Ukuphothula iziqu kusuka endodaneni noma indodana kuyiseholide elijabulisayo nelithinta inhliziyo! Ngokuvamile, hlobo luni lomama angeke alukhalele lapho ebuka ingane yakhe esiteji ukuze athole isitifiketi sakhe sokubhalisa, esibonisa ukuthi ingane isiphelile futhi sekuqala ukuphila komuntu omdala. Ukulungiselela lolu suku kuphelela cishe unyaka. Yiqiniso, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthenga noma ukuthunga ingubo eyenziwe ngokwezifiso kwengane, kodwa ungakhohlwa wena futhi uthathe ingubo ethakazelisayo ephathini lokuqedela umama wakho. Phela, uhlolisise umsebenzi wesikole ebusuku, waya emihlanganweni yabazali, uphazamise phambi komfundisi futhi ugxeka (noma udumisa) amamaki. Futhi manje ilungelo lakho ukuziqhenya ngane wakho kuleli holide.
Ngokwemvelo, ungakhohlwa ukuthi leli liholide labafundi besikole, futhi wena umthunzi kuphela ubuhle nokuhlanzeka kwentsha, ngakho ungakhethi ukugqoka umama kusihlwa , okuzobamba iso lakho. Ukugqoka umama kufanele kube, okokuqala, ubuhle, buhle, buhle, buhle.
Ungakhetha kanjani ukugqoka umama wesiqu noma uthweswe iziqu?
- Okokuqala, kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuthi leli yiholide lomntanakho futhi akufanele ukhethe izingubo ezikhanyayo. Ngisho noma unesithombe esihle, ukukhetha ingubo kumama wakho endodakazini yakho noma indodana yakho, udinga izitayela kanye nembala ephansi. Kungaba ngethoni noma kuhlanganiswe ngokuvumelana, ukuze izithombe zomndeni zibukeke zimangalisa.
- Ungakhethi ukusizwa kwentsha. Ikakhulukazi iphathelene nokugqoka umama weziqu. Ngakho uzobukeka njengeyintombi engaphezu kwendodana yakho, kodwa hhayi njengomama okhulise ingane ehlakaniphile.
- Izambatho ezinhle namajeketi noma i- bolero , hhayi evulekile kakhulu futhi ngaphandle kokusikeka okuvusa amadlingozi, izohambisana ngokuphelele. Ukuphothula iziqu iholide lapho kufanelekile ukukhombisa ukuthi ungumama wengane omdala futhi kufanele ugqoke ngokuvumelana nesimo sakho.
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