Umnikazi oqaphele ukhathalela izinguquko ezincane esimweni nasekuziphatheni kwesilwane sakhe - ikati noma ikati. Futhi abangenalwazi kakhulu babonisa ukukhathazeka ngokweqile, uma ikati linemphumulo eyomile, lifuna imbangela yalesi simo.
Kungani ikati inomphuzi owomile?
Njengoba unqume ukuthi ikati noma ikati inekhala elifudumele elomile, okokuqala ungesabi futhi ugcine ukuziphatha kwesilwane sakho. Mhlawumbe isidalwa esihle se-feline savuka nje. Ukuze amakati, ukoma kwempumu kuyisenzo esivamile sokuvusa. Ukumelela okufanayo kwempumu kungabonwa ekati ngemuva kwemidlalo esebenzayo, egijima nokunye okunjalo. Njengoba izinga lokushisa kwekati liphakeme kakhulu kunomuntu (cishe amadigri amabili), ukukhuphuka komswakama okuvela emzimbeni womzimba (impumulo kufaka phakathi) kwalesi silwane esincane ngaphansi kwezenzo ezisebenzayo kwenzeka ngokwengeziwe - yilona isizathu sekhaleni elomile nelomfudumele. Okuncane, okungenabungozi kakhulu, ukwehlukana kwempilo nakho kungaba yimbangela yesikhashana yokomile kwempumu. Isibonelo, ukushisa ngokweqile, ukudla ngokweqile, uketshezi okwedlulele emgqeni wokugaya (amakati agwangu uboya ngesikhathi sokukhokha) kungabangela ukwanda kancane kwezinga lokushisa futhi, ngenxa yalokho, impumu ekati ingaba efudumele futhi eyomile. Ungakhathazeki, kuzodlula ngokwayo.
Ikati inekhala elishisayo nelomile
Kodwa ukoma kanye nekhazimu elishisayo lesilwane kungaba yisifo esesabekayo salokhu noma leso sifo . Linganisa ukushisa kwesilwane sakho ngendlela yendabuko. Uma (izinga lokushisa) lihlala isikhathi eside, ngenkathi isilwane sisalala kakhulu, silahlekelwe isifiso sayo, ukunganaki, ukukhululeka nokukhululeka okwenziwe ekhaleni - ngokushesha ufune usizo kudokotela. Udokotela kuphela ozokwazi ukuthola ukuxilongwa okufanele futhi anikeze ukwelashwa okufanele.
Buka ukuziphatha komngane wakho omnene futhi ungamthandi amaminithi engeziwe.