Ubulili bunomphumela omuhle kubo bobabili besilisa nabesifazane. Kuqinisa impilo yabo, kuphakamisa imizwelo kanye nobukhulu obuvamile. Ngakho-ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili nobudala, ubulili kufanele buphathwe kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukuphila ngokocansi okungapheli kuthinta inhlalakahle, kubangela ukucasula noma ukunganakwa, ukuleleka ukushona noma ukwehla kwesifo sokuzivikela kanye nokukhushulwa kwezifo ngenxa yokwehla kwegazi ezingxenyeni zangaphakathi.
Kodwa okweqile kobulili awusizo futhi. Ukuzama ukwenza izenzo eziningi zobulili emhlanganweni owodwa, umuntu ugcizelela umzimba wakhe ngokucindezela ngokweqile, uyamkhathaza. Ngakho bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane badinga ubulili obukhulu njengoba befuna futhi uma nje kujabulisa, futhi akapheli umzimba wabo.
Kufanele ulale ocansini kangaki?
Abakwa-Sexologists batusa izenzo zobulili ezingu-2-3 kuya kwezingu-5 ngesonto. Baqiniseka ukuthi izikhathi ezimbili zanele. Noma kunjalo, ungase ube nombono ohlukile. Uma udinga okungaphezulu - yenza ucansi, njengoba ufuna. Gcwalisa izidingo zakho kanye nempilo yomlingani wakho! Akudingeki ukuba ulandele noma yikuphi isimiso, ungabi naso isipiliyoni sokuthi wenza uthando olungaphansi kuka 3-4 izikhathi ngesonto. Ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ukuthi ijubane elinjalo cishe lihlukile ngaphandle komthetho. Awudingi ukubala ukuthi ungaphila kaningi ngesonto. Okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuthi injabulo yakho ikunikeza kanjani.
Iqembu ngalinye linemigomo yalo
Ukwaneliseka kokuphila kocansi kuxhomeke ekutheni ubambiswano bomlingani, iminyaka yabo, imikhuba, indlela yokuphila. Isibonelo, kunabantu abanomsebenzi ophansi wocansi. Akudingeki ukuba alwele amarekhodi, kungcono kakhulu ukuthola umlingani wakho womuntu futhi ungayithandi kathathu ngobusuku obulodwa, kodwa nje kuphela, kodwa kanjani!
Kodwa abantu abaseningizimu bafuna ukulala ocansini futhi badinga, ngoba izinga labo le-testosterone liphakeme. Ungumuntu omude futhi osemusha, ngakho-ke angakwazi ukumelana kalula nemikhumbi yangempela yobulili. Kodwa uma ubudala be-testosterone bukhiqizwa kancane kancane, ngakho-ke isifiso sinciphile. Into eyinhloko akukhona ukwesaba futhi ungaboni ukuphulukiswa kokungasebenzi. Njengomthetho, umsebenzi wezocansi wehlela kancane kancane futhi amadoda agcinwa ngokulandelana kuze kube yiminyaka emdala, ejabulisa wona kanye nomthandi wabo.
Ubulili emva komshado
Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi impilo yocansi yabantu abasha ihlukaniswe esikhathini "ngaphambi" nangemva "kwesiphetho somshado. Ekuqaleni bafuna ukuya ocansini kaningi futhi isikhathi eside, ukuxubana, kisses kanye ne-caresses kuyadingeka, njengomoya. Futhi-ke ukusungulwa kokuphila okuvamile kuthatha isikhathi namandla abo, ukuthandana kuthatha indawo emini ngekhompiyutha noma i-TV, isimiso singena ebuhlotsheni. Abashadile bacasuliwe komunye nomunye, bezama ukukhulula umusi ohlangothini, futhi lokho kungonakalisa ubuhlobo babo kuphela.
Futhi kungaba ngcono ukuhlela ngezikhathi ezithile imihlangano, njengangaphambili - kuphela kwalababili, hhayi ukugxila ezindabeni zasekhaya, ukunakekelwa kakhudlwana komunye nomunye. Ngisho nangemva kweminyaka eyishumi kuya kwemihlanu kwemizwa yabo bangakwazi ukuhlala benomdlandla, futhi ungaba nobulili izikhathi eziningi njengoba kudingekile emibhangqwaneni encane neyentuthuko. Mhlawumbe, akuwona wonke ubusuku ozoba nesiphepho futhi onomdlandla, kodwa emva kosuku lokuthandana, isisa nothando luzohlanganisa abashade nabasha.
Futhi uma ukulala kungenzeki njalo uma ufuna, ke:
- uxabana kakhulu futhi uthola ubuhlobo;
- kuyinkimbinkimbi ngenxa yokubukeka kwayo;
- ikhompyutha, i-laptop, ifoni noma i-TV ekamelweni lakho elikugumbini elikuphazamisa ezindabeni zothando;
- umlingani wakho noma umlingani wakho unesithakazelo esincane kuwe;
- Ukukhanga kwakho kuncishisiwe ngenxa yezinzalo zokuvimbela imithi.
Noma iyiphi yalezi zizathu ingasuswa - futhi kuncike kuwe. Yenza umzamo, uma kunesidingo, futhi ube nobulili, njengoba uthanda - kaningi nangenambitha, ngobumnene nangenhlanhla, noma ngokuzikhandla nangomdlandla.