Phakathi naleso sikhathi, isikhathi sokulinda umntwana akusona isizathu sokuyeka izinjabulo nezinjabulo ezijwayelekile. Kulesi sihloko, sizozama ukuthola ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuba siphile impilo yocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, nokuthi ngabe ubuhlobo obuseduze babazali besikhathi esizayo bungalimaza ingane engakazalwa.
Kungenzeka yini ukuhola impilo yobulili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?
Empeleni, ukuphila kocansi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa akuyona into enqatshelwe. Ukuthi abazali abazoqhubeka bebonisa uthando, naphezu kokuba khona kombungu esiswini, akuyona into engalungile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-spermatozoa engena emzimbeni womama esikhathini esizayo ngesikhathi sezocansi iyinhlangano ephezulu yokudla okunomsoco kanye nokwakha okudingekayo ekuthuthukiseni i-fetus.
Yingakho odokotela abaningi batusa ukuthi abashadile baqhubeke nobuhlobo obuseduze phakathi nokukhulelwa konke, kodwa kuphela esimweni sokuthi owesifazane akanayo usongo lokuphazanyiswa. Uma kungenjalo, ukulala ocansini, ikakhulukazi kakhulu, kungaba nomthelela omubi kakhulu embusweni wengane engakazalwa futhi kubangele imiphumela ebuhlungu, njengokukhulelwa kwesisu noma ukubeletha ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Uma kungekho ukuphikisana, ukuphila kocansi ekuqaleni kwezinyathelo zokukhulelwa akufani neze nobuhlobo obusondelene naye ngaphambi kokuqala kokukhulelwe. Ngokuphambene nalokho, abashadile phakathi nalesi sikhathi bangazithokozisa futhi bathole injabulo yokuxhumana ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngesidingo sokukhulelwa.
Ngokuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo kokukhulelwa nokukhula kwesisu ebuhlotsheni bobulili babazali besikhathi esizayo, kukhona ukulinganiselwa okuthile. Lokhu akusho ukuthi lo mbhangqwana kuzodingeka ukushiye othintana nabo abasondelene nabo, kodwa-ke, ezinye izinguquko enhlanganweni yokuphila ngokocansi kufanele zenziwe, zikhetha ukuthutha lapho indoda isemva.
Ekugcineni, amasonto amabili ngaphambi kokulethwa okuhlongozwayo, odokotela batusa isikhathi esithile ukuba bayeke emsebenzini wobulili. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, inhloko yengane engakazalwa isondelene kakhulu nokuphuma komlomo wesibeletho, ngakho ukunyakaza okunganaki kungalimaza. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngalesi sikhathi cishe kunomsana wokubeletha, ngakho umama nobaba kufanele balinde kancane.