Imibhangqwana eminingi efuna ukuba nomntwana ayikwazi ukufeza iphupho labo isikhathi eside. Baya ocwaningweni oluningi, baphathwa emitholampilo ekhethekile, kodwa ukukhulelwa okufisayo akuza.
Ngesifiso sokuqala, baqala ukufuna usizo emkhakheni wolwazi, basebenzisa izinhlaka ezihlukahlukene kanye nemikhuba yokukhulelwa. Umqambi wokuthola ukukhulelwa umfelandawonye womlingo owenzelwe ukushintsha izimo zokukhulelwa, ukuthuthukiswa nokuzalwa kwengane.
Ngethemba lokusiza amandla omlingo, kubalulekile ukulandela imithetho ethile:
- Amasiko kufanele ayenze kuphela nomlingani wabo.
- Funda isakhiwo esihle kakhulu ngenyanga ekhulayo. Kukholelwa ukuthi lokhu kufanele kube negalelo ekuthuthukiseni kangcono ingane ekubelethweni komama.
- Kungcono ukusebenzisa kokubili ugobe kanye nemithandazo yokukhulelwa. Ngakho-ke, umkhuba owodwa ukhuliswa omunye, ngaleyo ndlela ukwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa kanye nokuzalwa kwezingane ezilinde isikhathi eside. Ngokuvamile ngangokunokwenzeka, umuntu kufanele avakashele isonto futhi aphathe izicelo zokuthandazela abangcwele abenza abesifazane abathintekayo, abesifazane nabantwana abancane.
- Labo abafisa ukuba nemithandazo ekhethekile ekungenakudla usizo olungenamntwana bangasiza kakhulu imibhangqwana. Zifundwa kangcono kanye nomlingani ukuze zandise amathuba okukhulelwa.
- Uma ufunda iziqephu zokukhulelwa (ngokuvamile kwenziwa ngaphambi noma emva kokucatshangwa kokusolakala) udinga ukugxila emazwini awakhulunywa, ucabange ukuthi isifiso sokuba nomntwana sesivele sitholiwe.
Iziqephu zokukhulelwa kokuqala
- Okuphumelela kakhulu okwamanje yizindlela zezinyathelo zomlume odumile ovela eSiberia, uNatalia Stepanova, phakathi kwabo okuyinto yokuqamba ukukhulelwa kokuqala. Ukuthola umphumela, udinga ukuqala ukufunda umbhalo okhethekile ngosuku lwesithathu lwenyanga: "Ngizithola ngiyisiza. Emagqeni okuthola amanoni, emzimbeni ukuhlanza, ukugoqa emilenzeni, ukuze ingane ikwazi ukukhulelwa. Yile ndlela inyanga yenyanga esibhakabhakeni ikhula futhi iza, ngakho izithelo zenceku (igama lakho) liqala futhi likhula. Egameni likaKristu uMsindisi. Amen . " I-conspiracy kumele iphindwe kathathu. Uma ufunda ugobe, udinga ukubopha ifindo ku-string noma i-ribbon. Inqubo kumele iphindwe nsuku zonke. Ekupheleni kwezinsuku ezingamashumi amane, kutholakala ama-forty knots. Ukukhulelwa kwenzeka uma lesi sikhathi siphela. Le nqubo yayibizwa ngokuthi isakhiwo sokukhulelwa ama-nodules 40.
- Isakhiwo esinamandla sokukhulelwa kuyisiko esinesibuko ebusweni benyanga. Kudingekile ukuma uhamba phambi kwesibuko ukuze inyanga encane ibonise ngaso leso sikhathi. Uma ubheka ukucabangela kwakho, kudingeka ucabange ukhulelwe futhi uhlabelele amagama alandelayo: "Inyanga intsha-entsha, othandekayo othandekayo, indawo ethandekayo, yebo, ngingumlobokazi wakho kuphela. Wena wazalwa namuhla, futhi Mina, iNceku kaNkulunkulu (igama lakho), uzoba nomntwana. Wena ngokwakho ngenjabulo, kuwe ngenkazimulo. Yiba njalo. Amen . " Ngemuva kwesiko, kufanele ulale ubusuku nomyeni wakho.
- Umkhuba wokukhulelwa, ophethwe kusasa ekugeza, unamandla kakhulu futhi ungenziwa kuphela kanye. Le ntombazane kumele iguqulwe ngaphambi kokuba i-nightie futhi inyawo layo lokunene lime emgodini ngamanzi. Umqambi kufanele ufundwe owesifazane ongathandani naye ngobuhlobo begazi: "Kuyoba khona inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) ekuseni kakhulu, ekuseni kusasa, ngonyawo olulodwa ekugeza. Isigqila (igama) sizobiza amandla aqhakazile, okuhle okuhle. Mnike amandla omntwana okhanyayo, ohlakaniphile. Lokho kwamemeza kakhulu emasontweni angamashumi amane okusheshayo, futhi ezinyangeni eziyisishiyagalolunye ezinyakazayo. Ngakho ukuze isifuba sensizwa ihlangane nezindebe zakhe ezincane, ezithandekayo. Kumncane okwehliswayo akuzange kuthinte, futhi ubuhlungu bokuzalwa kwesigqila (igama) kwadlula. Futhi ake umyeni wakhe athathe umntwana, amnike igama lomhlaba. Njengoba inyawo lesigqila (igama) manje limi ngokuqinile, liqinile, ngakho izwi lami lizoqina, lizoqina. Okushiwo ukuthi ukuthi kugcwaliseke. Okushiwo - kuzogcwaliseka. " Ngemva kokufunda lesi sakhiwo, intombazane kufanele ihlale emgodleni ngezinyawo zombili futhi igubhe i-nightclub yesikhathi esinezintathu ngamagama: "Ngikholelwa, ngithemba ukuthi ngilindele ingane".
Umlutha wokugcina ukukhulelwa
Uma owesifazane ebhekene nenkinga yokukhulelwa kwesisu ngenxa yokulahlekelwa isisu okuphakade, angasebenzisa izinyathelo ezikhethekile zokugcina ukukhulelwa. Ukulondoloza ukukhulelwa ungenza icebo emanzini. Lesi yisiko esilula kakhulu esenziwa ngokushesha ngemva kokuvusa. Egodini lamanzi ahlanzekile, amagama athile afundwa: "Umama wami kaNkulunkulu, umncintiswano wonina bonke, phuma emasangweni akho asezulwini, ukuqinisa inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), uqinise isithelo sesisu sakhe bese uluma izithelo zawo. Busisa futhi usize. Amen . " Khona-ke kuyadingeka ukuthi uphuze njalo amahora phakathi nosuku emphinjeni wamanzi. Futhi udinga ukwenza ama-sips ayishumi nanye. Ngemuva kokuphuza kokugcina, ungalala.
Futhi, ukusindisa ingane, abesifazane abakhulelwe bangafunda imithandazo eqondiswe kuMama kaNkulunkulu.