Ngaso sonke isikhathi abantu babezibuza ukuthi kungani bephupha. Phela, ngamaphupho, ngezinye izikhathi nabantu, kunezenzakalo ezinjalo, okwakungeke kwenzeke ukuthi zenzeke nganoma iyiphi indlela. Noma ngokuphambene nalokho, abanye bacatshangelwa amaphupho amakhulu, abaphupha ngokuphindaphindiwe, abaphoqelele ukuba bahlupheke ngesikhathi esifanele ekuphileni kwabo. Ukuze uqonde ukuthi kungani amanye amaphupho aphupha, ngesisekelo sokuhlaziywa kusukela ekuhlanganyeleni okuqoqiwe iminyaka engamakhulu amaningana, izincwadi zokuphupha zakhiwe, ngosizo lwabantu abangazama ukuchaza ukuthi kungani bephupha iphupho. Futhi yini ongayilindela kulephupho elinjalo.
Ukuhunyushwa kwezincwadi zamaphupho
Thatha, isibonelo, iphupho lapho abantu behamba khona emangcwabeni, phakathi kwamathuna. Ngokuvamile, ukuhamba emathuneni emathuneni akuyona iphupho elibi kunazo zonke - kusho konke ukuhumusha kwezincwadi zamaphupho (iningi) inkambo yokuphila enokuthula empeleni. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ukulala akufanele kube nokuthula. Uma kukhona ukukhathazeka, lokhu kubangela ububha nokuhlukaniswa nezihlobo zabo.
Uma uya emathuneni futhi ufuna ingcwaba ephusheni - okungaqondakali komuntu ukulungiselela ukuzwa ezinye izindaba. Akusho ukuthi kumnandi noma akujabulisi - izindaba nje.
Yini enye eyenza izincwadi zephupho zisho ngamaphupho ngamangcwaba?
Ezincwadini ezahlukene zokuphupha, ukuchazwa kwamaphupho lapho abantu behamba phakathi kwamathuna kungahluka, kodwa hhayi okuningi. Ngokuvamile, umehluko uhlobene nabantu abaqondile kakhulu. Isibonelo, umbhangqwana osemusha emathuneni kusho ukuthi akakaze ahlolwe ukuhlala ndawonye.
Uma umuntu ephupha ngamathuna amadala - kusho ukuthi uzongcwaba zonke izihlobo nabangane bakhe, futhi uzoshiya impilo yokugcina. Uma amathuna asemncane - kusho ukuthi kuzoba khona izindaba mayelana nokubuyiselwa kwesinye isihlobo, mayelana nokuthi babecabanga ukuthi akayena umqashi.