Eminyakeni engamakhulu ambalwa edlule, izimpawu zadlala indima ebalulekile ekuphileni komuntu. Babesetshenziselwa ukufunda ngesimo sezulu kanye namanye amaqiniso esikhathini esizayo. Kunenqwaba yezinkolelo-ze eziphathelene nezingxenye zomzimba. Izibonakaliso zabantu zichaza ukuthi kungani ingalo idutshulwe yithandwa kakhulu, kodwa abaningi badidekile ngolwazi oluphathelene nemilenze yesobunxele nelungile. Yingakho kufanelekile ukuhlola le nkinga ngokuningiliziwe. Yikholelwa noma cha, ibhizinisi lomuntu wonke, kodwa ulwazi oluthakazelisayo luyoba ngowomuntu wonke.
Ingalo engakwesokunxele iyayishaya ini?
Okhokho bethu bakholelwa ukuthi izandla ziyingxenye ebalulekile yomzimba futhi amandla abo akhangisa imali. Ngakho-ke, ukushaywa kwesandla kwesandla kwakuwumphumela wokuzuza inzuzo enkulu. Imali izofika ngokungazelelwe, mhlawumbe othile uzobuyisela isikweletu esidala noma uzothola ibhonasi. Ukuqina kwe-itch, kunomthamo omkhulu. Ukuheha ukugeleza kwemali kuyadingeka ukukhipha isundu kusukela enqenqemeni kuya emkhatsini, okwenza umphumela wokuqoqa imali. Cindezela isandla sakho ebhaleni bese usifaka esikhwameni sakho. Abantu abaningi bakholelwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, uma ingalo yesobunxele ishaya, khona-ke kuzoba nezinkinga emkhakheni wezezimali. Ephikisana nalokho ukuthi ohlangothini lwesobunxele bomuntu unesibopho sikaDeveli. Namanje kubantu kucatshangwa, ukuthi kungenzeka ukuhlonywa isundu esinxeleni ukugula. Ungakhathazeki, kuyoba lula ukudlala, isibonelo, umkhuhlane. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, kufanele uqaphele futhi ubuke impilo yakho.
Kungani ingalo yesobunxele ishaqa, kuye ngokuthi indawo yendawo ishaya kanjani:
- Uma ukunganaki kubonakala eminwe, khona-ke yilowo nalowo kulabahlanu unenani lakhe. Isibonelo, isithupha sinombhalo wenhlanhla nenhlanhla. Uma ukushaywa kwebala kuvele endaweni yenkomba yenkomba kubonisa amandla futhi ungathembela empumelelweni kwizifundo nasemsebenzini. Uma umunwe ophakathi kwesandla sobunxele uhlahlela, kumayelana nemali. Uma izinhlamvu zomunwe ezingenazo igama ziwuphawu lokuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kuzokwazi ukunqanda ukunakwa okungadingekile. Umunwe omncane onomunwe umelela ukuhlukunyezwa kwezinkinga. Ngendlela, ukugwema kubo kunconywa ukubeka indandatho yegolide kuso futhi ungayisusi kuze kube yilapho igaxa.
- Uma isikhonkwane sesandla sokunxele sishaya, kusho ukuthi othile uzama ukunciphisa inkululeko yakho. Noma kunjalo kungakufakazela ukuthi lo muntu okwamanje akakwazi ukubhekana nemizwa emibi ekhona. Ukuze ungabi nezinkinga ezinkulu, kunconywa ukuthi ususe ukuhlukunyezwa.
- Uma uqala ihlombe lakho lesokunxele - lokhu kuyisixwayiso sokuthi maduzane kuzoba nezinkinga eziningi. Kunconywa ukuthi uhlehlise zonke izindaba ezimbi futhi uhambe ngosuku olulandelayo.
- Uma i-elbow kwesokunxele inzima, khona-ke izingxabano ezinkulu nabantu abaseduze zizovela maduzane. Kubantu abenza ibhizinisi, leso sithembiso sithembisa izinkinga zempahla. Ukubamba endaweni ye-elbow kwesokunxele kubantu abasha kusho ukuthola ithuba lokuhlangabezana nomthando wakho. Uma kungabikho ukuhlukumeza phakathi kwabantu abashadile, esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kufanele kube ngaphezulu, ngoba ukungabonisi ngothando kungabangela izinkinga ezinkulu ngisho nokuhlukanisa.
Kukhona isibonakaliso sokuthi ingalo yesobunxele ihlukaniswa nabangane noma izihlobo. Mhlawumbe, okwamanje umndeni ufikile, futhi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kuzodingeka baphume. Ukuthi umgwaqo wawulula, futhi konke kuhamba kahle, ungenza umkhuba omncane. Yiya efasiteleni, usakaze isandla sakho sobunxele uphinde usiphose, uthi lezi zikhathi ezintathu:
"Isikhathi sokuhamba - umgwaqo wabo uzoba lula."
Ungakhali lapho uhlukanisa, ngoba "kuzothatha" umgwaqo.
Uma ukuvuza kungadluli, mhlawumbe, isizathu asikho embonisweni, kodwa, cishe, kuyisibonakaliso sokuqala kwesinye isifo. Isandla singakhanjwa uma singcolile noma ukuphela kwezinzwa sekuye kwanda.