Indlela yokutshela umfana kanye nemiphumela yalokhu

Ake sinikeze incazelo yenhloli yothando ngaphandle kwamazwi. Ipelaphulo liqiniswa komunye umuntu ukuzwa imizwa ayengazizwa. Lokhu kunguquko emlandweni wezehlakalo, isiphetho salowo owenza izintambo futhi, nakanjani, ohluphekayo owakhishwa. Ingabe imiphumela yalokhu ingaba yingozi?

Kuhle kakhulu ukuthi kusekhona amantombazane abangeke acabange ukuthi angamtshela kanjani umuntu, kodwa futhi akhumbule imiphumela. Ingabe uzothola ngokwakho, noma uxhumane nomlingo, yonke into ingaboniswa kanje: "Akangithandi? Yebo, njengoba ngimthanda, manje uyongithanda. Futhi siyojabula kuze kube phakade naphakade. "

Imiphumela

Ake sikhulume ngethemba lokungenisa izihambi lokuthi, uma ushaye umuntu isipele, imiphumela yalokho okwenzile iyoshintsha impilo yakho.

I-Privorot iyinkokhelo enamandla enamandla engakwazi ukubulala nje kuphela umuntu oshayayo nomuntu othakazelisayo. Lezi zinsuku, ngisho ne-confluence yezimo ezithandekayo, ziba "imifino" engenamandla: umuntu akanakuzimela, akanakuthanda, kodwa akakwazi ngaphandle kwalowo owamshaya. Qala ukuphuza, izidakamizwa, ukuzibulala - kunzima kakhulu ukuhlala uphelelwe ithemba.

Isibonelo, uthando lokupenda esithombeni luhlehlisela isiphetho somuntu. Labo abathandwayo bazoqala ukulwa nokukhangwa owesifazane ongathandeki, ngakho-ke, lapho amabutho ebuthakathaka, elahlekelwa yintando, ehlushwa ukucindezeleka nokunganaki, izinkinga zempilo ezinzima ziqala.

Konke lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi esikhundleni salowo "owakuthandayo" futhi uyathinta, uthola umuntu ocasulayo, ovame ukukuzonda, ophukile, ecindezelekile, isigqila.

Mayelana nemiphumela ye "ikhasimende", ngeke kube nje ukwesaba okulula. Ngesikhathi senkambiso, oxhumana naye omusha udalwe phakathi kwe-bewitching noyedwa. Lo othintana naye ususa amandla obalulekile yalowo oshayayo, kanye namandla aphikisayo intando yabathandekayo, futhi, kufanele atholakale kusuka esitokisini sakho.

Ugcwele izifo ezingelapheki, ukungasebenzi, izinzwa, umdlavuza.

Kodwa kukhona imilingo emhlophe ...

Amantombazane amaningi ahlakaniphile anesithakazelo sendlela yokutshela umfana ngaphandle kwemiphumela. Phela, kukhona nemilingo emhlophe (yomusa). Yebo, ungaphonsa iziphonso esithombeni kanye negazi lezinyanga zonke futhi wenze ubulovu obuhle obuzovula amehlo omthandi wakho bese kumenza akhangele ngendlela entsha. Kodwa la ma-privoroty awasebenzeli amaviki ambalwa.

Akunakwenzeka ukutshela umfana ngaphandle kwemiphumela, emva kwakho konke, ngandlela-thile, futhi intando yomuntu kufanele iphulwe, ukuze ilandele ngokuqinile kulowo angathandwanga lutho ngaphambili.

Konke lokhu kuthatha amandla okuphila. Amandla alowo owenzayo. Emva kwakho konke, ekuphileni kwakho konke okufanele ukhokhe, futhi, ikakhulukazi, ukusetshenziswa kwamandla kagesi.