"Baby Schauer" inezici ezimbalwa okumelwe zicatshangelwe ngenkathi kuhlanganiswa lo mcimbi. Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi singabamba kanjani kahle iqembu le-shawer, futhi sizohlinzeka ngemibono eminingana yokuklama nokuziphatha kwalolu holide.
Okuyisisekelo seholide "baby schauer"
"I-Baby shower", noma "ukugeza kwezingane", yiqembu elihlelwa abangane abasondelene nowesifazane ozoba maduze abe ngumama. Umcimbi kufanele ube khona ngaphandle kwezindonga zendlu yomama ozayo, isibonelo, endlini ehlala neyodwa yabangane bakhe. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umgcini womkhosi ngeke akhulunywe kuze kube sekupheleni, lapho ncamashi futhi ngasiphi isikhathi amenywe ngaso - lokhu kufanele kube isimangalo esingalindelekile.
Phakathi kwabahlanganyeli beholide kumele kube khona abesifazane abesazi kakade injabulo yokuba ngumama, kanye nabangani abangenabantwana bomama ozayo. Lo mcimbi kufanele ube nomusa kakhulu futhi ujabule, ngoba kubanjwe umcimbi ojabulisayo ongashintsha ukuphila komuntu owenza umkhosi.
Ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi amantombazane nabesifazane abadabuki, imincintiswano ehlukahlukene kanye namahlaya ahlelelwe "umculi wengane", futhi kwezinye izimo umethuli ochwepheshe uyanxuswa ukuba awenze. Noma kunjalo, indima yakhe ingathatha omunye wabangane bakhe, uma ehle ekujabuliseni izethameli. Okokugcina, umqhele wesigameko kufanele kube ukuhanjiswa kwezipho ezizojabulisa umama wesikhathi esizayo futhi kuyomsiza kuye ngenkathi enakekela ingane.
Indlela yokuhlobisa umntwana omncane?
Ukudala umkhathi wokugubha endaweni yomcimbi, kufanele uhlotshwe ngokufanele. Njengomthetho, ngenxa yalolu hlobo amabhaluni amaningi anemibala asetshenziselwa, alengiswe ekamelweni noma akhululwe ngaphansi kwelayili. Futhi, amadonsa amancane nezinkulu, amathoyizi athambile kanye nanoma yiziphi ezinye izinto ngendlela eyodwa noma enye ezihlotshaniswa nesihloko somama zingasetshenziswa njengezinto zokuhlobisa.
Ukugxila okukhethekile kubhalwa esihlalweni noma esihlalweni, lapho owesifazane ehlala khona endaweni "ezithakazelisayo". Kufanele ihlotshwe ngendwangu ebomvu enombala, izibhande, imicibisholo noma ezinye izindlela, kodwa ukuze uma ungena ekamelweni ungacabange ukuthi ungubani ngempela umgcini womkhosi okufanele abe khona.
Yini ongayinika "umculi wengane"?
Ezimweni eziningi kakhulu, "umntwana oshayayo" unikezwa izinto ezizodingeka ukuba umama ozayo anakekele usana ngemuva kokuzalwa kwakhe. Lezi zingaba izingubo, izingono namabhodlela, ipompo lesifuba, iqoqo lezinyane lezinyane lokulala, izimonyo zokunakekelwa kwezinsana, amathoyizi njalonjalo.
Kodwa-ke, kuleli holide unganika kanye nanoma yiziphi ezinye izinto eziyoba mnandi owesifazane okhulelwe futhi zimnike imizwelo emihle. Ekuqaleni komcimbi, bonke abahlanganyeli babeka izipho endaweni ekhethiwe ngokukhethekile, futhi kule nqubo bazinikeze kumama wabo wesikhathi esizayo, behambisana nokudluliswa ngamahlaya ajabulisayo nezifiso.
Imincintiswano ye "baby schauer"
Kuleli holide kwaba mnandi futhi kuyathakazelisa futhi kunika umama esikhathini esizayo imizwa emihle, kufanele ihambisane nemidlalo enhle nemincintiswano, isibonelo:
- "Guess-ka!". Ukuqhuba lo mdlalo, umhlanganyeli ngamunye womcimbi kufanele alethe isithombe somntwana wakhe ngesikhathi esithile. Zonke izithombe zenziwa endaweni eyodwa futhi zibalwa. Ngemva kwalokho, amantombazane kufanele aqagele ukuthi ubani onguphi isithombe ovezwayo, bese ubhala izimpendulo zawo ephepheni. Lowo onokufanelana kakhulu uyowina.
- "Igama lomntwana." Lo mdlalo angeke ube mnandi kuphela, kodwa futhi uwusizo. Omunye wabahlanganyeli ukuqagela igama ukuthi ufuna ukunikela ngekusasa lomntwana, futhi ukhumbula ukuthi yiyiphi abantu abadumile ababebizwa ngaleyo ndlela. Amanye amantombazane kufanele acabange ukuthi wayekubuza, abuze imibuzo ephakamisayo, "yibo" noma "yebo" kuphela ongaphendulwa.
Igalari yethu yezithombe izokusiza ukuhlobisa indawo yomkhosi bese udala umoya ofanele kuwo:
| | | |
| | | |
| | | |
