Ukuchazwa kwamaphupho umuntu ubelokhu esebenzelana namashumi eminyaka. Kunezincwadi eziningi ezahlukene zokuphupha ezisiza ukucacisa cishe noma yikuphi iphupho. Ukuthi ulwazi lunembile futhi lunwetshiwe, ochwepheshe batusa ukuba bangacabangi nje kuphela into eyinhloko, kodwa futhi neminye imininingwana, futhi namanje banemizwelo .
Kungani imbono iphupha?
Ezimweni eziningi, iphupho elinjalo liwuphawu oluhle, okusho ukuthela. Uma umuntu enenkinga ngokuphuma kwesidoda, khona-ke umphuphi akakwazi ukuthola isisombululo esifanele isikhathi eside esimweni esinzima. Kwabesifazane, le ndaba ithemba ukukhulelwa kokuqala. Uma isidoda siphupho, khona-ke kungenzeka kube nemigomo nemibono. Kodwa lokhu kungasho ukuthatha ithuba lokuthola indlela yokuphuma kwimeko yamanje. Ukuze ubone umkhondo wesilisa endaweni yokwenza uthando, ngakho-ke kufanelekile ukuqaphela isitha esingathí sina.
Ngendoda, iphupho lapho kudluliselwa khona isidoda, lithembisa impumelelo nenhlanhla. U-Sonnyk usho ukuthi ekugcineni kuyokwazi ukuthola ukwaneliseka okugcwele kuwo wonke amazinga okuphila. Iphupho lapho i-sperm ilahlwa ngaphansi kwengcindezi eqinile kusho ukuthi empilweni yangempela ukwesaba kuzovela emicabangweni yomuntu siqu. Uma uphupha iningi lomuthi ekubhekeni indoda - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuba khona empilweni yomphikisana omkhulu. Ukuze ubulili obuhle, le ndaba ixwayisa ngezinkinga ezivela enkundleni yothando. Elinye iphupho libikezela ukuvela kwengxabano lapho kuyoba nzima ukuhlala khona.
Uma lowo mphupha enika isibhamu ebhange, empilweni yangempela unengqondo mayelana nokungabi nalutho kwakhe kanye nesizungu. Umbono ebusuku, lapho ukujula kuhamba kancane futhi isikhathi eside, uxwayisa ukuthi lo mphupho uzobagweba abanye ngokungenangqondo. Uma ukujula kuqhuma endaweni egcwele, kusho ukuthi maduzane kuzokwazi ukuthola izinhlelo ezihleliwe. Sizoqonda ukuthi iziphi amaphupho eziningi zesidakamizwa okumele zithunyelwe ukuhlaziywa ziyisibonakaliso sokuthi okwamanje lo mphupho akahlanganyeli ebhizinisini lakhe. Kumuntu, icebo elinjalo lisho ukwesaba isizungu. Ukuze ubone iziqukathi ezigcwala isidoda ngephupho, kusho, esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, kuyokwazi ukujwayela umuntu ozoshintsha kakhulu impilo.
Ukulala, lapho insimu enegazi ivela khona, isibonakaliso esibi esixwayisa ngokuhluleka nezinkinga. Uma kwakudingeka ungcolile ngesidoda, empeleni kuzodingeka ulwele ukunakekelwa komuntu okuvela kuye imizwa efudumele. Iphupho, lapho izambatho, ezigcotshwe khona nezidakamizwa, zavela, zixwayisa ukuthi maduzane kuyodingeka ukuba kube nesimo esihlazayo futhi esibi kakhulu - kuyokwenzeka endaweni egcwele. Owesifazane, iphupho, lapho ehlaba khona umama, ubonisa isifiso sokwenza ubudlelwane nomuntu othandekayo kakhulu. Kumalungu obulili obunamandla, le ndaba
Kungani uphupha ngesidoda sesilisa sombala ongavamile?
Isiluleko esinjalo kumuntu sibonisa ukuthi kukhona okuhlangenwe nakho okuphathelene nokuzibandakanya ngokocansi. Enye iphupho elinjalo lingasho ukuvela kwezinkinga zezempilo kwesinye sezihlobo.
Kungani owesifazane okhulelwe ephuza iningi lomuthi?
Umbono onjalo wobusuku ungabonisa ukungabi nobuhlobo obuseduze empilweni yangempela. Qinisekisa ukutshela mayelana nesifiso sakho kumuntu othandekayo ukuze uthole ukwaneliseka.