Uma ucabanga ngokucophelela, ungafinyelela esiphethweni ukuthi ngomqondo womhlaba wonke, impilo yethu yonke ubuhlobo. Ubudlelwane bomsebenzi, ibhizinisi, uthando, ucansi, ezokungcebeleka, abangane, umndeni, njll. Yile ndlela esiphila ngayo futhi sixoxisana, futhi emva kwakho konke, sithuthukise amakhono ethu ekwakheni ubudlelwane, kungaba khona ukuthuthukisa kakhulu izinga lempilo.
Ezweni, izigidi zezincwadi ezingqondweni zezobuchopho zilotshiwe futhi zishicilelwe. Kodwa noma zimbi kangangokuthi azenzi iqiniso, noma asikwazi ukuyihumusha ukuthi ibhaliwe abalobi abahlakaniphile. Kodwa-ke, njengoba sinethemba, sizokholelwa ukuthi ezinye izincwadi zilotshiwe ngokungalungile, ngendlela yokuthi amathiphu angenhla afuna ukulandela ...
Sizozama ukukudala uhlobo oluthile lwezinhlu ezihamba phambili, izincwadi ezinhle kakhulu kwi-psychology yobuhlobo. Kodwa uma le ncwadi ifike ohlwini lwethu oluphezulu, uzophoqeleka ukuba uhambisane nalokho okulotshwe kubo.
I-Freud iyi-classic class classic, futhi isaqhubeka inganeliseki ...
Ake siqale nezincwadi ezaziwayo kwi-psychology yobudlelwane, futhi asikwazi ukuqala ngenkosi kule ndawo. Incwadi kaFreud ethi Psychology of Sexuality ngesikhathi esisodwa yavusa isiphepho sentukuthelo ePuritan Yurophu, futhi ngisho nanamuhla, lapho utshela umuntu (ongazange afunde uFreud noma kunjalo) ukuthi uyayithanda umsebenzi wale psychoanalyst, i-grell eyinkimbinkimbi ye-interlocutor ilindele wena .
Yebo, u Freud, wadala udumo lwakhe. Kodwa empeleni abaningi bavula ukufihla kwabo "Mina" ngenxa yemisebenzi yakhe. Kule ncwadi, yiqiniso, ingqondo yezobudlelwane phakathi komuntu nowesifazane, isenzo sobulili obuhlukile, kanye nokuhlukahluka okuhlukahlukene, ukuhlanekezela, izintombi zobuntombi, i-narcissism, njll, zihlolwe.
Ukwakha ubuhlobo nawe ...
Kusukela encwadini yesimanje ku-psychology of ubudlelwano, kubalulekile ukuthi unikeze incwadi yamanje yokudala "I" entsha ebhaliwe yi-American psychologist uTina Siling "Yenza ngokwakho. Amathiphu kulabo abafuna ukushiya uphawu lwabo " Le ncwadi izoba usizo ekuqaliseni osomabhizinisi, labo abafuna ukuthola indlela yokudala imibono. Ngamafuphi, umbhali wembula inkinga entsha yezinkinga: noma yikuphi ukuvivinywa kuyithuba elisha, okusiza ekudaluleni amandla abo okudala .
Ngaso sonke isikhathi ...
Okunye okuthandwayo, singase sithi ngisho nenkolo, incwadi ku-psychology of ubudlelwano - "Amageyimu adlalwe ngabantu. Abantu abadlala imidlalo . " Eqinisweni, lezi yizincwadi ezimbili, kodwa zivame ukushicilelwa kulesi kit. Umlobi u-Eric Berne , umsunguli wokuhlaziywa kwemisebenzi. U-Berne wabelane ngobuntu bethu ngezici ezintathu: "Abadala" (ukulinganisa, ukulinganisa okunengqondo), "Umzali" (uma sikopisha ukuziphatha kwabazali) nokuthi "Ingane" (imizwelo, injabulo, izifiso zokudala). Ezimweni ezehlukene zokuphila, sifaka enye yalezi ezintathu "Ngiyi", futhi uBern encwadini yakhe uchaze izimo zokuphila ezijwayelekile nezimo, ukuxazulula lezi zimo. Ngenxa yalokho, asifumani nje incwadi encwadini yezengqondo, kodwa futhi nesibonelelo sedeskithophu yonke ukusetshenziswa kwesibili.
Sonke singabafokazi ...
J. Grey waba umbhali owaziwa emhlabeni wonke encwadini yakhe ethi "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" .