Lapho umama esizayo ezwa ukuthi yini elindele umntwana, ngokushesha uqala ukucabanga ngegama engingathanda ukumnika lona. Akukho lutho oluyinqaba ngalokhu, ngoba igama yilokho okuhambayo ngamunye wethu kulo lonke ukuphila. Uma sekuvele kwaziwa ukuthi intombazane izovela emndenini, ukhetho luba nzima nakakhulu. Ngifuna ukuthi esikhathini esizayo lapho uhlangana nabantu bakubo ngokushesha ukhumbule igama lakhe elihle, liphinde lihlangane nomuntu onguchwepheshe ! Kodwa "omuhle" umqondo ozithoba kakhulu. Kodwa amagama angavamile amantombazane angenye indaba. Bathi. Amagama anjalo anikeze abesimame nesiphetho engavamile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amagama angavamile angaba okukhethekile, ngoba izinkambiso zomthetho zamanje azivimbeli abazali ukuba bacabange noma yiziphi amagama ezinganeni zabo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuhle noma cha kuyinkinga enkulu kakhulu, kodwa manje kuyindaba ehlukile. Siphakamisa ukuthi uzijwayele ngamagama amahle, amagama angavamile kakhulu futhi angavamile kumantombazane, ngo-2013 abonakala njengowokuqala.
Amagama wesiGreki nesiLatini
Igama labesifazane lomsuka wesiGreki namuhla, kubonakala sengathi akekho omangazayo. Kodwa lokhu akunjalo! Amagama angavamile kunawo wonke amantombazane angakhiwa kuwo wonke amagama awaziwa futhi ahlonishwayo. Isibonelo, igama elidumile lika-Alexander lizwakala ngendlela entsha: Alexandrina, Lexandra, Sandra, Alex, Alexia, Sandrine.
Uhlu lwamagama angavamile amantombazane lunganezelwa kumagama aseRoma: Justin, Stephy, Stepanida, Clementine, Melia, Ustin, Venus, Severin, Lyra, Deborah, Indira. Ngendlela, lawa magama angabhekwa njengento engavamile kuphela ekulandeleni kwethu. E-United States, ngokwesibonelo, igama eliyingqayizivele uDeborah ngokuzwa kwethu liyathandwa kakhulu futhi, ngenxa yalokho, lisakazeke.
Amagama wesiqalo seSlavic
Kubonakala sengathi amagama aseRussia, amaSlavic amagama amantombazane akufanele ajwayelekile, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho - adumile. Kodwa mangaki uMiril, uVelen, uZarin, uTomil, uBelan, uZlat noma u-Slaven owaziyo? Okhokho bethu babehlonipha kakhulu isimo esibazungezile, ngakho amagama amaningi ahlobene nalokhu: Ivlina, Veyana, Jasenia, Tsvetia. Kusukela kulawa magama kubonakala sengathi kufudumele, ubuhle ngisho nokuthanda izwe.
Ngendlela, mayelana nokuthanda izwe. Eminyakeni embalwa eyedlule ukubonakaliswa kwayo ngamagama kwaba yindabuko. Ungakwazi ukuhlangabezana namantombazane ngegama laseRussia, i-Odessa, eMoscow, kanye nemithombo (uRusina, Rossina, Rosil, Rossana, njll). Futhi umbuso udlala indima kulokhu. Ngakho-ke, ngonyaka ka-2000, intombazane yokuqala eyavela esibhedlela sase-Odessa ibizwa ngokuthi i-Odessa, kanti iziphathimandla zedolobha zazinakekela izipho yena nomama osemncane.
Abazali kufanele baqaphele
Yiqiniso, landela imfashini futhi ufisa ukuphuma akufanelekile. Ubugovu bomzali kungase kube yinkinga yengane empofu esikhathini esizayo, ngoba ngenxa yegama elingavamile enkulisa, esikoleni noma esikhungweni, singalingiswa, sinikezelwe ngamagama okuqamba amanga. Futhi ngubani ozoyithanda?
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale intombazane enegama elingavamile, uzizwa kahle ngokubambisana kwakhe ne-patronymic yakhe nesibongo sakhe. Vumelanisa, ngisho negama elihle kakhulu futhi elihle kakhulu lingase lizwakale lingenangqondo noma lingenalutho uma likhethwe ngokungafanele. Indlela engcono kakhulu - igama negama elibizwa ngokuthi i-patronymic linezimpande ezivamile zesimiso (Greek - Greek, Slavic - Slavic, njll).
Kumele futhi kuqaphele ukuthi kunamagama amaningi anganikeza abanikazi babo ubunzima obunzima. Futhi lokhu kubangelwa ukubhala kwabo. Ngakho, amagama kaSnezhan, uMarian, uJulian angabhalwa ngezinhlamvu ezimbili noma ezimbili. Uma kuyiphutha ekhadini lokubingelela - akukhathaleki, futhi incwadi elahlekile noma eyengeziwe kuphasipoti noma yimuphi omunye umbhalo ungaletha izinkinga eziningi.