Ukubeletha kuyisenzakalo esithakazelisayo empilweni yowesifazane kuphela, kodwa wonke umndeni. Akekho owesifazane oyedwa okhulelwe emhlabeni ongayikuvakashelwa yimicabango nemizwa ephazamisayo ngomcimbi ozayo. Ngisho noma ukukhulelwa kuhle, odokotela baye bathola, isibhedlela sokubeletha sikhethiwe, konke kulungele ingane nomama, ukukhathazeka ngeke kukuvimbele ekushiyeni. Futhi lokhu kungokwemvelo, ngoba ukuzalwa kwengane yinto ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni yomama, futhi inqubo yokulethwa iyinkimbinkimbi futhi ayinakulinganiswa. Futhi iNkosi kuphela yayazi ukuthi konke kuzokwenzeka kanjani. Ngakho-ke, akunangqondo ukuthi abesifazane abakhulelwe abakhulelwe bafunde umthandazo wokubeletha okuphephile.
Umthandazo womsebenzi omnene
Ngisho nasezikhathini zasendulo, agogokazi bethu abazange bakwenze ngaphandle komkhuleko ngesikhathi sokubeletha. Kwaqunyiwe ukuthembela kuNkulunkulu futhi ukuthandaza kuye kanye neTheotokos Engcwelengcwele mayelana nokuzalwa okuphephile kwengane. Umkhuleko wokuzalwa ophumelelayo waqinisa inkolelo yokuthi konke kuzohamba kahle. Usize ukuzola futhi ulungiselele ngokwengqondo ngomcimbi ozayo.
Akukhona nje ukuthi omama babethandaza, umthandazo womama ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwendodakazi yakhe kwakubaluleke kakhulu. Namuhla umkhuleko awunawo ukuthandwa okunjalo, kodwa namanje abantu abakakhohlwa ukuphendukela kubaNgcwele ukuze basize ngesikhathi esisikhuni. Ngakho-ke, umkhuleko ngesikhathi sokubeletha kuhambisana nanamuhla. Yiqiniso, akuwona wonke owesifazane ongakwazi ukufunda umthandazo ngesikhathi sokuzalwa. Kodwa kulokhu, ungalungisa kusengaphambili futhi uhloniphe umthandazo wokuzalwa okulula noma ubuze umama wakho ngomthandazo lapho kuzalwa indodakazi yakho.
Luhlobo luni lomthandazo okufanele ufunde lapho uzalwa?
Umakholwa uyazi ukuthi ubani ongathandaza kumntwana lapho ezalwa. Okokuqala, empeleni, eya eNgcwelengcwele iTheotokos. UMariya uMariya wabeletha indodana yakhe ubuhlungu, kodwa emva kokubhekana nakho konke ukuhlupheka kwabantu nokuhlupheka, uyasiqonda futhi usisize. Ngokuthandaza ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa nokubeletha, bakhothamela izithombe zikaMama kaNkulunkulu "Ekuzalweni koMsizi", "Ukukhulelwa kwezingane ezisencane", "Theodore", "Umphikisi", "Skoroposlushnitsa". Omunye wesifazane okhulelwe kufanele afunde umthandazo wokusizwa ngokubeletha.
Umkhuleko wokuzalwa okulula eNtshonalanga Engcwele Theotokos :
I-Virgin Blessed, Umama weNkosi yethu uJesu Kristu, ngubani ukuzalwa kanye nesimo somama nengane, unesihe encekwini yakho (igama), futhi usize kuleli hora, umthwalo wakhe uphendululwe ngokuphepha. O Owesifazane Onobubele WeTheotokos, Angizange ngicele usizo ekuzalweni kweNdodana kaNkulunkulu, ngisize le nceku yenceku yakho, efuna, ikakhulukazi evela Kuwe. Banike labo abahle kuleli hora, futhi babelethe umntwana, bese beletha ekukhanyeni kwaleli zwe, ngesikhathi sokudinga nokukhanya okuhlakaniphile ebhapathizweni elingcwele ngamanzi nomoya. Kuwe siwa, umama kaNkulunkulu u Vyshnyago, ethandaza: Yiba nomusa ngalowo mama, ube yisikhathi sikamama, futhi uthandaze uNkulunkulu kaNkulunkulu wethu ozelwe kuwe, futhi umqinise ngamandla akhe avela phezulu. Amandla akhe abusisiwe futhi adunyiswa, noYise waKhe wokuqala, noBusisiwe noMusa noMoya Wakhe, manje naphakade naphakade naphakade. Amen.
Izihlobo nezihlobo zingathandazela impilo yengane iThikvin Icon kaMama kaNkulunkulu:
O Owesifazane Oyingcwele Ongcwele, iNdodana,Londoloza futhi ulondoloze ngaphansi kwephephelo lami izingane zami (amagama),
Bonke abasha, amantombazane nezinsana ezincane,
Ubhapathiziwe futhi awunamagama futhi esesibelethweni somama ukhathele.
Ukumboza ngengcebo yoMama Wakho,
Qaphela ngokumesaba uNkulunkulu nangokulalela abazali,
Imithandazo yeNkosi yami neNdodana yakho,
Kwangathi angabanika izinto eziwusizo zokuzisindisa.
Ngibathumela ekuhlolweni kwakho komama,
Ngoba wena unguKuvikeleka Okuvela KuNkulunkulu kuzigqila zakho.
Umama kaNkulunkulu, ngikhombele emfanekisweni wobubele bakho basezulwini.
Philisa umphefumulo wami kanye namagciwane omzimba izingane zami (amagama),
Izono zami zenziwe.
Nginika ingane yami ngenhliziyo yonke eNkosini yami uJesu Kristu nakwaKho,
okuhlanzekile kunazo zonke, ukuvikelwa kwasezulwini.
Amen!
Umthandazo ngomama oswele
EbuKristwini bama-Orthodox kuyisiko ngaphambi kokuzalwa kowesifazane okhulelwe ukuya esontweni , avuma futhi athole ukuhlanganyela. Kuyinto engavamile ukuba owesifazane ofunda umthandazo ukuphuza ubuhlungu, ayeke ukuphuma kwegazi, izinsana kumele zizalwe ziphilile. Amandla omthandazo omangalisayo ajwayelekile kumakholwa amaningi, akusikho lutho okhokho bethu abathembele ngokuphelele kulo. Umthandazo uyisizo seNkosi, ngakho kungani kufanele ushiywe ebhizinisini elinzima futhi eliyingozi, ikakhulukazi njengoba liphathelene nengane yakho. Ngisho akuyona kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uzoba nobani
Kubalulekile ukuguqa ngomthandazo emva kokubeletha ngaphambi kokuba uphawu lukaMama kaNkulunkulu "luhlambuluke". Usiza omama abanomama abalahlekile noma uma owesifazane ethinteka kakhulu ukucindezeleka kokuhamba kwesikhathi . Incekukazi Ebusisiwe izonikeza amandla okubhekana nalesi sifo futhi yondle imvuthu. Ngempela, akusilo lutho ukuthi ugogo wethu uncelise izingane zabo ubisi lwebele kuze kube seminyaka emibili noma emithathu futhi engazi ukuthi yini ukucindezeleka kwe-postpartum nezinye izinkinga. Kwakucatshangwa ukuthi kwakunjalo ngaphambili iNkosi uNkulunkulu ukuthi umama kufanele athole ingane yakhe ngobisi lwebele, edlula kanye nothando lwakhe nokunakekelwa kwakhe.