Ama-haremese abantu: konke kuhlelwe kanjani kuwo? Abalandeli banamuhla baseCleopatra baqinisa phansi phansi ukuhlanza nokulungisa ukudla.
I-women's women in the 21st century akumangalisi: emazweni athile asempumalanga, abesifazane basalingana nezilwane, futhi akekho obona noma yini enecala lokuthi indoda eyodwa ihlala nabafazi abaningi. Leli fomu lobuhlobo libizwa ngokuthi isithembu, kodwa kukhona uhlobo oluhlukile oluhlobene nobuhlobo - i-polyandry. Lona uhlobo lwe "harem ngokuphambene nalokho," lapho owesifazane oyedwa enelungelo lokukhetha ubusuku bonke indoda entsha phakathi kwabamthandayo njalo.
Umnikazi odume kakhulu wesilisa wesilisa
Induna kaKesari, iNdlovukazi uCleopatra, yayingathembeki kumphathi omkhulu. IGibhithe neRoma zaziqaphela ukukhathazeka kwabo, njengoba bevame ukuvakashelana, kepha babengazicabangi ukuthi yini eyayithandana phakathi kwalezi zici ezimbili zomlando ezicacile.
Ngokushesha nje lapho uKhesari eshiya esifundazweni somthandekayo wakhe, wathumela le ndaba kudadewabo, uChristina Arsinoe. Kwakungu-Arsinoe Cleopatra efihla izindlu zakhe ezincane ezingamakhulu ayisithupha. Nokho, kuKhesari akafundi lutho, emva kobusuku obunye embhedeni wenkosi, le nsizwa yabulawa, ngakho ukungena e-harem kwaba yisinyathelo sokungaphumeleli, kepha kwafa. Lapho uKhesari ekugcineni efunda iqiniso, washiya umhlalaphansi futhi wathatha u-Arsinoe emaketangeni ukuphindiselela.
Indlovukazi enhle kakhulu yaseNdiya namadoda akhe
Ekuqaleni kweMillennium BC. Umbusi waseNdiya u-Draupadi osolwa ngesikhathi esithatha isinqumo sakhe sokuthatha njengendoda amadoda ayisihlanu ngesikhathi esisodwa. Bonke babengumfowabo komunye nomunye, okwakuyisizathu sokulwa nabantu abakhelene nabo, abheka uRuupadi, indodakazi yeNkosi King Panchal, i-libertine yeqiniso, okonakalisa izisekelo. Ngaleso sikhathi, lona wesifazane wayengenalo ilungelo lokubuka le ndoda futhi wakhuluma naye ngokuthi "inkosi", ngakho-ke i-bellicose eqinile yobulili yathola izindaba zomshado ovukelayo.
Ekuqaleni, u-Draupal wayehlela ukushada nomzalwane wesithathu kuphela, obizwa ngokuthi u-Arjuna. Lapho ezwa ukuthi abafowabo babethanda kakhulu umlobokazi wakhe, wayemtshela ukuthi ahlale nomndeni owodwa omkhulu. Njalo kusihlwa umyeni omusha wamvakashela futhi ngamunye wabo wazala indodana eyodwa. Akubona bonke abayeni bakhe ababekulungele ukubekezelela uhlamvu oluzimeleyo lukaDuupala, ngakho ngolunye usuku umyeni ka-Yudhisthira wayelahlekelwe amathambo esitha sakhe.
Ababusi abanothando base-Asia
Izakhamuzi zamazwe ase-Asia zihlotshaniswa nama-geisha abathobekileyo, akwazi ukujabulisa amadoda ngokucula, ingxoxo enhle nokudansa. Ukuphazamiseka, kodwa kwakuseChina ukuthi abathandi besifazane abakhulu kunazo zonke babehlala. Owokuqala kwakunguWu Zhao. Ngeshumi nesishiyagalombili waba yisancinza sombusi ophethe, kodwa ngemuva kokufa kwakhe, uWu Zhao wangena ebuhlotsheni obuseduze nendodana yakhe, wabulala zonke ezinye izintandokazi futhi wabiza isihloko se-Empress.
Ngemva kokuthola amandla, wakhetha abacebisi abanekhono futhi abazinikele, ezivumela ukuba aziphumule futhi angene ezweni lezinjabulo. Ngesinye isancinza sakhe sasinezinga eliphakeme (elingaphezulu kwamamitha amabili) ukukhula kanye nomzimba oqinile. Ngokusho kokwamukelwa kukaWu Zhao, ukhohlwa ngombuso kanye nomthwalo wamandla ezandleni zabo. I-empress yamakhosikazi enobudlova yasebenzisa amadoda ngemuva kokuzijabulisa: kusuka enzalweni yakhe nasegazini wenza izicabha zobuso nezomzimba ukuba zandise intsha.
Udadewabo ka-Emperor Tsang Wu, uChristin Shanyin walandela isibonelo sakhe. Wathukuthela umfowabo, owayenezinkulungwane zezintombi, futhi ekugcineni wakwazi ukumtshela ukuthi kufanele amnike i-herem of men. UMfoweth 'wanikeza uShanyin ama-30 amaqhawe amakhulu kunawo wonke umbuso, kodwa waba yindabuko yangempela yama-nymphomaniac, yingakho kwakunamadoda ambalwa kakhulu. Njalo ebusuku izancinza eziningi zafika ekamelweni lakhe, kodwa wakhononda futhi wakhononda ukuthi akekho ongamnika ukwaneliseka. U-Cang U ukhathele yizicelo zakhe - futhi wakha uthando lwakhe lokududuza i-palace-harem ehlukile.
Ngo-1908, umnikazi wokugcina wesigodlo namadoda aseChina wafa - uTsi Si. Waqala ukumemeza izancinza ngemuva kokushona kuka-Izhu, umbusi wamakhosi wakhe, enethemba lokumisa ukulangazelela kwakhe. Ngaphambi kokufa kwakhe, u-Qi Xi wathi:
"Isihlalo sobukhosi se-Dragon akufanele siphinde sibe ngaphansi kwamandla nomthelela wesifazane ..."
Izindlalifa zanamuhla ze-"remore "zokuzalwa komndeni
I-matriarchy ngendlela yayo ye-classical, lapho owesifazane ebhekwa njengenhloko yomndeni, manje itholakala emazweni ase-Afrika, kepha ama-hares ayenqatshelwe kuwo. EGhana naseCôte d'Ivoire, abafazi baxazulula izinkinga ezinkulu zezimali nezindlu, kodwa bakude nenkululeko ebuhlotsheni abahlali basezifundazweni zaseTibet saseSichuan naseYunnan naseziqhingini zase-Oceania.
Imindeni lapho ibizwa ngokuthi izindawo zokuhlala zabesifazane, lapho ogogokazi, amadodakazi abo kanye nabazukulu babo behlala ngesikhathi esisodwa. Umdala emndenini ufanelana nomkhandlu kanye ngesonto, lapho kuxoxwa ngakho izinqumo ezithandekayo zomndeni. Amadoda ahlala emakhaya omama futhi eze emkhatsini wabo kuphela lapho eveza isifiso sabo. Kulesi simo, intombazane eyodwa ingaba namadoda amahlanu noma ayisithupha, kodwa akasoze acabange ngalowo owabeletha. Ingane yezocansi ihlala endlini eyodwa naye. Ngesikhathi besifazane besebenza futhi banesibopho sezingane zabo, amadoda ahlanza indlu futhi abalungiselele ukudla. Ama-feminists amakhulu aseYurophu naseMelika baphupha ngokuphakama okunjalo ngobulili obuqinile.