Ingane ibhalwa embhedeni - abazali abaningi abasha babhekene nale nkinga. Futhi ukuthola impendulo yalo mbuzo "Ungamuncenga kanjani ingane ukuba ubhale ebusuku?" Uvivinywa hhayi kuphela ngamama nobaba, kodwa nabantwana bezingane. Ngakho vsyo-taki, kungani ingane ebhaliwe ebusuku?
Le nkinga ngokuyinhloko ihlotshaniswa nokuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba wengane kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwesistimu yakhe yezinzwa zomphakathi. Njengomthetho, izingane azifundiswa ukubhala eneminyaka engama-4-5. Abadayisi badlala indima enkulu kule nqubo. Uma ingane isetshenziselwa ukuhamba futhi ilele ku-diaper, kunzima kakhulu ukuthi angakwazi ukujwayela lo mkhuba.
Kwenzeka ukuthi ingane ejwayele ukucela ibhodlela iqala ukubhala. Lokhu kungenxa yezizathu eziningi:
- ingane ikhululeka ebusuku. Ukushisa okuphansi ekamelweni kunomthelela kule nqubo. Njengomthetho, ebusuku izingane azivuki ngisho nokuvuka. Abazali abaningi kamuva bayaqaphela ukuthi, ngisho nabantwana abaneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, babhaliwe ebusuku, lapho indlu igcina ibanda;
- inkulisa. Ezinye izingane, lapho zingena ensimini, ziqala ukubhala. Uma ingane ibhalwa eminyakeni engu-3 noma engu-4, lokhu kungase kubangelwe ukubonakala okusha okuqinile. Ukuhlanganiswa kwezingane, isimiso sansuku zonke, isimo esisha - lezi zinto ziphazamisa kakhulu ukuthuthukiswa nesimo somzimba wengane;
- ukuvela kwengane entsha emndenini. Uma umntwana eqala ukubhala emva kokuzalwa komfowenu noma udadewabo omncane, lokhu kubonisa imizwa yakhe eqinile. Ezimweni ezinjalo, izingane ezindala zivame ukuzizwa zilahliwe. Ngenxa yalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho, ingane, ejwayelekile ebhodweni, ingaqala ukubhala;
- ukucindezeleka. Ingane inamandla kakhulu kunabantu abadala abangakwazi ukushintsha nezinguquko ezihlukahlukene. Ukushintsha indawo yokuhlala, umjikelezo omusha woxhumana nabo, umbuthano wokudala - zonke lezi zici zingase ziqinisekise ukuthi ingane engu-3-4 ubudala iqala ukubhala futhi.
Ungamuncenga kanjani ingane ukubhala?
Le nqubo ingokwemvelo. Uma uneminyaka yobudala, ingane iqala ukuqonda ukuthi awukwazi ukubhala ebhulukwe noma embhedeni wakho, kodwa kufanele ucele ibhodlela. Abazali nabo kufanele bahlanganyele kule nqubo futhi bakhulume nengane. Kunezincomo eziningana, indlela yokuncelisa ingane ukubhala:
- ukushiya i-diaper noma ukunciphisa ukusetshenziswa kwayo okungenani. Bonke omama bayazi ukuthi kulula kanjani ukusebenzisa i-diaper. Ngempela, le nqubo yenza lula ukuphila kwabazali. Noma kunjalo, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ngaphezu kokulula, i-diaper ingaletha izinkinga ezibalulekile. Izingane ezisetshenziselwa izinwele, ezihlale "zomile futhi zikhululekile" aziqali ukucela imbiza. Abavele bazizwe isidingo salo. Ngakho-ke, ukusetshenziselwa isikhathi eside kwamaswidi kuholela ekutheni kunzima kakhulu ukwenqaba - futhi ingane iyaqhubeka ibhalela embhedeni. Abazali abaningi bajwayele ukujwayela ingane embizeni njengoba kulindeleke, kodwa qhubekani usebenzisa i-diaper ebusuku. Ingane enjalo ayibhalwa ebhulukwe emini, kepha ibhaliwe ephusheni ebusuku;
- utshale ingane ebhodweni, njalo ngangokunokwenzeka, ngisho noma engabuzi. Ikakhulukazi le nqubo iyadingeka uma ingane ibhalwa njalo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ingane kufanele ichaze ukuthi kungani kubalulekile ukucela imbiza. Izingane zidinga ezimbalwa kuphela
amasonto ukuqonda lokhu kuhlakanipha; - ukujwayela ingane endlini yangasese yangasese. Izingane ezineminyaka engu-3-5 engakakwazi ukubekezelela amahora angu-9. Ngakho-ke, ngokuvamile ingane ibhaliwe ebusuku. Kungcono ukuvusa ingane ebusuku izikhathi ezingu-2-3 bese ubeka imbiza, ngisho noma ethi akafuni. Ngemva kwesikhashana ingane izofunda ukuvuka yedwa indlu yangasese yangasese.
Kwenzeka ukuthi ingane engama-6 noma ngisho neminyaka engu-7 ngokuzumayo iqala ukubhala. Kulesi simo, abazali akudingeki basheshe bavelele bese begijima kudokotela. Kufanele ulinde izinsuku ezimbalwa. Lesi simo singathintwa nokucindezeleka futhi, njengomthetho, sishabalale ngokwayo ezinsukwini ezingu-7-10. Uma umntwana omdala eqhubeka ebhala isikhathi eside futhi ekhombisa ukwesaba, ngakho-ke kulokhu kubalulekile ukuvakashela udokotela wezingane.