Namuhla, akekho onemibuzo mayelana nokuthi ubusuku bokuqala bomshado buqhubeka kanjani, kodwa iseluleko sendlela yokuyilungiselela futhi sibambe imibhangqwana eminingi iyadingeka. Okufanele ukwenze ngobusuku bomshado - ukubheka izinkanyezi futhi uzibandakanye ngothando ngaphansi kwesibhakabhaka evulekile noma ufihle ezweni emakamelweni okulala, uzinqume. Futhi ukunquma ukuthi kwakulula, nansi amathiphu nemibono yokuhlela ubusuku bokuqala bomshado.
Izeluleko ezimbalwa zendlela ongayisebenzisa ngayo ubusuku bakho bomshado
- Ngokwesiko, igumbi lobusuku bokuqala lomshado lihlotshisiwe ukuze lidale isimo somsondo. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuwumthwalo wabazali bashadile noma abafakazi, kodwa uma ungabaza ukuthi ukunambitheka kwakho kuzoqagela, kungcono ukulawula le nqubo. Nakani ukulala embhedeni, ubhontshisi obukhulu kakhulu, isilikhi noma i-flax nge-silika. Futhi mayeke abe yi-monophonic - ukuthi ukunakwa komdwebo akuphazanyiswa. Khetha umculo kulobu busuku, nje kuphela owuthandayo. Abantu abaningi baze bacebise ukukhetha izingoma ngaphandle kwamazwi, ngokusobala besaba ukuthi ngesikhathi esibucayi kakhulu umbhangqwana uzocula.
- Abashadikazi abaningi bacabanga ukuthi ubusuku bomshado bokuqala buyadlula njengamanzi amanzi aqhubekayo omusa nesifiso. Kodwa mina ngikwazi ukunikeza isikhathi into eyinhloko hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi - abashadayo basuke bekhathele futhi i-champagne eholidini ihlelwa. Ukuvimbela lokhu, imimoya encane nokunakwa kakhulu. Ungalandeli yonke imithetho yokungenisa izihambi futhi uhlale kuze kube yisivakashi sokugcina, uma ufuna ukuhlala umhlalaphansi, khona-ke kudingeka ukwenze, ufisa ukuthi izivakashi ziqhubeke kahle ebusuku. Yebo, ukuze uvuselele ukukhathazeka, unakekele itafula ekamelweni lokulala. Makube khona i-aphrodisiacs - ushokoledi, ama-strawberries, izilwane zasolwandle.
- Indlela yokwenza ubusuku bomshado ungalibaleki? Yiqiniso, uzoyilungiselela kahle. Umakoti egqokeni lomshado ubheka amahle kakhulu, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ngaphansi kwesigqoko kwakuyinto yokubukeka. I-lingerie yamahhashi kanye nesigqoko sokugqoka esicacile ekamelweni lokulala liphelele kule njongo. I-hairstyle entsha ebuseduze ngeke ibe yinto engadingekile.
- Yiqiniso, akekho ofuna ubusuku bomshado ukuba baqede masinyane, ngakho cabanga ngeskripthi sakhe noma uthuthukise ekuhambeni. Khombisa umdlalo odlala indima, udansa umdlalo womuntu othandekayo, umbono ohlangene we-Kama Sutra.
Ubusuku bokushada bokuqala kanye nobulili bokuqala
Yebo, futhi esikhathini sethu sokukhululwa ngokocansi, kwenzeka ukuthi intombazane ilahlekelwa ubuntombi bayo kuphela phakathi nobusuku bomshado. Kulesi simo, ungase uzwe kusuka kumakhosikazi esikhathini esizayo amagama athi "Ngesaba ubusuku bomshado" futhi lokhu akusho ukuthi intombazane ayikwazi ukuthi konke kuzoba kanjani. Ngokuphambene nalokho, abangane asebekhulile nabanolwazi ngokuvamile baxoxa ngalokho okufanele bakulindele, kodwa benza okungalungile, besabe umakoti ngobuhlungu negazi ngesikhathi sobulili bokuqala. Ngenxa yalokho, le ntombazane iphoqa futhi izwa ubuhlungu obesaba kakhulu. Ukuze ugweme lokhu, udinga ukuphonsa zonke "izindaba ezesabekayo" ekhanda lakho. Buza umlingani wakho wesikhathi esizayo ukuthi akusize uphumule, menze abe nomusa futhi othandekayo. Uma ukuqubuka kwama-hymen kwenzeka ngesikhathi sokuxolisa okuqinile, ubuhlungu buyoba buncane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubuhlungu akusiyo ngempela umlingani wezocansi zokuqala - ezinye ze-hymen ziyanwebeka futhi zilula kakhulu noma zincipha futhi ziqhekeziwe cishe
Isimo esihle kakhulu sezintombi yilokhu okulandelayo. Intombazane kufanele ilale emhlane, ibeke umcengezi noma umcamelo omncane ngaphansi kwe-rump yayo, imilenze yakhe iguqe ngamadolo futhi imphakamise esifubeni sayo. Kulesi sikhundla, i-hymen isolulwe, futhi ukuphuka kwayo kwenzeka ngokushesha, okwenza ubuhlungu besikhathi esifushane. Ngemuva kokuphuka kwe-hymen, ukuphuma kwegazi kuqala, okuvame ukudlula ngokushesha, kepha kuphinda kuphinde kuboniswe kangcono emva kwezinsuku ezingu-4-5, lapho konke kuphulukisa.