Abesifazane abaningi, ikakhulukazi eminyakeni yokuqala yokushada, izinsuku zokuzalwa zikaMamazala zilindele ngokuqapha, njengokungathi uvivinyo olunzima. Efuna ukugwema ukuhlambalaza nokugxeka kumama womyeni wakhe, badidekile ekukhetheni isipho esifanele. Ngempela, ukuthenga okuphumelelayo kusiza ukusungula ubudlelwane, ukukhetha ukhiye ofanele enhliziyweni. Ukuzikhethela isipho sokuqala sikamamazala kuncike kakhulu esimeni senkosikazi, umsebenzi wakhe, imibono yakhe empilweni, ngakho-ke kudingeka uhambe ulungele usuku lokuzalwa. Okokuqala, cela umyeni wakhe ngokucophelela, ngoba nje kufanele aqonde kancane ngokuthandwa ngumama wakhe. Uma emkhandlwini womndeni kunenkinga ngokukhetha izipho, bese usebenzisa ngokunembile imibono enhle kakhulu amadodakazi amaningi asekulethele kakade kuwe.
Yini engingayinika umamazala wami ngosuku oluzayo lokuzalwa?
Abesifazane bebhizinisi bahlale benakekela kahle izindaba eziwusizo ezingasetshenziswa njalo ekhishini noma ekhaya. Esikhundleni samanye ama-trinkets ahlanziwe, kufanele athele okuthile okubalulekile - indwangu yetafula, izindwangu, izindwangu zokulala, izihlalo ezinokwethenjelwa ze-dacha noma ikhishi, umkhandi, umshini wendlu. Uma engenayo itiye elihle elihle noma ibhodlela lesayizi elungile, thola izitsha ezinhle zosuku lokuzalwa lokuzalwa kwakhe.
Qaphela ukuthi izitsha zanamuhla zidinga ukuhlangenwe nakho okuncane, kanti uma lona wesifazane engazange asebenze nomenzi wezinkwa eziningi , kuzothatha isikhathi eside aze aqaphele ukukhathazeka kwakho okuqotho. Kodwa uma ukuqonda ukusebenza kwekhishi kuphumelele, umamazala wakho uzokubonga iminyaka eminingi. Qinisekisa ukumthenga incwadi nge zokupheka, iqoqo lezinamathiselo ezengeziwe nezinkomishi, lokhu kuzomenza kube lula ngaye ukuthi azi kangcono leveli.
Uma umama womyeni wakho esemncane, owesifazane osebenzayo nowomabhizinisi, khona-ke umbuzo walokho okumele unike umamazala wakho umkhosi wokugubha usuku, kuxazululwa kalula. Ngosuku oluzungezile, angakwazi ukwethula i-laptop, ithebhulethi, i-smartphone ephathekayo neyabizayo, enye inqubo eyinkimbinkimbi yekhaya nomsebenzi. Inkosikazi yanamuhla ngeke inqabe ithikithi ekhonsathini yeklasini, uhambo oluya enkundleni yaseshashalazini, kusukela esitifiketi kuya enhle salon noma endaweni yokubuthwa. Yiqiniso, noma yisiphi isipho kufanele senziwe ngokucophelela, ukuze ukupakisha okukhangayo kugcizelele ngokwengeziwe umbono wesethulo futhi kugcizelele uthando lwakho.