Izinkinga ezithandane emphakathini wethu zivame ukunganakwa noma ukunganakiwe. Abesifazane abanesifo esikulesi sihloko, kaningi, ngokungabi khona kokwaneliseka ngokobulili noma ngokobulili njengalokho, basola umlingani wabo, izimo ezingalungile, impilo engafanele - ngisho nangaphandle kokuqaphela ukuthi abagulayo.
I-Vaginismus yinkinga evimbela ukungena kwesisu kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo, kufaka phakathi nokuxhumana kocansi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi imisipha ye-pubic-coccygeal iyancishiswa ngokungaqondile. Ukunciphisa okunjalo kwenzeka kakhulu ngokungalindelekile, ngenxa yokuthi ithuba lokulala ocansini libuhlungu kakhulu noma lingekho.
I-Vaginismus - Izimpawu
Abesifazane abaphethwe yisifo esinjalo, abakwazi ukulawula i-spasm. Isimiso sokunciphisa imisipha ye-pelvic ku-vaginism kufana nendlela yokwehlisela iso uma uzama ukungena kuwo izinto zangaphandle. Izinga lobuhlungu nobude besifazane ngamunye ngumuntu ngamunye, ikakhulukazi ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu zingadlulela ezinsukwini ezimbalwa emva komzamo wokungena. Ingozi yalesi sifo akuyona nje ukuthi ngokuvamile ivame ukungqubuzana nobuhlobo, ukuxabana okuqhubekayo emndenini futhi kungumthombo wokucindezeleka okukhulu, kodwa ukuthi esimweni esinjalo kukhona ingozi yomshado oshadile, okunye okungenzeka ube khona kuze kube ngu-10 -15 iminyaka.
Uma kuzincazelo zezimpawu, uthole okuthile okufana nesimo sakho "esibucayi," mhlawumbe wayenemibuzo mayelana nokuthi: "kanjani ukuqeda vaginismus futhi kungenzeka?"
I-Vaginismus - ukwelashwa
Isimo salesi sifo siphansi. Ngokwezibalo, ngokwesilinganiso ama-3-4% amantombazane amancane ahlushwa yi-vaginismus.
Izimbangela zeVaginismus
Ukuvela kwesifo esinjalo kungabangela izinto eziningana:
- ukwesaba ukulala ngokokuqala;
- ukudlwengula;
- ukungabi nolwazi oluyisisekelo lokuphila ngokobulili;
- ukwesaba okukhulu noma ukucindezeleka;
- ukungabi khona kwe-lubrication yemvelo ngesikhathi socansi, njll.
Njengoba uke waphawula, phakathi kohlu lwezizathu kukhona kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo kuphela. Ukuze uphathe kahle lesi sifo, kubalulekile ukubhekisela ochwepheshe kuqala. Uma ukuhlolwa ku-gynecologist kungazange kuveze imiphumela, futhi akukho okungajwayelekile komzimba okutholiwe, khona-ke impande yenkinga ikhona emoyeni wakho wengqondo. Kulokhu, udinga ukuxhumana no-sexologist.
Indlela yokwelapha i-vaginismus?
Owesifazane kakhulu akaqapheli umlingani wakhe ocansi, ukuthi unehlobo oluthile lokuphambuka esiteshini esiseduze. Le ndoda ayicabangi ngisho nokuba khona kwezinsipho zomzimba zangasese, okuyisizathu sokunqaba kwentombazane ukuba abe nobulili.
Ukwelashwa kwalesi sifo kufanele kube okuphelele futhi kufaka:
- ukuhlolwa kwegazi, ukubonisana ne-sexologist;
- i-psychoanalysis;
- ukwelashwa ngabanye, ukwelashwa kokuziphatha.
Ukwelashwa kwe-vaginismus ekhaya
Uma ufuna ukuthuthukisa ukuphumelela kokwelapha, kuzodingeka futhi wenze okunye ukusebenza kwekhaya ngaphandle kokuchwepheshe abavakashele kule nkambu.
Ukuzivocavoca nge-vaginismus
Ukuzivocavoca okuphumelela kakhulu futhi okulula ukulawula imisipha ye-pelvic. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga "ukuqina"
Ukwelashwa kwe-vaginismus kufushane, ikakhulukazi ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, kuyadingeka izinqubo ezifika ku-10. Ngokuqonda phakathi kokubambisana nesifiso sabo esivamile sokunqoba isithiyo, owesifazane maduzane uzothola ngokugcwele futhi angakujabulela zonke izinjabulo zokusondelana.