Uhlobo lokuthanda ngenyanga luyinye yezenzo zemilingo endala kakhulu. Ezikhathini zasendulo, owesifazane ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini wayebhekwa njengedemoni elikhathazekile, futhi igazi lale mvelaphi lalisetshenziselwa iningi lamasiko. Ukupela kwendoda ngale ndlela kulula, kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukukususa, ngoba kuthinta izinkanyezi. I-spell enjalo yothando ayibangeli imizwa, inikeza kuphela ukukhangwa okungahambi kahle. Sizobheka indlela yokubona isipelingi sothando sokuya esikhathini nokuthi singayilahla kanjani.
Izimpawu zesipela ngenyanga
Indoda eyahlukunyezwa inyanga inyanga, izoba nokucindezeleka okujulile nokudangala, ekuziphatheni kwakhe kuyothathwa ngokungahambisani nokuthukuthela okungenakwenzeka. Ukufisa nokwehluleka kumethusa, uyaziphikisa, uthola ukucindezeleka okuningi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izimpawu zesipele zilandelayo:
- wehla libido kuya ezingeni eliphansi kakhulu;
- ukugqoka noma ngokuphambene nokubukeka okungenasici;
- ukulahlwa kwemikhuba nazo zonke izibonakaliso zobuntu;
- ukufisa okungalungile kwe-bewitching, okuvame ukudala umlandu nokuzonda kusukela kumuntu kuya kuye.
Izimpawu ezinjalo ezibonakala ngokucacile, ngokushesha kudingeke ukuthola isazi esihle esizosiza ukususa isipele sothando, aze aqale ukubhubhisa ubuntu nempilo yomuntu.
Ungasusa kanjani isipele sothando ngenyanga?
Uma uthando olufakwe inyanga lwenyanga lwenziwa yintombazane ngokwayo, futhi hhayi nge-spy professional, ungayisusa yedwa. Kodwa imilingo enamandla, enikezwe ochwepheshe, ingasuswa kuphela omunye umlingo onamandla.
Indlela elula yokususa isipele sothando ngosizo lwanyanga zonke kanje:
- Izinsuku ezingamashumi amane isisulu se-spell kufanele sigcine ngokushesha okusheshayo. Utshwala obungenakuvunyelwa, ugwayi, amaswidi, inyama, ukudla okunamafutha.
- Ngaphandle komzimba kuhamba zonke izinhlayiya kule nkathi, futhi ukuze zizisize ngokwabo, kuyadingeka nsuku zonke ukuphuza amanzi angcwele, ukufunda phezu kwengilazi ethi "uBaba wethu".
- Bonke othintana nabo, ukukhulumisana ngisho nokukhuluma ngecala le-spell kumele lime. Umuntu kumele afunde ukulandela imibono ngaye futhi avimbele yena ngokwakhe, aphazamiseke ngenye into.
- Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezingamashumi amane udinga ukuya esontweni bese udlulisela isakramente sokudla.
Uma uthando lokuphenya lwenyanga alukwenziwa ngumuntu ochwepheshe, kodwa ngo-amateur, lokhu kuyokwanela ukuyilahla. Uma ubona ngcono, kodwa hhayi ukuphulukiswa okuphelele, ukudla kufanele kuqhubeke. Uma lokhu kungakusizi, xhumana nochwepheshe.