Abantu abaningi bavame ukubona abantu abafile ephusheni, kodwa akufanele ukwesabe lezo zithombe, ngoba ngokuvamile lokhu kungumxwayiso. Ukuze uchaze lokho okubonayo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula imininingwane eyisisekelo yesakhiwo nokulayisha ngokomzwelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuze uthole ulwazi olunembile kakhulu kubalulekile ukudweba ukufanisa phakathi kwezinto ezitholiwe kanye nezenzakalo zangempela.
Ugogo ugogo uphupha ngani?
Uma ubona ugogo osanda kufakwa ephila ephusheni, lokhu kungumfanekiso wokulangazelela ukunakekelwa komuntu othandekayo. Kungabuye kube yizinto ezithinta izinguquko ezithile zokuphila. Ukuze ubulili obuhle, iphupho elinjalo libikezela umshado wokuqala. Uma unogogo ephuzile ephupha abaphilayo, khona-ke uzizwa unecala ngaye. Ngokuvamile izihlobo ezifile ephusheni ziyisikhumbuzo sokuthi kufanelekile ukulandela amagama nezenzo ezikhulunywe, njengoba zingangcolisa idumela lomndeni wonke. Izimpawu ezimbi zihlanganisa iphupho, lapho izingcingo zifikile khona, futhi uhamba naye. Isakhiwo esinjalo sithembisa ukufa.
Umbono ebusuku, lapho abagogo ababili abafile bahlanganyela khona, kubonisa ukuvikelwa nokuvikelwa okungokomoya. Ukuphupha ephusheni umama ophelile kanye nomkhulu kuyinhlangano yokuzikhandla kwemizamo eminingi kanye nezibopho ezintsha. U-Sopnik uthi ngokushesha nje umuntu angacela usizo futhi, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi uzokhathazeka ngendaba yezezimali. Ngendoda, ugogo ofile ephusheni yindlela yokuboniswa kwamathuba alahlekile. Kungenzeka ukuthi awunelisekile ngempilo yakho. Uma intombazane ibona lo mbono ebusuku, ingabe ingabaza ngokubonakala okungaphelele okwangenza angabi nandaba nobulili obuhlukile.
Lapho lo ugogo ephuzile ejwayele ukuphupha, abaqaphi, kodwa akukho lutho olubi lo mbono alubikezeli. Ngokuvamile kungumkhumbuzo wokuthi empilweni kukhona ibhizinisi elingapheli kanye nezibopho ezingagcwaliseki. UDreambook uncoma endaweni ekhululekile ukuzama ukukhumbula zonke izinkinga ezibekwe ngaphezulu kwakho. Konke lokhu kuzosusa amaphupho asabekayo. Iphupho, lapho umama osemncane ehleka khona, kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uye wangena emthethweni omubi empeleni, futhi lokhu kungaba nomthelela omubi ekwenzeni idumela nasemkhakheni wezinto ezibonakalayo. Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphe futhi ungavumeli ekusebenziseni okusobala. Uma ukhulume nogogo oshonile - lesi isibonakaliso esibi esixwayisa mayelana nokuqala kwebhande "elimnyama". Iphupho lapho unina osemncane enikeza khona imali isifo esibi sokuthi ukufa kungabikezela. Uma ungathathi lutho, kusho ukuthi uzokwazi ukubhekana nezifo nezenzo zezitha eziye zavela. Futhi, isakhiwo esinjalo singathembisa ukulahlekelwa impahla. Ukuphupha kukagogo ocela imali kusho ukuthi uzohlala ndawonye futhi ujabule. Uma wanxusa ugogo ofile - uphawu lokuphila okuhle nokuphila isikhathi eside. Iphupho, lapho ukhokho wakho ekuthole khona, ukhomba iphutha lwakamuva,
Kusho ukuthini ukumanga ugogo osekupheleni kwephupho?
Isakhiwo esinjalo sisebenza njengesibonakaliso sokuthandana okungenakuqhathaniswa. Uma umanga wakho ugogo ngaphambi kokungcwaba ebunzini, uzobe usukhululiwe ezibophezelweni ezikhona. Iphupho, lapho ugogo efile ewanga khona esinye sezihlobo, kubonisa ukuthi udoti olungalindelekile.
Kusho ukuthini ukondla ugogo oshonile ephusheni?
Uma umhlalaphansi ecela ukudla, awunaso iphutha phambi kwakhe futhi unembeza wakho ucacile. Iphupho, lapho uphatha ugogo wakho ugogo, uxwayisa ngokukhohlisa. Kumantombazane, indaba enjalo ingabonisa ukuthi kufanelekile ukucabanga ngobuqotho bomlingani.