Kubonakala sengathi uthando, ikakhulukazi uthando lwabantu ababili, kufanele lubafana nabo. Nokho, uthando lwabesifazane nabesilisa luhluke kakhulu. Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi amadoda nabesifazane bacabange ngokuhlukile, babuke umhlaba ngokuhlukile futhi bahlaziye izimo. Lona umbono wesilisa ngothando uhluke ngokuphelele kwabesifazane.
Uma owesifazane ethanda, uzokwandisa imizwa yakhe. Kuye, udinga nje ukuba usondele othandweni, uthinte, uzwe ubukhona bakhe futhi uhlale ubonisa uthando lwakho ngezindlela ezimnandi. Uthando lwamaduna lwangempela lubonakalisa ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele. Indoda ayinakukubiza izikhathi eziningana ngosuku ukuze ufise usuku olumnandi noma ubusuku obuhle. Ake sibheke ukuthi uthando lendoda lubonakala kanjani nokuthi luyabonakala kanjani.
Izimpawu zothando lomuntu
Ukuhlukanisa umqondo wokuthi "uthando lomuntu", futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungakanani, udinga ukwazi umehluko omkhulu phakathi kothando lwesilisa nowesifazane. Uthando lwendoda aluziboleki emizwelo nasezintweni ezingenakulawulwa zethando. Kukhona okuthiwa i-logic yesilisa yensimbi othandweni. Uthando lwendoda lunengqondo futhi luyavumelana, luya kancane kancane futhi lukhula ngosuku ngalunye oludlulayo.
Ukubonakaliswa okuyinhloko kothando lwendoda kubangelwa ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho bukhula bube yisiteji esisha. Kuthatha isikhathi sokuthandana kokuqala nesithando esivuthayo, futhi indoda iyaqonda ukuthi owesifazane oseduze naye ufanelekele indima yomngane wokuphila. Lolu luthando lwamadoda wesifazane lubonakala ngalesi sigaba futhi lubonakala ngezibonakaliso ezilandelayo.
- Indoda izikhomba yena nomlingani wayo, isebenzisa "thina" esikhundleni se "Mina," sikhathalela ukuhlala ndawonye, izinhlelo zekusasa.
- Indoda ichitha isikhathi esiningi nowesifazane kunabangane nezihlobo kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uyathandeka futhi ukhululekile emphakathini wakubo.
- Lo muntu uba umqashi wokuzijabulisa ngokuhlanganyela - kokubili kokuphumula, futhi ekuphileni kokuphila kwansuku zonke. Lona abalingani abaseduze kakhulu.
- Indoda ingenisa okhethiweyo bakhe kubazali bakhe nabangani bakhe, njengokungathi imethulela empilweni yakhe, ibe yindilinga yakhe evaliwe.
- Indoda ithemba owesifazane indawo yokuhlala / imoto iyisibonakaliso sokuthembela okuphezulu kakhulu nesimo sengqondo.
- Ngisho nokuxabana okukhulu (lapho kwenzeka ukuthi kuphelile ngokubuyisana) kungaba uphawu lwethando langempela lwesilisa, ngoba ngale ndlela indoda ilwa owesifazane futhi ibonisa ukuthi iyamkhathalela.
- Le ndoda ingakhulumi nje ngezinhlelo ezihlangene zekusasa, kodwa futhi ikhombisa ezinye izenzo. Lesi yisibonakaliso esibaluleke kakhulu futhi sokugcina sokubonakaliswa kothando lomuntu.
Ukuqinisa uthando lwesilisa
Ngakho-ke, uyaqiniseka ukuthi indoda ikuthanda futhi ifuna ukuba nawe. Noma kunjalo, ukuze umtshele ngempela futhi ungavumeli imizwa ipholile, kufanelekile ukulalela amathiphu athile.
- Yiba njalo ujabule, wenze izinhlelo ezihlangene ezithakazelisayo, ungafaki ukudabuka nokudangala, ube "owesifazane-iholide" kumuntu ohlala enesithakazelo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kumnandi futhi engakhathazeki.
Futhi-ke uzofuna ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nawe. - Ungabeki, ugcine ibanga, ungakhathazeki, uhloniphe inkululeko yabantu nokuzimela. Indoda kumele ifike eziphethweni ezifanele, imizamo yakho yokumtshela "impendulo efanele" ingabangela umphumela ohlukile.
- Gcina iphazili kumuntu, zama ukumenza afune ukwazi ngawe ngangokunokwenzeka, ungamvuli ngokuphelele, zinike ikhefu kumlingani wakho.
- Gcina izinto zokuzilibazisa zomuntu, ngisho noma ungazithandi, noma okungenani uziphathe ngokungathathi hlangothi.
- Zama ukujabulisa abangane bakhe nabazali, ngoba umbono wabo ngawe ubaluleke kakhulu kumuntu.