziphatha kwakhe okuhlambalazayo, okuyinto ebonisa ekhasini lakhe lokuxhumana nabantu. Ngo-2011, wabhala phansi lapho ehlambalaza umkhiqizi ochungechungeni oluthi "Two and Half Men", lapho ayekhona ngaleso sikhathi ahileleke kwenye yezindima eziyinhloko. I-Shin imbiza ngokuthi i-clown, futhi lokhu akuzange kubonakale, njengoba umdlali we-actor waxoshwa ngokushesha emsebenzini. Ngicabanga ukuthi uCharlie wayezisole uma igama elilodwa elahlekelwa ukuqoshwa okwamenza ngaleso sikhathi umlingisi okhokhelwayo ophakeme kakhulu ochungechungeni.
2. Emsebenzini - akukho amanethiwekhi omphakathi
Hlangana nokuthunyelwe kwabo kumanethiwekhi omphakathi, hhayi kuphela umphakathi, kodwa nabantu abavamile. Isibonelo indaba yothisha oneminyaka engu-19 ubudala wase-Arizona. Ngesikhathi esebenza enkulisa, wathatha isithombe ngemuva kwendawo yokugqoka yabantwana, ebonisa umunwe wakhe ophakathi. Usayine isithombe kanje: "Ngiyafunga, ngithanda izingane." Abangane bajabule okuthunyelwe okunjalo, kodwa amaphoyisa awawathokozi amahlaya. Ngenxa yalokho, uthisha wakhuliswa ukuze aqonde ukuthi ngabe ushicilele izithombe zabafundi bakhe kwinethiwekhi ngaphandle kwemvume yabazali bakhe. Abaphathi be-kindergarten baphinde baphendule ngalokhu okuthunyelwe futhi baxoshwa uthisha, bathi ngesikhathi sokusebenza kubalulekile ukunaka izingane, hhayi ucingo.
3. Ukungahleleki kwebhola lezinyawo
Ekhasini elisemthethweni lebhola lebhola lezinyawo laseMoscow "Spartak" ku-Twitter lishicilelwe ividiyo lapho umvikeli weqembu ehlasela ozakwabo baseBrazil, enza izivivinyo ekuqeqesheni. Ukulandelana kwevidiyo kuhambisane nenkulumo ethi "Bona ukuthi ama-chocolates ayancibilika kanjani elangeni." Ngemva kwesikhashana, okuthunyelwe kwasuswa, futhi abaphathi beqembu baletha ukuxolisa okusemthethweni ngesitatimende esiphumelelanga. Imiphumela engalungile yale nkampani isabanjwa - izincwadi eziningi ezinkulu kanye nesiteshi sezindiza esiteshini sethelevishini esashicilelwe kumawebhusayithi abo amahlaya ahlaselayo lapho asho khona uSpartak wokucwasa ubuhlanga.
4. Igama elingavunyelwe - "n-izwi"
EMelika, enikezwe isimo sengqondo esibi ngokubhekelana nokubandlulula ubuhlanga, u-uphemism wasungulwa - "n-word", esetshenziselwa izimo lapho omunye wabantu abacasulayo ngokumelene nabase-Afrika baseMelika. Izimo ezinjalo ezimweni eziningi azihlali ngaphandle kokunakwa umphakathi. Ngakho-ke, ngo-2013, umethuli nomphenyi waseMelika uPaul Dean, ngenxa yokusetshenziswa kwe-Twitter ngaleyo n-yezwi efanayo, wayenqatshelwe umbukiso wakhe wokudla, naphezu kokuxolisa okuningi.
5. Ihlaya elibiza umsebenzi
Ngo-2009, ngemuva kokuxoxisana ngempumelelo ne-Cisco, i-American Connor Riley ekhasini elisezingeni lokuxhumana nabantu lalifuna ukwabelana nazo zonke lezi zindaba. Ngenxa yalokho, wathumela okuthunyelwe: "I-Cisco yanginika umsebenzi! Manje kuzodingeka sihlole ukuthi ingabe umholo wamafutha omgwaqo omude eSan Jose kanye nezindleko zomsebenzi ozondwayo. " Kubonakala sengathi intombazane yayingacabangi ukuthi ezinye izisebenzi zayo zingakwazi ukuyifunda, kuze kube yilapho ebona ukuphawula ngaphansi kwayo: "Kubalulekile ukudlulisela amazwi akho kumuntu oqhuba lolu daba, ngokusobala uyojabula ukwazi ukuthi usuvele uzonda umsebenzi owutholile." Ngenxa yalokho, uConnor akazange abe ngumsebenzi weCisco. Lapha ngifuna ukusho: uma ungazi ukuthi ungahlekisa kanjani, kungcono ungazami ukwenza.
