Ngakho yilokho okudingayo ukuxazulula izinkinga!
Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi amantombazane acabanga ngayo yonke imininingwane yomshwana wabo womshado, noma ngabe owaziyo nomkhwenyana wesikhathi esizayo akakaze kwenzeke. Yebo, uma usuku oluthandwayo lubhalwe uphawu olubomvu ekhalendeni, khona-ke ukugqoka umshado ophelele esikhathini esizayo kulungele ukugijimela emkhawulweni wezwe, ukuze ukhule ube mncane futhi uhambe kunoma yikuphi ukuyekethisa (ngisho nonembeza) ukuwuthola.
Yingakho indaba yomshado ongowesifazane oneminyaka engu-31 ubudala, uMonique Penberty (Monique Penberthy) waseMelika waseMelbourne, athola inkululeko enjalo. Cha, le ntombazane ayizange iphule wonke amarekhodi ngenani lejazi, ukukhetha umbala noma ukusika okungavamile. Ngesikhathi uMonique ehluleka ukuthola umgcobo womshado wakhe, owake waphupha, wavele wangena ngaphansi komqhele ... wahamba!
Nakuba kulokhu kudingeke ukuthi ukhulume ngakho konke okwenzayo ... Kukhona ukuthi umlingani wakhe ozayo - uRowan Monique oneminyaka engu-27 ubudala uhlangane noNovemba 2014 kwi-Inthanethi.
Abathandi basheshe bathola izithakazelo ezivamile - uthando lwezinja. Ngemuva komhlangano empilweni yangempela ngo-Mashi 2015, lo mbhangqwana awukaze waba nemizwa yabo futhi wabeka usuku lomshado - ngoSuku Luka-Valentine ngonyaka ozayo.
Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, uMonique noRowan babefisa ukubamba umshado emshadweni wetiya ovela "Alice in Wonderland"!
"Sasiyala ihholo, ofakazi abakhethiwe nabashadile futhi baqasha isiliva," kusho uMonique Penberty, "kodwa inkinga enkulu kimi kwakuwukukhetha kwengubo yami yokuphupha! Njengoba kunikezwe izici zesibalo (futhi isisindo sikaMonique singaba ngu-165 kg), ngichitha izinyanga eziningana ngifuna, kepha ngathola isembatho esifanele kunazo zonke zezinyolo zendlovu ... "
Ngeshwa, ngoSuku Labo Bonke Abathandi, uMonique noRowan behlulekile ukuba abashade bomthetho - ngosuku lokukhumbula lo msanyana ofike esibhedlela lapho abekwa khona isifo esixilisayo - i-fasciitis necrotizing.
Ngokwezibonakaliso, lesi sifo esingavamile sesikhumba sisakazeka ngokushesha emithanjeni nasemilenzeni, bese isikhumba sibomvu futhi siqala ukufa. Kulesi simo, kwakungekhona ngomshado, ngoba kwakungaziwa ukuthi intombazane ingasinda noma cha.
Ukuze azame ukusindisa uMonique, odokotela kwakudingeka bambeke esimweni se-coma yokufakelwa, bese beqeda ukutheleleka ngokucophelela futhi asuse inyama ebolayo.
Ngesimo esingazi lutho, le ntombazane yachitha izinsuku ezingu-31 kanye nabanye abangu-73 esibhedeni esibhedlela ngemuva kokuvuka.
Umkhwenyana ngaso sonke isikhathi wayeseseduze futhi enakekela abafundi bakhe ababili abanezinyawo. Kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho uMonique ekwazi ukufika ezinyaweni zakhe - umbuzo womshado wawuyiyona nto eyinhloko ku-ajenda. Maye, umama kaMonique wayeqedile konke okwakungenwe ngaphambili kwalowo mbhangqwana, futhi ingubo kakade ithengwe ngumuntu ...
Kodwa emva kokufuna isikhathi eside esilandelayo umakoti waqaphela ukuthi akakwazi ukuthola ingubo efanelekayo yakhe, wabhekana nesinyathelo esinqaba - ukushada kwelinye ilinki!
"Kusukela kulokho esikuhlelile, akukho okwenzekile," kusho uMonique. "Kodwa ngemva kwalokho engasinda futhi ngisindiswe ngokuyisimangaliso, kwaba njalo kimi." Lapho evele ehamba zehamba phambi kwezivakashi zethu, wesaba kakhulu! Ngabe sengibheke nxazonke futhi ngabona ukuthi wonke umuntu wayemomotheka futhi eshaya. Ukwesekwa okunjalo kuthinta! "
Kuyafaneleka ukuthi umkhwenyana wanquma ukusekela abathandekayo bakhe futhi esikhundleni se suit smart yena ufunga ukwethembeka kuya isilinda kanye tie umnsalo.
Ngokuthakazelisayo, emcimbini ovulekile, uMonique noRowan bamenyiwe ngamakhamuzi angaba ngu-100 ...
... kodwa begubha kakade enkampanini kancane - abanye abantu abangu-600 bakhuphuka ukuze babheke umbhangqwana onesibindi kakhulu othandweni!