Umuntu kaLevi uvame ukufaniswa nenkosi yezilwane, ngakho uhlala efuna umngane ofanelekayo wokuphila. Kumele kube mnandi kokubili nangaphakathi. Kunezincomo eziningana, ukuthi ungamqoba kanjani njalo iNdodana yeThubane, ngenxa yokuthi ubulili bobulili obuhle bukhona ithuba lokuphuma esixukwini. Masinyane kufanele kubhekisele ukuthi akufanele udlale noma iyiphi indima, ngoba inkohliso izokwembulwa bese ubuhlobo buzophela.
Indlela yokunqoba inhliziyo yesilwane esilisa?
Ukuze usondelane nomuntu onjalo, kuzodingeka wenze imizamo eminingi, ngoba kungekhona nje ukuthi uLood uzodinga ukunqoba, kodwa nabangani bakhe, izihlobo nabalingani bakhe. Into yukuthi abamele lesi sibonakaliso njengawe lapho abanye abantu bebazisa okhethiwe.
Indlela yokunqoba indoda kaLeo:
- Kusukela okokuqala bahlangana nezingubo, kufanelekile ukuthi owesifazane kufanele abe mnhle, avinjelwe futhi abe nenhle. Amabhubesi anake ngisho nemininingwane encane, okungukuthi, ngezipikili, amashiya, izinwele, njll.
- Owesifazane kufanele abe nomphakathi, okungukuthi, akwazi ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nabantu abazungezile.
- Abamele lesi sibonakaliso ayinakuqondakala futhi ayamukeleki nokubandlulula, ngakho-ke owesifazane kumele ahlale ebonisa imizwa yakhe. Lo mthetho awukhathaleli kuphela ukuqala kobudlelwane, kodwa futhi nezinye izigaba. Menzele usuku lothando futhi anelise izifiso zakho, bese-ke indoda izobonga ngokuqinisekile.
- Ukuthola indlela yokunqoba i-Leo, kufanelekile ukuphawula ukuthi amadoda anjalo athokoza kakhulu, ngakho kubalulekile ukungakhohlwa, ukuqaphela isithunzi sakhe ngesikhathi futhi ugubhe impumelelo . Ibhonasi eyengeziwe izoba uma uyenza kwabanye abantu.
- Umngane weThubane kumele athembeke kuye, ngoba angeke abelane nabanye abesilisa. Uvuma ukungaboni ngothando, ngoba uyathandwa yilokho inkosikazi yakhe ithanda abanye, kodwa akufanele iwele umzila okhona.
- Ukuze anqobe umfana wengonyama, le ntombazane kumele ihlale isithakazelo empilweni yakhe. Kubamele abamele lesi sibonakaliso, kubalulekile ukuthi umngane wakhe asekele noma yisiphi isinyathelo futhi anikeze iseluleko ngesikhathi esifanele.
- Vumela lo muntu aphathe ubuhlobo futhi abe umbhangqwana oyinhloko. Iphutha elikhulu liyoba isifiso sowesifazane ukuphatha umlingani noma ukusivimbela. Kumele abonise iNdodana ukuthi ayikwazi ngaphandle kosizo lwakhe.
- Okhethiwe kumuntu onjalo kufanele abe ngumnotho, ukuze uLobert abe nomuzwa ojabulisayo ekhaya.