Umuntu ngamunye uyingqayizivele yobugovu, nakuba kukhona labo abazitshela ukuthi bayesigaba se-altruists, bephika noma yikuphi ukuzibonakalisa kobugovu ekuziphatheni kwabo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi i- egoism isingenangqondo futhi engenangqondo. Ake sicabangele ngokuningiliziwe uhlobo lokuqala.
Imfundiso ye-egoism enengqondo
Uma ukukhuluma ngolimi lwesayensi, ke lolu hlobo lwe-egoism lusetshenziselwa ukuthi umuntu ngamunye abe yizinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ezithakazelweni zakhe ngokwezifiso zomphakathi noma ezinye iziqu. Ukuze uthole ukuqonda okungcono, ake sihlaziye lo mqondo ngesibonelo sowesifazane owaphonswa ngumthandi.
Ngakho-ke, uza ukuzobona isazi sezengqondo futhi esesimweni sokuqala esizibuza yona: "Yini okufanele uyenze uma uqaphela ukuthi umuntu akakuniphathi ngendlela efanele, uyaqonda ngengqondo yakho ukuthi kwakungekho uthando, futhi ubuhlungu umphefumulo wakho Impendulo ilula: ukufaka enhliziyweni yakho umsebenzi wobugovu obuphephile, okungukuthi, esikhundleni sokukhala okumnandi nokukhala izinyembezi zakho, kudingeka ukhumbule othandekayo wakho. ulimi lwangaphandle, ubuyekeze ikhabethe lakho, ungabi ucingo ngenkathi ngesikhathi esisodwa ekukhulumisaneni nabanye.
Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi isimiso se-egoism enengqondo into efana nencazelo yegolide phakathi kobugovu nokuzidela .
Uma owesifazane ezwa umqondo wokuziphendulela okucacile kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuzijwayeza wakhe, ukhiphe kuye umqondo womthwalo onjalo ozofika uma owesifazane ejabule imvume yakhe yokuhlanganisa injabulo yakhe ngomshado.
Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi udinga ukuvumela umuntu ukuba anakekele. Ngezinye izikhathi ube buthakathaka futhi ungenakuzivikela. Faka ubugovu obuphephile. Ebudlelwaneni nabanamandla balaleli zwe, le mbono kufanele iqondiswe. Zithande kakhulu kunomlingani wakho. Umlingani wakho uzokuthanda kuphela ngothando oluqine kakhulu, lapho uzobonisa uthando olunjalo ngokwakho.