6. Yehlulekile ukucabanga ngezepolitiki
Ngokuvamile ngenxa yokuthunyelwe kwabo ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi, osopolitiki bahlupheka futhi. Ngokwesibonelo, osombusazwe ababili baseJalimane uBetriz von Storch no-Alice Weidel, abasebenzisa ngokuphindaphindiwe izitatimende zama-Islamophobic ezikhundleni zabo: babiza abantu baseSulumane ngokuthi "gangster" kanye "nabangabenzi". Ngenxa yalokho, iziphathimandla ezikhethekile zavula uphenyo ngalolu daba, futhi ngisho nabesifazane babhekene nesigwebo esibi kakhulu nesokuphatha.
7. Ukuhlaselwa kwama Racist emhlabeni jikelele
Ulyana Sergeenko wathumela izimemo zakhe embukisweni weFashion Week eParis, omunye wabo waya kumngani wakhe uMiroslava Dume. Le ntombazane "endabeni" yakhe yabonisa lesi simemo, esasayinwe yilo ngoma ingoma yama Kanye Kanye noJay Zee: "KuMiggas wami eParis". Abasebenzisi abaningi bahlambalaza lo mbhalo, futhi basolwa abesifazane besobandlululo. I-Duma yasusa masinyane leposi, futhi yathumela ukuxolisa ekhasini layo. Ngokufanayo, umklami u-Ulyana Sergeenko, echaza ukuthi lokhu kungumcaphuno ovela engoma yakhe oyintandokazi, ngaphandle kwe-subtext. Lokhu akuzange kusize ukugwema imiphumela: Miroslava Duma akhishwe ebhodini labaqondisi womagazini wakhe owadalwa ngabamama iT Tot, futhi iqoqo elisha lika-Ulyana Sergeenko lalingavunyelwe ezincwadini eziningi ezingaphandle kwemfashini.
8. Ukuzidla, okungekho ngempela indawo
Umlingisi womculo uGilbert Gottfried ephepheni lakhe washicilela uchungechunge lwamathebhu lapho adlala khona ihlaya ngokuzamazama komhlaba kanye ne-tsunami eJapane. Amahlaya awazange ahlale isikhathi eside, kusukela ihora ngemva kokushicilelwa kwakhe waxoshwa enhlanganweni kazwelonke ye-Aflac Duck. Le nkampani yasho ngokusemthethweni ukuthi izithuba zomsebenzi wangaphambili azizange zibonise imicabango nemizwa yenhlangano. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-Aflac Duck inikeze u-$ 1.2 million ukuqeda imiphumela yokuzamazama komhlaba.
9. Ama-echoes ezibhubhisa ezedlule
Imodeli yaseBrithani yasePakistani ivela u-Amen Khan inethuba elihle - ukuba yilokho oyisibonelo sokuqala ku-hijab, okuyinto ezoba yinkampani inkampani i-L'Oreal. Ukuzisola kwakhe, isikhangiso asikhululwa, futhi isizathu salokhu ukuthunyelwa kwakhe, okwakushicilela ngo-2014. Kulo, wahlambalaza abantu abangamaJuda no-Israyeli.
10. Ingozi ebulalayo
Kuhlaselwa okukhulu ngo-2011 ngeCongressman Anthony Wiener, owayesebenze kuhulumeni iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-10. Konke lokhu wayeshadile futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ahambisana nabanye besifazane, ukuzithumela izithombe zakhe ezithandayo. Uma kwenzeka kube khona ingozi ebulalayo - u-Anthony wayefuna ukuthumela esinye isithombe kunkosikazi wakhe, kodwa kwaba sengathi ubeka itekisi evamile. Lokhu kwaqeda umsebenzi wakhe wezombangazwe u-Wiener, futhi ngaphambi kwakhe wayelindele izinqubo zomthetho, njengoba kwenzeka, ukuxhumana nabesifazane besikole.
11. Ukumangalelwa kokuhlukunyezwa ngemiphumela
Ngo-2016, ekhasini lakhe le-Twitter, umenzi we-hip-hop waseMelika u-Asilia Banks wabhala phansi lapho esolwa khona nomculi owazalwa u-Zane Malik ngokuzilahla, kodwa akazange akwazi ukumelana futhi ahambe emncintiswaneni wakhe. Konke lokhu kwaba nemiphumela emibi kumculi: isikhathi esithile i-akhawunti yakhe ivinjelwe, amabhange axoshwa ohlelweni lomculo owazalwa owazalwa wazala eBred London, kanti inani labo abafisa ukuya emisebenzini yakhe nalo liye lahlehla, okwakuthinta umholo womculi.
