Virginity and defloration

Ukuhlukunyezwa, noma ukwehlukana kwama-hymen, kuvame ukuvela lapho intombazane encane iqala ukuya ocansini nendoda. Ngokuvamile i- hymen, noma i-hymen, inaphakathi phakathi nomgodi obuncane kakhulu ngobubanzi kunendoda yesilisa. Kule ndaba, uma usungula i-penis ebulilini besifazane, i-hymen ivame ukuvuthwa ngokushesha. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, yiqembu ngalinye le nqubo ingumlingisi ngamunye.

Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi yiziphi izici ezingenzeka ngesikhathi sokuhlaziywa, nokuthi ngabe kungenzeka yini ukubuyisela ubuntombi ngemuva kokuqedwa kwe-hymen.

Ingabe ubuhlungu kanye negazi kudingekile ukuhlaziywa?

Amantombazane amaningi amancane ayaqaphela ukuthi ubulili bokuqala bubabuhlungu kubo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngesikhathi sokunqunywa ubuntombi, noma ukuhlambalaza, ngokuvamile kuvunyelwe inani eliningi legazi. Okwamanje, kunamacala uma kungekho igazi nebuhlungu ngesikhathi sokuhlunga. Yini ongayithinta?

Ingxenye yamantombazane avela ekuzalweni ane-hymen enamandla kakhulu, engenakuphulwa ngesikhathi sokulala. Kulesi simo, i-hymen isethulwe kakhulu, futhi lona wesifazane akazwa ubuhlungu obuhambisana nokuphuka kwawo. Ngakho-ke, igazi kuleso simo alitholakali.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezimweni ezingavamile, ubuhlobo bobulili obuhle abukho nje. I-anomaly enjalo ingaba yindlala noma izuzwe, ngenxa yengozi kumzimba.

Kungenzeka yini ukubuyisela ubuntombi emva kokuphuka?

Ngokuvamile, ngemuva kokuhlambalaza, kuhambisane nokuphuka kwe-hymen, emva kwezinsuku ezingu-5-7, emaphethelweni e-hymen kanye nokuphulukisa i-papillae, futhi esikhathini esizayo, ubulili abubangeli owesifazane imizwa engathandeki. Ngokuvamile, lelo gazi ngesikhathi sezenzo zobulili ezalandela alulwanga futhi.

Kwabesifazane abathile ukulahlekelwa ubuntombi kuba yinkinga yangempela, ngoba ezimweni eziningana intombazane ifuna ukwenza umqondo omuhle kumlingani wakhe ocansini ozayo ocansini. Lesi simo manje sesilungiswa kalula, ngosizo lwe-plastic operation okuthiwa i- hymenoplasty.

Le nqubo yi-suturing ye-vestibule, emva kwalokho ngesikhathi sezocansi kuyoba khona ukuphuma kwegazi, ukulingisa ukulahlekelwa ubumsulwa.