Ukuzibandakanya komphakathi kanye nokuzivumelanisa komuntu nezengqondo kumuntu kusho ukufaniswa komuntu ezicini ezihlukahlukene ezihlobene nenkambiso yamasiko, yengqondo nenhlalo. Ngamazwi alula - umuntu kufanele ajwayele futhi aqale ukuhambelana nezenzakalo ezizungezile nomsebenzi othile noma imvelo ethile. Izingxenye ezimbili zalo mqondo kubonisa ukuthi umuntu uhlangabezana nokuzivumelanisa nokuziphatha (ezenhlalakahle) nezomuntu siqu (ngokwengqondo).
Izinhlobo zokujwayela kwezenhlalo nezengqondo
Lesi sibonakaliso sibonisa ikhono lokubona ngokwanele iqiniso elizungezile, kodwa nokho lihlanganisa ubuhlobo nabanye namakhono ahlukene. Ngesikhathi sokuzivumelanisa, umuntu uyinto eyaziwayo, eyamukela futhi ibheke izinkambiso nemikhuba ekhona emphakathini.
Ukuvumelanisa komuntu nomqondo womuntu kungaba nomphumela omuhle, okungukuthi, kuvumela umuntu ukuba asebenzise kahle imvelo yezenhlalakahle, kanye nokungahambi kahle, okuholela ekuzileni komphakathi okwanele. Inqubo yokuzivumelanisa ingenziwa, kokubili ngokuzithandela nangokuphoqeleka. Ngokuvamile izigaba ezintathu eziyinhloko zihlukaniswa: ukujwayela, ukujwayela kanye nokuziqinisa.
Kunemibono eminingi ehlukene enkingeni yokushintshashintsha kwezenhlalo nezengqondo, kodwa ukuhlaziywa kwabo kuye kwaholela eziphethweni ezibalulekile. Isisekelo salo mqondo ubuhlobo bomuntu nobuntu bezenhlalakahle, ukuhlaziya ukuthi ubani ongaqonda izici zezinhlelo zokusebenza. Umuntu onomlutha angathonya imvelo yomphakathi ukuze ayishintshe. Ikhono lokuzivumelanisa ngokuqondile lixhomeke ezimfanelweni nezici zobuntu ezenza okungenzeka. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuthi ukukhula komuntu ngamunye kuphakeme, kunethuba elikhulu lokuzivumelanisa nezimo eziphumelelayo.
Imigomo yokujwayela kwezenhlalo nezengqondo
Inkomba ingahlukaniswa ibe yizinkomba ezimbili: inhloso nokuzithoba. Iqembu lokuqala lihlanganisa isibonakaliso, esibonisa impumelelo ekufundeni nasekusebenzeni, ukuqaliswa kwemisebenzi kanye nezidingo ezibekwe, kanye nesimo somuntu eqenjini nesimo sayo. Imikhawulo ehambisana nalokho ihlanganisa ukutholakala kwesithakazelo emsebenzini womuntu siqu kanye nesifiso sokuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo, kanye nokuxhumana okubambisana nabanye abantu nokutholakala kokuzethemba okufanele.
Ekuphetheni, ngingathanda ukusho ukuthi ezweni lanamuhla, ukuzivumelanisa kwezenhlalakahle nezengqondo kuyimfundo eyinkimbinkimbi ehlotshaniswa nezici zobuntu kanye nesimo emphakathini.