Ososayensi emhlabeni wonke baye baveza incazelo ecacile: ubulili bubalulekile empilweni yomzimba nengokwengqondo yowesifazane. Kuze kube manje, abaningi bazi zonke izinkinga ezihlobene nezifo zocansi - izifo zocansi, ukukhulelwa okungadingeki. Kodwa bambalwa abantu bacabanga ukuthi ukungabi nobulili kuthinta impilo yabesifazane. Izizathu zokuntuleka kocansi kwabesifazane nabesilisa, njengombuso, zihlukile. Izizathu eziyinhloko ezivela kwabesifazane - ukungabi nomlingani, izinkinga zokuphila ngokocansi emshadweni, ukungabi nesifiso socansi nabanye.
Ekuqaleni, iningi labesifazane abathinteli ukubaluleka kwenani labaxhumana nabo ocansi. Ikakhulukazi iphathelene nabesifazane besifazane nabantwana, abanenkathazo eminingi yasekhaya noma abesifazane, abafisa kakhulu umsebenzi. Laba besifazane abakunaki ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi abazange balale ocansini inyanga kakade. Kodwa ukungabikho kobulili isikhathi eside kuyingozi kubo bonke abesifazane, ngisho nokumatasa kakhulu. Unyaka ngaphandle kokuya ocansini kungenza owesifazane akhathele, futhi, kungathinteki ukubonakala.
Yini ebangela ukungabi nobulili?
Imiphumela yokungabi nobulili ingahluka kwabanye besifazane abahlukene. Lokhu kubangelwa izici zomzimba ngamunye nendlela yokuphila. Imiphumela ejwayelekile kunazo zonke zokungabikho kwezocansi isikhathi eside:
- fibroids. I-Fibromioma iyisisu esibi, esivame ukuvela kwabesifazane abahlala isikhathi eside ngaphandle kocansi;
- i-syndrome ye-premenstrual ebuhlungu. Uma kungekho ubulili empilweni yowesifazane isikhathi eside, ukuya esikhathini kunzima kakhulu - kunezinhlungu esiswini esingaphansi, ukuguquka kwesimo sengqondo, ukuthanda ngokweqile;
- ukuphazamiseka kwamadoda;
- ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi uphepha igazi. Ngokwemvelo, ukucanshungulwa ngokocansi kwesibeletho. Uma ungenabo ubulili isikhathi eside, lesi sibeletho sishiywa yi-massage, engabangela ukubonakala kwezimo ezihlukahlukene;
- isisindo esiningi. Kuyaziwa ukuthi ngesikhathi socansi, owesifazane ulahlekelwa inani elikhulu lamakorikhi. Ubulili bungalinganiswa nokugijima noma ukuqeqeshwa okujulile ku-simulator. Owesifazane ongakaze ahlale ocansini isikhathi eside uzimisele kakhulu ezinkingeni zokugqithisa ngokweqile.
Lapho uneminyaka engama-35-45 emadodeni amaningi kunesikhathi sokwanda kwesithakazelo kwezocansi - ukuphakama kobulili. Kule nkathi abesifazane besidinga ubulili iningi lezobulili, linikeza ukubukeka okukhangayo, amandla kanye nesithakazelo empilweni. Ukuntula ucansi ngalesi sikhathi kuholela emiphumeleni emibi kakhulu. Ngokwezengqondo zengqondo, uma owesifazane oneminyaka engu-35-45 engavamile ukulala ocansini, khona-ke esezingeni elingaqondakali lithatha izinkinga nemisebenzi eyengeziwe emahlombe akhe. Lokhu, okuholela ekucindezelweni, ekukhathaleni, ukunganeliseki ngokuphila. Abesifazane abanjalo basheshe babonise izinguquko zesikhumba ezihlobene nobudala, ukubukeka kuyaqhubeka.
Unyaka ongena ocansini ungadala owesifazane emva kweminyaka engama-35 ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa, izinkinga zempilo. Ngakho-ke, uma owesifazane engafuni ukuya ocansini, khona-ke kufanele abonisane nochwepheshe. Ukuqhubeka ubuhlobo bobulili phakathi kwabashadile kusiza ukuphumula okuhlangene isikhathi eside, lapho kuzo zonke izinkinga nokukhathazeka ngemuva. Owesifazane onesizungu kufanele ahlanganyele emidlalweni esebenzayo futhi edansa. Amageyimu wezemidlalo, aseMpumalanga noma e-ballroom avumela noma yikuphi owesifazane ukuba azizwe ekhangayo. Ukuhamba komculo kunganciphisa ukukhathazeka futhi kusebenze njengokukhipha kocansi.