Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho nokuthuthukiswa okujwayelekile kwengane, kuyasiza abazali ukuba bazi ukukhula kwalo, ngoba lokhu kubonakaliso, okokuqala, kusetshenziselwa ukucacisa ubukhulu bezingubo zezingane. Kulesi sihloko sizokutshela lokho ukukhula okuvamile kwengane kuzinyanga ezingu-6, futhi kungakanani okungafani khona.
Kungakanani ukukhula komntwana ezinyangeni ezingu-6?
Ngokwesilinganiso, ukukhula komfana ezinyangeni ezingu-6 kungaba ngu-66, kanti amantombazane - angu-65 amentimitha. Yiqiniso, lezi zinkomba zilinganiselwe kuphela, futhi ukuphambuka okuncane kubo akuyona ukwephula. Uma ubude bomzimba womfana oneminyaka engu-6 ubudala buphakathi kwamamitha angu-63 kuya kwangu-69, lokhu akufanele kubangele ukukhathazeka kwabazali bakhe noma odokotela. Kumantombazane, noma iyiphi inkomba ephakathi kuka 62.5 kuya ku-68.8 amasentimitha ibhekwa njengendlela evamile efanayo.
Ukuze ujwayele izinga lokukhula lokuzalwa kwengane engaphansi konyaka owodwa, ikakhulukazi, ezinyangeni ezingu-6, itafula elilandelayo lizokusiza:
Kusobala ukuthi ingane enempilo kufanele ifakwe njalo ngenyanga ekukhuleni, ngakho odokotela balinganisi kuphela inani eliphelele le ncazelo ye-biometric, kodwa futhi ukwanda kwalo kuqhathaniswa nesikhathi sokuzalwa. Ngakho-ke, ngokuvamile ngesikhathi sokukhishwa kwezinyanga ezingu-6, ubude bomzimba wakhe kufanele bukhuphuke ngokulinganiselwa kwamasentimitha angu-15.
Kumele kuqondwe ukuthi izingane ezisengaphambi kokubeletha ezazalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi esilindelekile, kodwa zingenayo izinkinga ezinkulu zempilo, zithola oontanga lwabo ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila. Ngokuvamile ekupheleni kwengxenye yokuqala yokuphila komntanakho, amanani wokuphakama nesisindo sawo awela ngaphansi kwezinkomba ezijwayelekile, kodwa kulokhu ukwanda kwabo kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kungaba ngaphezulu kakhulu kunesilinganiso.
Kunoma yikuphi, uma ukukhula kwendodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho kuhluke ezinkambisweni ezijwayelekile ezinganeni ezinyangeni ezingu-6 ubudala, ungakhathazeki kakhulu futhi ngokushesha usole ukuthi unesifo esibi kakhulu. Ngezinye izikhathi kwanele nje ukubuka bobabili abazali ukuba baqonde ukuthi kungani umntwana ehlukile ekuphakameni kusuka kubantwana obudala obufanayo, ngoba izakhi zofuzo zidlala indima ebalulekile kule ndaba.