Umndeni omuhle awunayo imithetho ekahle ngenxa yokuthi imindeni enjalo ayikho. Nakuba, yiqiniso, wonke umuntu unokuqonda kwakhe okusemqoka futhi sonke sizama ngakho. Namuhla, ake sikhulume ngemithetho yonke imindeni ehloniphayo okufanele iphile.
Uma izikole zifundiswa ziqondisa ukuthi ziqokomise izikhathi zokuphila komndeni, izindinganiso kanye namasiko, khona-ke impumelelo yemishado iyokhula ngokuqinisekile. Abantu abasha abangena emnyangweni ongcwele ngokuvamile abanalo umqondo wokuthi hlobo luni lomsebenzi.
Silandela imithetho
Umshado oshadile kufanele uqale ngeqiniso nokuthembeka ngokuphathelene nomunye nomunye. Abashadile kumele baqaphele izenzo zabo, baqiniseke ngokukhetha okhethiwe.
Umndeni ngumphakathi omncane ukuthi, ukuze uhlale ngokuthula, kufanele uqalise imithetho yakhe encane futhi uhloniphe. Imithetho yokuziphatha yomndeni ihlanganisa:
- kudingekile ukuqaphelana njengenani eliphakeme kakhulu;
- ukunakekelwa okungenabugovu nothando ngomfazi;
- ububele nokuhlanganyela empilweni yawo wonke amalungu omndeni, ukuzimisela ukusiza nokusekela;
- isifiso esiqaphelayo sokugqugquzela okuhle okuhle komndeni;
- ukulahla ubugovu nokugxila ezintweni zabanye.
Imithetho yokuxhumana nobuhlobo emndenini kufanele isekelwe ekuqapheliseni indima yelungu ngalinye lomndeni. Sonke ngandlela-thile siyadlala indima yomphakathi. Ngabazali, ngamunye wethu wenza indima yengane, emsebenzini sisebenza nabo, osebenza nabo, esikhungweni - abafundi. Emndenini, njenganoma yimuphi umphakathi, sine "amaqembu" athile. Owesifazane wenza njengomfazi nomama. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukunakekela umyeni kanye nezingane kuyimfanelo yakhe. Ukuhlonipha oshade naye, ukuqaphela ukuthi uyinhloko yomndeni, uthando kanye nesifiso sokuba naye njengomuntu oyedwa - lesi simo sengqondo kufanele sibonwe yizingane. Bayiqaphela kakhulu, "lungisa" igama ngalinye bese ukopisha abazali babo kukho konke. Ngakho-ke, kufanele babonise isibonelo esihle.
Umlingani naye, ubophezelekile ukuba ajwayele indima yomyeni nobaba onakekelayo, umvikeli wabantu abathandekayo futhi abasondelene naye. Isimo sengqondo sokuthuthumela ngomfazi, inhlonipho nokumhlonipha. Akukho okunye okungenzeka
Ukuthembana nokuhlonipha phakathi kwezingane nabazali kubaluleke kakhulu. Uma umama engaba ngumngane weqiniso nomeluleki endodakazini yakhe, izinkinga eziningi ekukhuliseni zizogwetshwa. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukugxilisa ezinganeni imithetho eyisisekelo yokuziphatha, okuvela emndenini. Ukuhlonipha abadala, isiko lokukhulumisana nokuziphatha, imithetho yokuziphatha okuphuza - kuzo zonke lokhu ingane izothi kuwe: "Ngiyabonga!".