Ukuzalwa kwezinsuku eziyishumi nambili kuyinhlobo yeRucicon engumfana osemusha, lapho umuzwa wokukhula ukhuphuka, imibono emisha ibonakala, futhi kakade uzizwa engenakekelwa kancinci kwabazali phezu kwakhe. Ngokwemvelo, umbuzo wokugubha usuku lokuzalwa lweminyaka engu-16, intombazane noma umfana okhathazekile ngamandla akhethekile. Ngokuqinisekile intsha eningi ifuna ukuguqula lo mcimbi ube uhlobo oluthile lwezinsuku ezinhle kumnandi nokushisa kwezinkanuko, ukuze kungabikho ukungaqapheli, kungashiyi izinkumbulo ezingemuva.
Ngingakugubha kanjani kangcono usuku lwami lokuzalwa kwe-16?
- Inketho ejwayelekile kunazo zonke yokugubha ama-party ama-birthday akhethekileko idili lomndeni wendabuko. Yiqiniso, abaningi bayothi bangabantu abangewona abantu, abadala futhi sebevele bevele bevela emfashini. Kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu onayo imali yokugada nokudlela, futhi akubona bonke abalandeli bemicimbi yomphakathi. Kukhona abakhiqizi bezindlu abafuna ukugubha lo mcimbi ezweni noma efulethini kuphela embuthanweni wabo. Kubo, kufanele uhlanzeke kahle igumbi lokuphumula, ulungise ikhekhe elikhulu kakhulu ngamakhandlela, amabhola, ama-caps, uthathe imidlalo yebhodi elithakazelisayo. Kunezindlela eziningi zokugubha iminyaka engu-16 ekhaya, futhi ngezinye izikhathi azikho ngaphansi kokuqala kuneqembu endaweni yokudlela ebiza kakhulu.
- Uma umndeni wakho ungakwazi ukubhuka ekamelweni endaweni ebiza izindleko zokunethezeka, khona-ke kukhona ithuba lokugubha iminyaka eyishumi nesishiyagalolunye ngeminyaka ejabulisayo futhi enhle kakhulu. Awudingi ukuma ekhishini ngokwakho, ukusiza ukulungisa ukudla okumnandi kubazali. Ama-waiters kanye nabapheki bazokwenza konke ngokwayo, abaculi kanye nomethuli bazokwenza isimo esifanele, futhi abantu bokuzalwa bayodlala indima yenkosi nendlovukazi yebhola elihle kakhulu.
- Abanye abakuthandi neze ukuhlangabezana nesikhathi siningi embuthanweni wabazali nabanye abantu abadala, bafuna umkhathi ovulekile kakhulu futhi ongazimele emikhosini enjalo. Ake sibheke izinketho zokuthi ungagubha kanjani usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lwesi-16 nabangani bakho, ulahle yonke imithetho nemingcele. Kungani ungalawuli i-sauna, ubuthele inkampani echibini, bese uya endaweni ethile kude nezihlobo ukuya eklabhu noma uhambe ubusuku bonke epikinikini. Kuyinto imfashini kakhulu ukuhlangabezana nosuku lweshumi nambili lokuzalwa noma ezinye izinkumbulo ezingxenyeni ezizimele , kokubili ezikhungweni ezikhethekile nasemoyeni ovulekile. Vumelana ukuthi umhlangano wokuzalwa kwezinsuku ezingu-16 eMexico, eHawaiian , pirate, eJapane noma e-gangster isitayela kungaba umcimbi ongakhohlwa.