Ukuzalwa kwentombazanyana kuyisenzakalo esijabulisayo emindenini yonke. Umama nogogo sebexoxisana ngokuthi bazokusiza bani. Futhi ubaba nomkhulu sebevele bakhohliwe ukuthi babelindele ngesineke umfana. Wonke umngane nesihlobo bafuna ukuba abazali bokuqala nabamangala. Ngakho-ke, uma liholide lomndeni wonke, khona-ke wonke umuntu kufanele atholakale. Ngakho-ke, bheka ukuthi yini ekuthokozela ngayo intombazane esanda kuzalwa ingashiwo (eyenziwe) kumama, ubaba nogogo.
Siyakuhalalisela ngentombazane esanda kuzalwa in prose
Ukuze uhalalisele izihlobo ngokuzalwa kwentombazane encane, akudingekile ukuba ubhale izinkondlo noma uhlele izinkondlo, kwanele ukuthi usho ukuthi ucabangani. Siyakuhalalisela ngentombazane esanda kuzalwa kungashiwo ngamazwi akhe, kuphela ukuthi bavela enhliziyweni ehlanzekile.
Yini evame ukufunwa ngumncane? Yiqiniso, impilo, ubisikazi omama okumnandi, ukhule kahle, ulalele, ukuze konke kwenzeke empilweni, ukujabulisa abazali bakho nogogo nomkhulu, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - injabulo enkulu nenhlanhla. Yiqiniso, ukuqhathaniswa okunjalo nentombazane encane njengengelosi, ifu elibomvu, i-ray yelanga, i-princess encane nezinye izinto zamukelekile ngokuhalalisela.
Akudingekile ukuza yonke inkampani ngezipho nokuhalalisela ukuhalalisela umndeni ngokugcwaliswa. Ngempela, ngokufika kwengane, abazali abancane bayothatha isikhathi sabo sonke isikhathi, futhi leyo ncane yesikhathi lapho indodakazi ilele khona, futhi zonke izindaba zibuyiselwa, zizofuna ukuphumula, hhayi ukuhlangabezana nezinkampani ezinomsindo. Veza injabulo yakho kubazali abasebasha ngokuthumela ikhadi lokubingelela, ukubiza noma ukuthumela i-SMS.
Ngokuqondene nezipho, ngingathanda ukuphawula ukuthi abazali abasha bakhetha ukhetho lwemali. Njengoba bakholelwa ukuthi bayazi kangcono kunabanye ukuthi izingane zabo eziyigugu zidinga yini. Phela, angifuni ukuthola ama-suit amathathu afanayo afana ne-pink noma amadokodo amabili afanayo.
Siyakuhalalisela ngentombazane esanda kuzalwa evesini
Yiqiniso, uma ufuna ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokubonga abantu, ungabhala ukuhalalisela ngesimo sezinkondlo. Noma uma ungenalo ithalenta elinjalo, ungabhalela isazi sezinkondlo noma uthole okufanelekile kwi-inthanethi.
Njengoba, isibonelo:
Kukhona abathathu kini namuhla,
Injabulo iyi, futhi inkulu.
Isitokisi esivela ezulwini
Emaphikweni othando alethwe
Iphasela eliyigugu kakhulu
Kusukela othandweni oluphoqelekile, luthandekayo.
Qaphela wena baby,
Futhi ungamangazi futhi!
Vumela impilo ibe namandla
Ingane yakho enhle!
Ngakho njalo kwakukhona inhlanhla!
Injabulo, Uthando Nenjabulo!
Umama nobaba omncane bayothokoza kakhulu ukufunda amagama anomusa ngalekhadi lokubingelela, kanye namakhadikhadi ahlakaniphile ahlelwe ngokukhethekile anezinkondlo ezibhaliwe.
Indlela yokuhalalisela ugogo ngokuzalwa komzukulu wakhe?
Kukhona inkulumo ethi ugogo wokuqala umzukulu wokuqala ungumntwana wokuqala, futhi ngisho nangaphezulu umzukulu omlindelwe isikhathi eside emabhange amnyama. Yiqiniso, ugogo uyavuma ukuhalalisela kubangane bakhe kanye nabasebenza nabo.
Isikhathi sizosheshe sishiswe,
Lo mntwana ukhula,
Futhi ngolunye usuku ngokucacile kakhulu,
Uzobizwa ngokuthi "owesifazane"
Kuyoba nhlangothi zonke ezindaweni zonke,
Kuyinto umshanelo wokuphindiselela,
Kuyoba khona izitsha ezingcolile,
Emgodini ovela etafuleni ukuthwala,
Ukulinda ngolwandle lwakhe lwenjabulo,
Ufanelwe,
Ake umzukulu abe kahle,
Ngakho-ke unenhlanhla empilweni!
Kanye nama-postcard namavesi, isimangaliso esincane sithunyelwa izingubo ezihle kakhulu, amathoyizi ahlukahlukene (ezithambile, ezathuthuka kanye namadonki), kanye nokunye okudingekayo kumakhosana amancane (amabhodlela, izitsha). Kubalandeli bokuqala, imakethe yezimpahla namasevisi inikezwa: ama-bouquets amaswidi, izipho ezivela kubanikidi nokunye okuningi.
Ngakho-ke, ukuhalalisela bonke ndawonye (noma ngayinye ngokwehlukana) amalungu emndenini nentombazane esanda kuzalwa ingaba nokujwayelekile, futhi ingaba yinto yobuciko bonke, okuyinto kubazali, ugogo nomkhulu bayoba isimanga esimnandi. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ukuhalalisela ingane kanye nesipho kwakuqotho futhi ngobuqotho.