12. Ingozi yabaphangi
Ngemuva kokuqothulwa okuhlukile, umlingisi wokuqala uNicole Causer wamomotheka, futhi wathola indima episodic ethandweni oludumile lwe-American "Choir". Ngenhlanhla le ntombazane yayingekho umkhawulo, futhi ngokushesha wabhala incwadi ephepheni lakhe, lapho aphanga khona abaphangi ngenkathi yesibili. Wabona ubuholi bolu chungechunge, oluvele lwaphula isivumelwano ngokushesha nentombazane. Yile ndlela umsebenzi wakhe ophelile ngayo, engakaqali.
13. Isimo lapho amahlaya akho engahlonishwa
I-supermodel edume uGigi Hadid ngoFebruwari 2017, ngesikhathi evakashela indawo yokudlela yaseChina, yadutshulwa ividiyo eyayibonakala ingenangqondo kuye. Kulo, wafaka amakhukhi ngesimo senhloko kaBuddha ebusweni bakhe futhi walikopisha, ephihliza amehlo akhe. Le vidiyo yayithande udadewabo omncane u-Bella, owawubeka ku-Twitter. Ngenxa yalokho, kwavela ukungazithembi, futhi abantu bammangalela ngokuthi ubuhlanga. UGigi uxolise isikhathi eside, kodwa ihlaya lisaba nomphumela walo: lezi zithombe azizange zinikeze i-visa yaseShayina, ngakho-ke ayikwazi ukuhlanganyela embukisweni olandelayo weVictoria's Secret, owawuseShanghai.
14. Ukungaziwa akusizi ukubaleka
UJofi Joseph wasebenza ku-National Security Council of America futhi, ngokusobala, waba nesithukuthezi. Ngo-2011, wadala i-akhawunti engaziwa ku-Twitter, lapho ebhala khona okuthuka ngokuphathelene nokuphathwa kukaBarack Obama futhi wakhuluma ngezimfihlo zombuso. Iziphathimandla zithatha iminyaka emibili ukuze zibone umenzi wobugebengu, owaxoshwa ngecala elikhulu.
Isithombe somuntu siqu - hhayi ukubuyekezwa okujwayelekile
Abaningi bayaqiniseka ukuthi iphrofayli yokuxhumana nabantu i-albhamu yesithombe somuntu siqu, ngakho bayigcwalisa ngezithombe ezahlukene kusukela ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ukuqaphela okukhethekile kufanele kufane nezithombe zabasebenzi bezenhlalakahle. Ngakho-ke, eminyakeni embalwa edlule izithombe ezithukuthele zomphakathi zothisha waseColorado, lapho ephuza khona inambuzane. Kusobala ukuthi ngosuku olulandelayo wasayina isicelo sokuxoshwa. Kukhona izibonelo lapho bexoshwa emsebenzini kanye nezithombe ezingenacala, isibonelo, isimo esifanayo senzeke no-Ashley Payne, owathumela isithombe kwi-intanethi lapho abe neglasi lewayini ngakwesinye isandla kanye nengilazi yobhiya kwesinye.
16. Ngomongameli, amahlaya amabi
Umlobi we-show we-Saturday Night Live, ethandwa kakhulu eMelika, u-Cathy Rich, e-tweet yakhe wabhala incwadi mayelana nendodana kamengameli, lapho ekhuluma khona ukuthi uzoba "isikole sokuqala esikoleni". Ngalokhu wayesho ukuthi uBarron Trump ngeke akwazi ukuhlala emphakathini futhi aye esikoleni. Okuthunyelwe kubangele umbono wesive ombi, ngisho nabaphikisi bakaTrump. UCathy ususe i-Twitter futhi waxolisa, kodwa ayizange ibasize, futhi waxoshwa ku-NBC.
17. Isenzo sokucabanga sendodakazi yakhe
Injini ye-Apple, inika indodakazi yakhe i-iPhone X entsha yokuhlola, ayizange ilanga ukuthi lesi senzo singamphumela yini. Intombazane yathatha ividiyo, eyabonisa ukuthi i-smartphone entsha ibheka kanjani, yiziphi izinhlelo zokusebenza, futhi ... ithumele ividiyo ku-YouTube. Ngokushesha le vidiyo yasabela kubameleli baka-Apple, ocele ukukhipha ividiyo, futhi le ndoda kwakudingeka ibhale incwadi echaza futhi ixolise ngesenzo senkosikazi yakhe. Ngeshwa, lokhu akuzange kusize, futhi ngenxa yalokho, waxoshwa ngokuphula imithetho yenkampani yenkampani.