"Ekupheleni, ekupheleni, ngizobe nendodana, umsizi, umngane wokudoba nokulungisa imoto! Uh, futhi senza izinto! Futhi-ke wonke amantombazane namantombazane, i-monastery eqondile yesifazane. Ekugcineni, umfana walinda! ". Amadoda amaningi anqoba, lapho omkawo bememezela ukuthi bakhula indoda encane ezayo esiswini sabo. Futhi emva kokuhlwithwa kokuqala okuthuthumayo sekuhlelile, ubaba uyamangala ngokukhetha igama le-tomboy elindelekile. Futhi yilokho okuhlala njalo. Lapho ozayo noma ngisho nendodakazi yokuqala ezozalwa, umama uvela negama. Uma umfana kufanele azalwe, uPata akafuni ukuvuma noma yini kunoma ubani, ufuna ukukhetha konke futhi acabange ngaye. Woza, ake acabange futhi anqume. Futhi sixoxisana kanye naye, ukuthi kahle kanjani nokuthi yiliphi igama elingcono lokukhetha umfana wethu, umsizi kababa wesikhathi esizayo nomvikeli womndeni wonke.
Ukukhetha igama lomfana ngokwezinkolelo zenkolo
Ngaphandle kwenkolo kwakukhona futhi mhlawumbe ngeke kube yisizwe esisodwa emhlabeni. Ngakho-ke, enye yezinketho zokukhetha igama lomntwana, umfana noma intombazane, yilona uhlobo lwekholo amalunga omndeni azibheka njengabo. Kuyaziwa ukuthi izizwe eziningi nezizwe ezibuhedeni zibiza izingane zabo amagama okhokho babo, zikholelwa ukuthi ngaleyo ndlela imiphefumulo yezihlobo ezihambeyo ihanjelwa ezinganeni ezisanda kuzalwa futhi ibuyele emndenini. Cishe ngendlela efanayo, bobabili amaBuddha namaHindu akholelwa. Kodwa emazweni amaningi okuthiwa izinkolo zeTestamente Elisha, amaSulumane, amaJuda nobuKristu, kuyisiko ukubhekisela ezinganeni ngokuhlonipha abangcwele abahlonishwayo. AmaKristu, omabili amaKatolika nama-Orthodox, abuye abe nencwadi ekhethekile, lapho inomboro ngayinye yenyanga ngayinye ikhona uhlu lwe-ascetics eligubha ngalolo suku. Ibizwa ngokuthi abangcwele. Ake sithi umntwana wakho wazalwa ngoJuni 1, ukucacisa igama lakhe lekusasa, engeza kulolo suku kuqala okuyisikhombisa nezinsuku ezingamashumi amane. Esikhathini sethu sizoba ngoJuni 8 noJulayi 10, lapha esikhathini kusukela ngoJuni 8 kuya kuJulayi 10 bese ukhetha igama lendodana yakho.
Ungakhetha kanjani igama lomfana ngesignali yezinkanyezi?
Isizathu esilandelayo, lapho ungathola khona igama lomfana okungcono ukukhetha, ukubuka izinkanyezi namaplanethi angaphansi kwakhe. Ukuze uthole incazelo ecacile yazo zonke lezi zikhathi, yiqiniso, kungcono ukuphendukela kumuntu onguchwepheshe wezinkanyezi. Noma kunjalo, singakunika izincomo ezijwayelekile.
Abafana abazalwa ngaphansi kwezibonakaliso zomlilo: Ama-Aries, Leo noma iSagittarius, amagama anezinsimbi ezilula ezenziwe kahle. Ngokwesibonelo, u-Alexei, u-Valery, u-Vitaly, u-Ilya. Amagama anjalo athatha amandla okuthandana nokuthandana, okunciphisa ukushisa kwabantu abathintekayo kuleli qembu.
I-Taurus, i-Virgo ne-Capricorn yizibonakaliso zomhlaba. Abafana abazalwa ngaphansi kwalezi zinkanyezi bahlukaniswa ukuqina kwabo kanye nomnotho wabo. Abamele leli qembu bafanelwe kahle amagama kaPeter, uSergei, Andrew, Ivan. Baqhubeka begcizelela izimfanelo zomuntu oyinhloko futhi banikeze ukungathí sina.
"Izinkanyezi" zezinkanyezi ze-Gemini, iLibra ne-Aquarius - ubuntu obuhle futhi obuhle. Phakathi kwabo kukhona abantu abanobuciko, izincwadi nezinkondlo. Futhi amagama abo angcono ukukhetha okuhle, ubuciko, i-sonorous. Ngokwesibonelo, u-Arkady, u-Vladislav, uGeorge, uVeniamin.
Futhi ekugcineni, abafana abazalwa ngaphansi kwamagundane "amanzi": I-Cancer, i-Pisces ne-Scorpio - izingane zihamba ngezinyawo, zingenasiphelo futhi zijabule kakhulu, njengomsakazo wasentwasahlobo. Amagama afanelekayo - u-Alexander, u-Vladimir, u-Nikolai, uConstantine.
Indlela yokukhetha igama lomfana nge-patronymic?
Futhi esinye isici esibaluleke kakhulu sokukhetha igama lomfana yilokho okushiwo ngumfana wakhe. Kukholelwa ukuthi igama likababa, noma kunalokho, elivela kuleli gama, izici zobuntu, banethonya elithile esikhathini esizayo sonodana. Ngokwesibonelo, umthelela omkhulu endabeni lapho indodana nobaba benalo igama elifanayo, u-Alexey Alekseevich, u-Ivan Ivanovich, uPeter Petrovich. Kulezi zimo, indodana ivame ukuphindaphinda isiphetho somzali wayo, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukubiza ingane ngegama likayise ngokunakekela. Ukuphumelela kuyinhlanganisela yegama kanye ne-patronymic, uma inhle futhi imnandi ngendlebe, futhi ngokunamandla, lezi zakhi ezimbili zihlanganisa izici ezinhle zomunye nomunye. Isibonelo, uPeter Ivanovich uhlanganisa umnotho kanye nokuqina komoya futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo unamandla okuphatha abanye ngomusa nangobumnene, ukuwanika ngomfudumalo nothando.
Kodwa into esemqoka, mhlawumbe, ayikho egameni, kodwa ngendlela esikhulisa ngayo izingane zethu. Obaba abathandekayo, banakekele kakhulu inzalo yakho, bafundise ngesibonelo sakho okuhle nokuhlonipha, futhi uzovusa indodana yakho umuntu ofanelekayo ongakudingi phambi kwakhe emphakathini.