Abesifazane bakhathazekile kakhulu ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi bakhulelwe ngokushesha emva kokuya esikhathini, ngoba wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi uma ngaphambi kokuvuthwa, sekusekude, manje yisikhathi esiphephile. Sizokuzama ukuqonda le nkinga enzima, echaphazela impilo yabantu abaningi.
Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi zonke izindlela zanamuhla zokuvimbela ukukhulelwa azifanelanga owesifazane, futhi ufuna indlela yokuphuma kule simo. Enye yalezi zindlela zokulawula umsebenzi wokuzala iyindlela yekhalenda, esekelwe ekubalweni kwezinsuku eziyingozi nokuphephile zokukhulelwe.
Iyini indlela yekhalenda?
Ngale ndlela, ngokweqile, izinsuku eziningi zokujikeleza kokuya esikhathini ziphephile, ikakhulukazi ezinsukwini ezintathu zokuqala emva kokuphela kwesikhathi sokuya esikhathini futhi ezinsukwini eziyishumi emva kokuvota.
Isikhathi esibucayi sikhombisa izinsuku ezinhlanu kuphela - usuku lokuvuthwa (ukuphakama lapho ungakhulelwa) nezinsuku ezimbili ngaphambi nangemva kwayo. Okungaphezulu kokukhululwa kweqanda, isikhathi socansi, ukwehlisa amathuba okukhulelwa okungadingeki.
Okusho ukuthi, ngokusekelwe kolwazi mayelana nendlela yekhalenda, impendulo yombuzo - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthi ukhulelwe ngokushesha ngemuva kokuphela kokuya esikhathini, kuyoba nomphendvulo "cha". Kodwa lapha kunamaqhinga angcolile futhi abuye akhulu kakhulu.
Ingabe kukhona abameleli abaningi bezocansi ezifanele, lapho umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini ufana newashi - konke kucacile futhi kunembile kuze kube ngomzuzu? Ngeshwa, cha, futhi lokhu kungaholela ekukhulelwe okungafuneki, uma usebenzisa indlela yekhalenda. Okuncane kakhulu umjikelezo - ngaphansi kwezinsuku ezingu-21, noma isikhathi eside kakhulu - ngaphezulu kuka-32 - kungukuphikisana kokubalwa kwezinsuku eziphephile.
Kungani ngingakhulelwa nje emva kwesikhathi sokuya esikhathini?
Abanye besifazane bangakhulelwa hhayi kuphela ngosuku lwe-ovulatory, kodwa cishe noma yiluphi olunye usuku lomjikelezo - ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini, emva kwalo nangemva kokuya esikhathini. Lokhu kwenzeka ngezizathu eziningi futhi ngamunye uhlukile:
- Uma lo mjikelezo ungavamile, ufushane kakhulu, ngakho-ke awekho izinkathi zenyanga, akufanelekile ukubala "ekubambeni" ukuvota nokubala izinsuku ezidingekayo. Abesifazane abaningi banenkinga ye-hormonal futhi baphoqeleka ukusebenzisa izindlela zokuvimbela ukukhulelwa.
- Ezimweni ezingavamile, kukhona okuthiwa i-ovulation okuzenzekelayo, uma ngaphandle kokujwayelekile, okwenzeka phakathi komjikelezo, kunesinye isikhathi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Imvelo yalesi simo ayihloliswanga, kepha abanye besifazane banayo, ngokuvamile, ngefa.
- Uma umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini ufushane - ngaphansi kwezinsuku ezingu-21, ngokushesha ngemva kokuphela kwenyanga, ukuvota kungenzeka, okuzoholela ekukhulelweni. Ngenxa yalokho, abesifazane abanjalo futhi akudingeki bahlale "ezinsukwini ezihle".
- Esinye isimo siphikisana kakhulu - umjikelezo ubude kakhulu futhi kunzima ukubona izinsuku zokuvuna. Ngisho nokusebenzisa isilinganiso sokushisa esisebusweni njalo ekuseni, nokugcina amarekhodi alezi zinyanga eziningana, kunzima ukubikezela isikhathi esifanele emjikelezweni olandelayo.
- Uma inyangazonke zihlala izinsuku ezingaphezu kwezinsuku ezingu-7, futhi isithombe esinjalo asiyona ukuphambuka kwala wesifazane, kodwa isici ngasinye sodwa, ngokushesha ngemva kokuqeda kokuya esikhathini, ukuvuthwa kwenzeka futhi, ngokufanele, impendulo yombuzo - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuba ukhulelwe emva kokuya esikhathini,
kusobala. - Ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, umzimba womama ubuyiselwa yonke unyaka. Ngisho noma owesifazane enezikhathi, akuphephile ukusebenzisa isibalo sezinsuku, kusukela izinsuku zokuvuthwa zihlala zingazinzile futhi zingashintsha.
Ngakho-ke, ngokuqhathanisa uhlobo lomphumela, singaphetha ngokuthi indlela yekhalenda, lapho kubalwa "izinsuku eziyingozi" nezinsuku "eziphephile" kufanelekile ngamaphesenti amancane abesifazane. Kodwa ngisho nalabo abasizile kahle iminyaka eminingana, ngolunye usuku le ndlela ingaphumeleka.