Umshado yisikhathi esilinde isikhathi eside lapho amaphupho egcwaliseka. Lo mcimbi ubhekene nokulungiswa okukhethekile nokuhlangenwe nakho okumnandi. Phakathi kwemikhosi yomshado, umzuzu okhunjulwa kakhulu ukushintshaniswa kwamasongo, isifungo sokuthembeka kanye nomdanso wokuqala wezingane. Kodwa umzuzu obaluleke kakhulu, othintekayo ukubonisa ukubonga kwabazali emshadweni. Kubo, lolu suku olujabulisayo futhi olujabulisayo, ukubuka ukuthi izingane ezikhulile zakha kanjani umndeni wazo futhi amazwi okubonga kulabo abasanda kushada abajabulisa kakhulu abazali babo.
Abazali kunabo bonke bafisa izingane zabo ukuba zijabule, futhi yibo labo, ngesikhathi sokushada komshado ngaphambi kokushada, banikeza abantu abasha ukusekelwa okudingekayo. Kodwa isikhathi siyadlula ngokushesha, futhi usuku lomshado lufika, lapho ngifuna ukuveza ukubonga kwami kubazali bami: ngenxa yokuthi baye bavusa futhi bakhuliswa, ukusekelwa nokusiza ezikhathini ezinzima, ukuthola iseluleko, ngenxa yokuthi bangabantwana bakho, abasondelene nabo abantu ngawe.
Ungalungisa noma uthuthukise kusengaphambili. Kodwa kudingeka ucabange ukuthi ungathola injabulo, futhi kuyoba nzima kuwe ukuveza ukujula kwemizwa yakho kubazali. Kungcono ukulungiselela kusengaphambili. Lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga ukufunda inkulumo elungiselelwe ephepheni. Ukufunda okunjalo kuyamnciphisa ubuqotho nokuthembeka okungesiwo wonke umuntu okuthandayo. Ukubhaliswa kusengaphambili, udinga ukufunda. Ungesabi ukuthi kukhona okuyokhohliwe, ngakho-ke amagama azozwakala ngokwemvelo.
Ukubonga kwabazali abasanda kushada - izincomo jikelele:
- Bobabili abashade besikhathi esizayo badinga ukwenza inkulumo, ngoba manje bayonke, okusho ukuthi impendulo kufanele igcinwe ndawonye. Uma othile enamahloni kunabalingani futhi kunzima nesixuku sabantu ukubiza ngisho nemishwana eyifunde kusengaphambili, angavumelana namazwi womlingani, kodwa kufanele sengeze, ngisho neziphakamiso ezimbalwa ezivela kuye.
- Khuluma, zama kusuka enhliziyweni, okubaluleke kakhulu ungakhohlwa ukunikeza ukumomatheka kwakho - bayosindisa ngisho nasezimo ezinzima.
- Siyabonga kuphela abazali bakho, kodwa bathi emcimbini amagama athile okubonga kubazali besigamu sesibili. Khohlwa ukungaqondani, izikhalazo ezaze kwaba yilolu suku, zama ukwakha ubuhlobo obusha obuvumelana nabazali bomlingani.
- Uma ukhetha amagama, gwema ama-pathos, imisho ephakeme, sebenzisa amnandi, amagama alula. Kuyoba kuhle uma ukhumbula uhlobo oluthile lwezinkumbulo ezinhle noma indaba ehlobene nabazali, umcimbi owakhunjulwa. Ungesabi ukwethembeka, kulo mzuzu kufanelekile. Zama ukubona izigaba ezibonisa ukuxhumana kwakho nabazali. Futhi lapho ubonga ukubonga kwabazali bomyeni, phawula izimfanelo zakhe ezinhle kakhulu, ozithandayo kuye futhi uthi ngiyabonga kubo ukuthi nimkhuphule kanjalo.
Amazwi okubonga angaba ngesimo seprosaic noma sezinkondlo. Ifomu le-prose lilula ukulikhumbula futhi liqondise. Okukhethwa kahle kuyakuba ngamazwi akho okubonga kubazali abashadayo. Ukwenza kube lula ukubhala imigqa yakho, funda amasampula ezinkulumo zokubonga.
Amazwi okubonga ngabazali bomyeni
Bazali abathandekayo! Namuhla wanginika injabulo - isiphetho sangiletha ngomuntu onomusa, onothando, onomdlandla - igama lakhe ____ okwenza ngokusemthethweni wangishade naye.
Futhi ngiyanitshela, ___ (igama lomamazala) no ____ (igama lomkhwekazi), ngiyabonga kakhulu ngokukhulisa indodana enhle kangaka. Ngiyabonga, ngithole uthando lwangempela, engizozama ukuhlala isikhathi eside
Njengombonakaliso wokubonga, ngiyakucela ukuba wamukele lezi zipho. Ngiyakuthanda futhi ngikuhlonipha kakhulu! Siyabonga ngomyeni wami!
Ngokufanayo, amazwi okubonga abazali bomakoti kufanele azwakale.
Emva kokunikeza izinkulumo kubazali bomakoti nomkhwenyana, labo abasanda kushada nabo bayabonga ngezipho zabo. Imibhangqwana eminingi inikeza izithombe, izithombe zomndeni kanye namathoyizi ekukhunjweni kwengane.
Ngithi ngiyabonga kubazali bakho, ubajabulise kakhulu, ubapha imizuzu embalwa emshadweni.