Ungakwazi kanjani ukubala iminyaka yobudala?
Ukuqala kwenkathi yokugubha isisu isikhathi esisha sokukhulelwa impilo entsha. Kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu owaziyo lolu suku, futhi uma enza kanjalo, umzuzu oqondile wokufakelwa kweqanda le-fetal aziwa, ngoba lokhu kungenzeka ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngemuva kokulala ngokocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akekho owaziyo uma i-ovum ihlangana nobunikazi, futhi i-fusion yabo yenzeke.
Yingakho umqondo wonyaka wokugqoka ungalungile. Ngokwenqubo yesisu, kuyisiko ukusebenzisa indlela ye-obstetric yokunquma iminyaka yobu fetus, njengokwethenjelwa ngokwengeziwe. Kubalwa ekuqaleni kwesikhathi sokugcina nyangazonke, futhi sekuyimasonto amabili ngaphambi kwangempela.
Kungani kubaluleke kangaka isikhathi? Futhi ukuze ukwazi usuku lokuqeda ukukhulelwa, lokho kuzalwa. Phela, ukuguqulwa kokuqala nokukhuthazela kuyingozi kakhulu empilweni yomntwana, futhi ukwazi ukusiza uma kungakafiki (ngaphambi kwamaviki angu-38) noma ukulethwa kwezidingo (emva kwamasonto angu-42), udinga ukwazi ngokunembile.
Ukuphela kwenkathi yokugcoba nakho kuyimbono ezithakazelisayo, emva kwakho konke,
Uma ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, ngokuya esikhathini, akunakwenzeka ukubala isikhathi ngenxa yokungabi khona kwayo (ukuncelisa, ukubeletha okwakamuva, ukuphazamiseka kwe-hormonal), okukhethwa kukho okuyinhloko kusele i- ultrasound. Isikhathi esilungile kunazo zonke singasetha kusukela ngesonto lesishiyagalombili kuya kwesishiyagalombili lokukhulelwa. Yilokhu okuxilongwa okuzocacisa ngokunembile iminyaka yobu fetus ngobukhulu bayo.