Ukubukwa kuyindlela eyaziwa ngokusebenza kwengqondo, eyenza sikwazi ukuheha lokho okufunayo ekuphileni kwakho. Cabanga nje ukuthi ukuphila kwakuhle kangakanani uma zonke izifiso zethu nezifiso zethu zagcwaliseka, njengokungathi yi-wand of magic wand. Ngamanye amazwi, inqubo yokuboniswa ngeso lengqondo ingabizwa ngokuthi i-materialization of thought. Inani labantu abafundisa lokhu nalabo abasebenzisa ngokuphindaphindiwe indlela yokubukeka empilweni yabo kumangalisa nje. Izinkulungwane zabantu zifunda nsuku zonke, zisebenzise, zibhale izibuyekezo ngale ndlela futhi zifeze izifiso zazo.
Ungazihlola ukuthi ukubukeka kwangempela kuyini.
Ukufunda lesi sihloko, ungagxeki izindlela zokwenza okufunayo, ngoba nje unemfundo ejwayelekile yeSoviet. Kunoma yikuphi, akukho lutho olulimazayo kulokhu, kuyinto ejwayelekile yengqondo yakho.
Uma usebenzisa indlela yokubukwa okokuqala, kuzomele ukhethe isifiso sakho, okungeke kubonakale singenangqondo kuwe, futhi kuzothatha isikhathi eside kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa. Isibonelo, kungaba ukuthenga okulinde isikhathi eside kwemishini yasendlini, oye waphupha ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa awukwazanga ukuthola ngesizathu esithile.
Indlela yokwenza ngeso lengqondo?
Uma usuvele ukhethe isifiso esithile esithandekayo, ngakho-ke ukufezwa okuphumelelayo kuyadingeka ukuyihlela ngendlela efanele. Isibonelo, uma ufuna ukuthi uDima abuyele kuwe, isifiso kufanele sizwakale kanje: "Ngiyajabula ngoba umndeni wami uphinde ugcwele uthando futhi ngiyabonga ngalokho."
Umkhuba wokubukwa
Kusukela kumqondo kuya ezeluleko ezisebenzayo ezizokusiza ukuba usondelane nephupho.
- Thola imizuzu engu-10-15 yamahhala, phumula futhi ucabange ngayo yonke imininingwane yomcimbi ozokwenzeka ngemuva kokufinyelela okufunayo. Vele ugijimele esimweni sobuqili esikhathini esizayo futhi ujabulele iphupho ligcwaliseke. Ukucabangela akufanele kube isithombe esishukumisayo, kufanele sibonakale njengefilimu, egcwele ukukhohlisa.
- Ifilimu yakho kufanele ivela kumuntu wokuqala. Ungazicabangi wena, awuyena umlingisi. Bheka izwe elicabangelayo elikuzungezile, ngoba wenza lokhu empilweni yangempela. Njengoba ukhona emibonweni yakho, ungakhohlwa ukuthi nguwe, hhayi omunye umuntu omthandayo kusuka ohlangothini.
- Xhuma zonke izinzwa. Njengoba kushiwo ngaphambili, izethulo kufanele zibe zigqamile futhi zigcwale ngangokunokwenzeka. Zama ukuzwa ama-aromas, uthinta nokukhanya kwemisebe yelanga ekukhohlisweni kwakho.
- Ilokhi yokuvala. Sebenzisa isithombe osithandayo kakhulu njengehange. Kuzokusiza ukuthi uphinde uthole isimo sengqondo esihle futhi ususe imizwelo emibi noma ukudabuka lapho udinga. Ngesikhathi sokukhungatheka, sebenzisa i- "anchor" ukushintsha ukucabanga kwakho kusuka kokubi kuya kokuhle, futhi ngokuphindaphindiwe upheqa ifilimu mayelana nephupho lakho.
- Imithombo eminingi yombhalo ithi kufanele udedele isifiso sakho noma umane uyikhohlwe bese uzobuya kuwe. Lena indlela yabantu abavilapha abangafuni lutho.
yenza ukuze ufeze umgomo ohlosiwe. Ayikho into eyenzeka yedwa, noma yimuphi umphumela, umzamo udinga, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukucabanga ngeso lengqondo, lokhu kufanele kube umkhuba. Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngaphambi kwamakilasi udinga ukuzwa ukuvuselelwa kokulindela, ngoba lokhu kungcono ukusebenzisa indlela yokubukwa ekuseni.
Khumbula ukuthi indlela yokubuka kuphela ayiqinisekisi ukuthi ukugcwaliseka kwezifiso zakho, uma ngesikhathi esifanayo ulala embhedeni futhi ungenzi lutho. Mthetho, thola ngezindlela zokuqaphela umkhumbi bese uzothola ithuba lokubona zonke izifiso zakho.