Uma kukhona isifiso sokubheka ikusasa, ungakwazi ukuchaza iphupho olibonayo. Ngenxa yezibonakaliso ezivela engqondweni, umuntu angafunda ngezenzakalo ezijabulisayo nezibuhlungu, kanye namathuba okuphela kanye nezinkinga. Lapho uhumusha amaphupho, kubalulekile ukucabangela inombolo enkulu yemininingwane yesakhiwo nesakhiwo somzwelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukufaniswa kufanele kufakwe phakathi kolwazi olutholiwe kanye nemicimbi yokuphila kwangempela.
Kungani uphupha njalo ngenyanga?
Ngokuvamile ukuphupha okunjalo kuwuphawu lokugula kwesifo esithile. Incazelo yephupho ikhuthaza ukuthi uqaphelisise impilo yakho. Kukhona nolwazi lokuthi iphupho elinjalo lithembisa ukufika kwezihlobo noma uzobavakashela. Ukuthola ephusheni ukuthi igazi ligeleza emilenzeni, khona-ke isenzakalo esibi sizoba nemiphumela emibi. Uma ulinde izinsuku ezibucayi ukuqala, futhi lokhu akukwenzeki - lokhu kuyisixwayiso sokuthi maduzane uzobhekana nezinkinga futhi ungalindeli usizo lwabanye. Kufanele ukwazi ukuthi igazi lenyanga liphikisana nendoda. Kulesi simo, leli phupho liyisibonelo sokuhlanzeka. Noma kunjalo kungathathwa njengokuncoma, ukuthi ekuphileni kocansi kuyadingeka ukunikeza imizwa eminingi.
Sizobona ukuthi kusho ukuthini uma amadoda elele ukulala kwenyanga. Isakhiwo esinjalo siwuphawu lokulahlekelwa okungahle kuhlotshaniswe, kokubili kokuqukethwe kanye nesigaba somuntu siqu. Umhumushi wephupho uncoma ukubuka amagama akho nokuziphatha, ngoba lokhu kungabangela inkathazo enkulu. Umbono wasemini, lapho igazi leyanga lifaka khona ifenisha noma izingubo, libikezela ukuqala kwesimo esihlazayo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Ukuze ubone njalo ngenyanga ngokubeka, kusho, lo mphupho ubonisa ngokweqile ilukuluku futhi akhuphuki ezindabeni. Ngenxa yalokhu umsebenzi uvame ukubhekana nokuphila komuntu siqu.
Elinye lamaphupho okuphupha ngokulala kwenyanga kuyisixwayiso, inkinga enzima eyobangela amapulani empilweni yakho. Umbono ebusuku, lapho usendaweni yomphakathi uzizwa ungazi ngezinyawo zakho, ungathatha iseluleko ukuthi kufanele uqaphele ukuvela kwamahemuhemu. Yingakho ibhuku lephupho likhuthaza ukuba ungayi emikhosini emnandi. Kubantu ababuhlobo, iphupho ngezinsuku ezibucayi lithembisa ukukhulelwa . Uma iphupho elinjalo libona umuntu ogulayo, kufanele ulindele izinkinga ezinkulu. Ukulibaziseka kwezinyanga ephusheni yowesifazane oyedwa kuyisidingo sokuzijwayeza nendoda enikeziwe ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo. Ukuze ubone i-gaskets endala ngegazi, kusho, maduzane kuyadingeka ukulindela ingxoxo enzima nomphathi ongagcina ngokuxoshwa.
Kungani owesifazane okhulelwe enesikhathi?
Kulokhu, leli phupho liwuphawu oluhle, olubonisa impilo enempilo, kokubili omama nabantu abadala. Noma kunjalo liwuphawu lwezinto ezilula ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Kwezinye izincwadi zephupho kunolwazi lokuthi iphupho elinjalo lithembisa ukubeletha kusenesikhathi, kodwa ngomntwana konke kuyoba khona
Iyini ukugubha njalo ngenyanga?
Ukuphuma kwegazi okunomsoco kuyisixwayiso sokuthi kukhona izinkinga ezinkulu ezizobhekana nokulahlekelwa igazi, isibonelo, ukuhlinzwa noma ukulimala okukhulu. Ngisho nephupho elinjalo lingabonisa ukuthi wonke amandla asetshenzisiwe azovuzwa ngesithunzi.
Kungani bephupha ngokuqala kokuya esikhathini?
Ukulala, lapho inyangazonke ziqala khona, kodwa empeleni lokhu akukwenzeki, kuyisignali engavumeleki ebonisa indlela yokubhekana nezinkinga. Into ebalulekile ukuthi lokhu kuzoba yiphutha lephupho. Uma uphupha ukuthi uhamba ngokuzumayo njalo ngenyanga, kufanele ulungiselele uhlobo oluthile lokulahlekelwa nokugula. Kungabuye kube yizinto ezimbi zezindaba ezimbi.