Umuntu owazi ukukhuluma kahle, njalo udala umhawu embukisweni, ongakwazi ukuxhuma amagama amabili. Futhi ikhono lokukhuluma kahle lingasiza kakhulu empilweni. Isibonelo, lapho uxhumana nabahloli, amakhasimende, abahlinzeki, kanye nekhono lokutshela izindaba ezithakazelisayo kubangani, futhi akulimazi.
Kusho ukuthini ukukhuluma kahle?
Abaningi kulabo abafuna ukwazi ukuthi bafunde kanjani ukukhuluma kahle, abazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ngempela. Ngakho-ke, ngigxilile unyawo lwami futhi ngithi, Ngifuna ukufunda ukukhuluma kahle, thola izifundo ezimbalwa kwezobuchwepheshe bokukhuluma bese uma lapho. Kodwa emva kokuthola amasu okuphefumula kahle, noma ukudonsa idokhumenti, umuntu akakwazi ukuba yi-orator enhle kakhulu. Ukuze ukwazi ukukhuluma kahle kakhulu ubuciko obugcwele, kunezinhlayiya eziningi kakhulu ongafunda ngazo wonke umuntu ezifundweni ezikhethekile kanye nokuqeqesha. Kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu odinga ikhono elinjalo, abaningi badinga nje ukuthuthukisa amakhono abo okukhuluma kancane. Kulokhu, amacebo akhethekile akudingeki aziwa - ngokucacile, ngokucacile, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, ngokuphumelelayo ukukhuluma. Indoda ephazamisa inkulumo yakhe yasendlini imane ingathandeki ukulalela.
Indlela yokufunda ukukhuluma kahle nangendlela efanele?
- Bambalwa abazalwa abanekhono lokukhuluma kahle, wonke umuntu kufanele aqonde leli sayensi. Ngakho-ke, akufanele sikhohlwe ukudwetshwa kwepulani yokukhuluma. Zama ucabange ngazo zonke imininingwane, ulungiselele futhi uvuselele lezi zici, mhlawumbe zizozwakala ngendlela ethile, kodwa lokhu kungcono kunokumangalisa okungacacile.
- Indlela yokufunda ukukhuluma kahle futhi ngokuphumelelayo? Izinto eziningi kuye kwashiwo ngezinzuzo zokufunda, kodwa akusona isono ukuphinda-ufunde kabanzi, uhlobo olubalulekile alubalulekile, into eyinhloko ukuthi yizincwadi zekhwalithi ngempela, hhayi ukugxilwa okusheshayo, okukhona lapho kukhona amaphutha amaningi kunesimo sokuqala sefomu. Uma kunesidingo, izincwadi zokufunda nokufunda, "argo" iyatholakala kuzo zonke izindawo zomsebenzi futhi kuyadingeka ukwazi lolu limi lomshoshaphansi.
- Sifunda ukukhuluma kahle nangendlela efanele. Bheka kaningi ezichazamazwi, ukucindezeleka okungalungile namazwi akholeke, asetshenziselwa indawo - isishayo somphakathi wanamuhla. Uma ungaqiniseki ngentshisekelo yegama langaphandle, yibeke esikhundleni senkulumo yakho yemvelo - mhlawumbe ngeke izwakale ihlaba umxhwele kakhulu, kodwa ngeke ungene ku-mess, ubiza ukuvuselela ukuxolelwa.
- Phinda ubuyekeze ukusebenza kwakho phambi kwesibuko noma othandekayo. Funda ukushintsha i-intonation, ukuveza imizwelo ngokunciphisa (okwandisa) ithoni yezwi noma ukusheshisa (ukunciphisa) i-tempo yokukhuluma. Qala okuncane, ungathathi ngokushesha imibiko ebalulekile, tshela ama-anecdotes, abiza ama-toasts. Kancane kancane uzothola ukuzakhela izwi lakho, futhi akekho ozoba nombuzo "lokhu usuke uphukuthele noma uyaxolisa."
- Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi kunezitayela ezahlukene zokukhuluma, futhi kukhona nemikhuba ehlukene yomlando. Khumbula umfundisi wezikole, abambalwa abaprofesa abahloniphekile bakhuluma ngokucacile, ngezimvo zomlobi ohlukumezayo. Futhi phezu kokuhlala phansi komngane wezwi lomeluleki akufanelekile ngokuphelele. Ngakho-ke, sifunda ukukhuluma kahle, ukushintsha isitayela sokulandisa. Zama ukuba umculi ngomzuzu, funda ivesi elifanayo lombhalo (inkondlo) ngezindlela ezahlukene,
njengokungathi ukhuluma phambi kwebhodi labaqondisi, bese udlulisa ukuhlolwa esikoleni semidlalo yaseshashalazini, bese uzama ukwenza abangane bahleke. - Funda ukuphefumula okufanelekile, isichazamazwi esifanele. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile, ulimi lwezintambo kanye namantongomane emlonyeni.
- Cabanga ngesihloko sesithakazelo, ukubhala i-monologue ye-rekhoda. Ngemuva kokulalela futhi uhlaziye owake wezwa. Maka amaphutha namaphutha. Ngezikhathi ezithile, ngakho-ke zivivinye uze ususe konke ukungaphumeleli kwenkulumo yakho.