Kukhona inkolelo yokuthi intando enamandla kanye nomlingiswa ziyizindawo ezingenasisekelo, yingakho umuntu ekwazi ukufeza izindawo eziphakeme, kanti abanye abakwenzi. Kodwa lo mbono uyiphutha. Amandla entando yomuntu angathuthukiswa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezindlela ezikhethekile zokufundisa amandla nokuthuthukiswa kwayo, ngoba kufana nekhono kanye nekhono elithile, elenziwe ngokuqeqeshwa.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, isici esibaluleke kakhulu yizenzo zomuntu ozama ukuthuthukisa amandla . Ngokuvamile kunzima ukuba aqonde ukuthi yini nokuthi yini azama ukuyihlakulela. Kuthatha umzamo omkhulu ukuziphoqa. Kubalulekile ukucabanga ngendlela yokuqinisa amandla okuthanda, hhayi ngeqiniso lokuthi akukho lutho olwenzekayo.
Kuthiwani uma kungekho amandla okuthanda?
"Esikhundleni sokubala ukuzithiba, umuntu kufanele azame ukugwema izilingo. Kuyoba usizo nakakhulu uma amandla omuntu ehlelwa phansi, kunokuba agxilile , "kusho isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uLaurent Nodgren.
Isazi sezokwelapha nabasebenza nabo baqhuba ukuhlolwa phakathi kwabafundi.
Kwelinye lazo, abafundi abalambile babikezela ngokucacile ukuthi bakwazi ukuphikisa ukunambitheka kokudla, kunokuba labo abagcwele futhi ngakho-ke baqiniseka ngokugcwele ukuthi ngeke bathinte ukudla.
Ngesinye isikhathi, ababhemayo, beqiniseka ukuthi bangakwazi ukubhekana nesifiso sabo, bavame ukuphindaphinda izikhathi ezimbalwa kunalabo abaqiniseka ukuthi banesilinganiso esiphansi sokuzithiba.
Ngakho-ke, kubonakala sengathi abantu bayazithoba esilingweni, futhi akukho okungaqondakali ukuthi abantu abaningi banenkinga yokukhuluphala kanye nezinye izidakamizwa.
Umthandazo Wokuqinisa Ukuthanda Nomoya
Imithandazo namazwi afundwa ngekholo langempela kanye nothando kungasiza ekuguquleni impilo ukuze ibe ngcono. Bangakwazi ukufunda noma kuphi, bakhetha lowo mthandazo, okwenza kube lula ukuxazulula umsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu kule nkathi. Imithandazo ingaqinisa amandla okuthanda kanye nomoya kuphela uma kunesifiso esinamandla nokukholwa okuqinile.