Izingane zanamuhla zivame ukwenqaba ukuthatha i-pacifier. Kodwa kubazali abathile, kuba yindindiso yangempela esikhathini se-colic noma okuthandayo. Uma le nkathi enzima iphela, abazali abazi ukuthi bangayisusa kanjani ingane. Sizozama ukukusiza kule nkinga enzima, bese uphendula imibuzo ephathelene nawe.
Ngingakwazi yini ukunikeza ingane i-pacifier?
Umbuzo, impendulo yodwa yeqiniso engakaze inikezwe. Akekho udokotela oye wakwazi ukuqhathanisa ukubaluleka kokulimala ekunceleni i-dummy (okuyinto, odokotela abaningi abaphika), nokulala okulethwa kwabazali nezingane. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yakho idinga ingono, ifika kuwe. Abanye abazali abanokuhlangenwe nakho banikeza le ndlela: banikeze i-pacifier ingane yakho. Uma uyithatha, ungayisebenzisa (kodwa, yebo, akusiyo njalo), futhi uma kungenjalo-ke akudingeki unqume noma yini, ingane isivele isinqume konke. Landela iseluleko esingabazeki futhi ujwayele ukujwayela ingane ingane ngokuyigcoba ngunyosi (ukungena ushukela) ngokuqinisekile akufanelekile.
Futhi uma, isibonelo, ingane ingalali ngaphandle kwezinsipho, ingabe kunengqondo ukuzihlupha wena nomntwana? Kufanele wazi ukuthi maduzane noma zonke izingane ezithuthuka ngokweminyaka yazo zizokwazi ukulala ngaphandle kwengono.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yikuphi, ungakwazi kuphela ukuthola ukuthi ingane ifuna i-pacifier, hhayi omakhelwane noma izihlobo ezikude ezingakaze zibone ingane emehlweni, kodwa ngubani owazi kahle ukuthi angamkhuphula kanjani.
Kunini lapho kudingeke ukuba uncelise ingane kusuka embinini?
Futhi, umama wengane kuphela owazi impendulo yalo mbuzo. Futhi yena, ebheka ushintsho ekuziphatheni kwakhe, angakwazi ukubona umzuzu lapho i-dummy evela esigabeni sezidingo ezidingekayo ikhula ibe umkhuba.
Yini okufanele ayinake? Isibonakaliso esivelele kakhulu sokuthi ungakwazi kakade ukuzama ukondla ingane kusuka embinini ukungamkhathaleli kwakhe. Kungabonakala kanjani? Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ingane ayinakulinganiswa ngokwanele ukukhumbula nge-pacifier, yenza izinto zakhe, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, akaceli i-pacifier. Futhi uma ngokuzumayo ebona i-pacifier yakhe, noma ebona i-pacifier emlonyeni womunye umntwana, bese ekhumbula kuphela ngakho, lokhu nakho kuyisiginali sokuthi umuntu angaqala ukuthambisa ingane emlonyeni.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezimo ezintathu lapho umama kufanele anqume ngokuphuthumayo ukuthi anganciphisa kanjani ingane enganeni:
- Ingane iqala ukuthuthukiswa kokulibaziseka kokuzwa noma inkulumo. Kodwa udokotela kumele akhulume lokhu. Ukubheka kwangaphandle kufana nokuthi "Kungani engakutshela khona okwamanje?" Ungabonisi ngaso sonke isikhathi izinkinga.
- Uma umntwana ephuza ingono isikhathi eside, futhi usevele eneminyaka emithathu ubudala. Ngalesi sikhathi, njengomthetho, kakade kuzo zonke izingane i-reflex esondayo iyanyamalala, futhi kanye nayo isidingo sokwaneliseka kwayo siyafa.
- Uma ingane yakho ikhetha izinsipho zomphakathi ukuxhumana nezinye izingane. Kulesi simo, kungase kube nezinkinga ngokuzijabulisa komphakathi, futhi ingane kufanele ifakwe emidlalweni yabangane.
Indlela yokunciphisa umntwana ukuba ancelise ingono?
Kunezinhlobo ezimbili ezihlukene endleleni yabo yokuhlunga ukuze uncelise ingane kusukela embinini.
Indlela yokuqala iyinhloko. Uhlinzeka ngelinye ilanga zonke izingono "ngokuyisimangaliso" zinyamalale endlini. Ungatshela ingane indaba yokuthi igundane lithatha ingono, yabancane bayo. Kodwa kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi emntwaneni lokhu kulimala ngokwanele, futhi le ndlela ayifanele yonke ingane.
Indlela yesibili ihamba kancane kancane. Okokuqala, zama ukunciphisa ukukhulumisana nensipho kuphela ngesikhathi sokulala. Ngesikhathi sokuphumula, ngandlela-thile, yikhohlisa ingane ngemidlalo, ukuze ingabi nesikhathi sokukhumbula ingono. Kancane kancane, kufanele umtshele ukuthi i-ingono izoya maduze egazini elifanayo, noma kumfana omncane ozalelwe eduze. Futhi kuye, kumuntu omdala onjalo, sekuvele kungenzeka ukuthi ubaba nomama balele ngaphandle kwe-nipple. Noma unganikela ingane ukuba iphosta inhlamba noma iziqukathi ezikhethekile kulokhu (lesi siko sesithathile emadolobheni athile omhlaba).