Imishado yanoma yibuphi ubuzwe idume ngamasiko abo akhethekile nemikhuba yabo. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi abantu abenza umgubho abakubo, zonke izithethe zifanekisela ukuhlanzeka, uthando , ukuzinikela ezinhliziyweni nokuqhubeka komndeni.
Umkhosi wasendulo kakhulu ukuhlangana nabantu abasha emva kokushada ngesinkwa nosawoti endlini yomyeni. Lesi siko sifanekisela ukuthi umndeni omusha "uyabhakwa", lapho kufanele kube khona ukuchuma nokucabangela. Ukuphuka noma ukuluma isinkwa kwafika emkhosini kuphela emakhulwini eminyaka edlule, lapho abesifazane beqala ukulwa nokulingana endlini nabantu.
Ukuhlanganiswa kwendabuko kwabancane, kuqala nomngcele wehhovisi lokubhalisa, lapho uninazala ethatha ibhangqa, ubophe izandla zabo kanye nebhebheni elibomvu. Ngokuvamile ungakwazi ukuhlangana etafuleni labo abasanda kushada ababoshwe ndawonye amabhodlela, okufanekisela umakoti nomkhwenyana, lokhu kuqhubeka komkhosi "kubopha kuze kube phakade".
Imikhosi emihle emshadweni
Ukukhishwa ngekhandlela elikhanyisiwe emshadweni kufanekisela ukushisa kwekhaya. Njengomthetho, umama womakoti ukhanyisa umlilo futhi udlulisela amadodakazi akhe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukusebenzisa ikhandlela elikhulu elingayikuphuma ngosuku lomshado, ukuze abantu abasha baphile impilo yabo ngokuthula nangobunye. Umdanso wokugcina wabasha nekhandlela ubonisa ukuthi uthando lwabo aluyikuphela kuze kube phakade.
Isiko esihle - ukuvala ilokhi kusihluthulelo, kusho ukuthi umndeni uvaliwe kubantu abangabazi, akukho okungena kuwo "okwesithathu okungenakuqhathaniswa", futhi njengoba ukhiye uphonswa emfuleni, akukho ndlela yokuphuma emndenini. Lesi siko "sivala" umndeni, sigcina ukwethembeka kwalowo mbhangqwana.
Ngokuvamile, abantu abasha bakhipha amajuba esibhakabhakeni, lesi siko sikhombisa ukuhlukana nentsha enomoya. Imibhangqwana yasencane yanamuhla yashintsha lesi siko futhi ibophe i-ribbon emlenzeni womlobokazi, futhi umkhwenyana we-syzokryly wabhalwa ngebhebhoni eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Kukholelwa - inyoni yakhe iyobaleka phezulu, ubulili obunjalo kumntwana wokuqala kuyoba.
Ngokwesiko, ungakwazi ukunquma ubulili ngumuntu ohamba ngokungahleliwe, owahlangana nalabo abasanda kushada endleleni esuka ekhaya lomshado. Lo muntu kufanele abongwe futhi anikezwe ukudla, ukuze ingane ezayo ihlale iphilile.
Imikhosi ethandekayo emshadweni
Umkhosi wamakethe emshadweni weza kithi kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, kodwa okuningi kuye kwashintsha kuwo. Ngaphambili isihlengo senziwa ngamavesi, ukudansa, izingoma kanye
Umkhosi wasendulo ukukhishwa kweveli emshadweni wekhanda lomlobokazi. Umgcobo omhlophe usho ubuntombi bentombi futhi ekupheleni kokuhlwa umama uyisusa enhloko yendodakazi yakhe ngaphambi kobusuku bomshado. Emva kwalokho, umyeni osanda kukhishwa uthatha umfana osemncane ezandleni zakhe bese emngenisa endlini yakhe, ngokuqinisekile ewela phezu kombundu ukuze imimoya emibi ingesabi intombazane.