Ukulinganisa ubudala kumuntu kuyisigaba esibaluleke kakhulu futhi esinzima empilweni. Ngosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa lwama-40 okucishe wonke umuntu acabange ngokuphila kwakhe, uhlaziye impumelelo nokuhluleka, uyaqonda ukuthi yini ayifinyelele, futhi ubeka imigomo emisha. Lesi yisikhathi esikhiqiza kakhulu kumuntu, lapho kusenamandla amaningi, kodwa okuningi sekuvele kufeziwe. Isipho sokuzalwa komuntu okungama-40 kufanele sibe okulungile futhi esifanele. Yingakho kufanele uthathe ngokungathí sina.
Uma umuntu enenkolelo-ze, khona-ke angeke agubhe lolu suku lokuzalwa. Emva kwakho konke, abaningi bahlobanisa iminyaka engu-40 ngezinsuku zokukhumbuza, okungama-40. Ngakho-ke, abanye bazenza sengathi akukho usuku lokuzalwa futhi banganiki izipho iminyaka engama-40. Kodwa-ke, esikhathini sethu, bambalwa abantu abakade banamathele kulo mbono.
Ukukhetha isipho esekelwe ezithakazelweni zamadoda
Ukukhetha isipho, udinga ukwazi umuntu kahle futhi uqonde ukuthi uthanda ukuthini ngesikhathi sakhe sokuphumula. Ngokugembula amadoda adonsa ukunqoba, kungenzeka ukuthi athenge enye yemidlalo yetafula. Kungaba chess, backgammon, poker. Isipho esinjalo siyoba kuhle ngomzalwane iminyaka engama-40. Ngendlela, i-chess ifaneleka kuma-puzzle amateur kanye nokunye ukuphishekela ukuhlakanipha.
Kuzokwenza kube lula ukukhetha isipho kumuntu onjalo okuzilibazisa, njengokuzingela noma ukudoba . Unganikeza izintambo zokudoba, izikhwama zangasese, ama-flasks, amatende , izikhali nezinye izinto ezihambisana nalezi zenzo. Isipho esinjalo sihle kakhulu kubababa iminyaka engama-40. Yiqiniso, uma izingane zingazitholi imali, umqondo ungase ube wabo, kepha ukuqaliswa kwayo kuzodingeka ukunakekelwa ngumama.
Amadoda amaningi kunento efana nezingane. Ngakho-ke, kungaba kufanelekile ukuba nesipho esinjalo ngomkhosi wokugubha iminyaka engu-40, njengesibonelo somodeli wokuqoqa wezindiza noma i-helicopter. Ngemva kokuletha into encane enhle kangaka, kungenzeka ukuba ujabule ukuthi umuntu uthatha kanjani umdlalo gambly, ukukhohlwa iminyaka yakhe nesimo sakhe.
Isipho kumyeni wakhe iminyaka engama-40 akudingeki sibe kubizayo. Into eyinhloko imizwa,
Ifakazela ukugqamisa isimo
Ozakwethu banquma ukuthi ukukhetha isipho ngeke kube nzima. Umuntu webhizinisi angaboniswa ngekhadi lebhizinisi noma umhleli ngokubopha okuhle. Kulezi zipho ungabiza ama-crystal, ama-cufflink, ibhodlela lewayini lokuqoqa, ama-cigare abizayo.
Into eyinhloko yokutshala imali ekukhethweni kwesipho ngumphefumulo, bese kuthi nakanjani uyofana neqhawe losuku.